Who here has a parent or parents whom you thought was a rational human being

but now you realize my parent is and always has been nuts?
This fricking guy:
My father just passed away a couple months ago. He was the greatest father i could have asked for in life. I will never be as great as a man as he was.

Now ,evidently he married a crazy person, my mother. My siblings and I always knew mom was a little off. She grew up very poor to an abusive father that I hope is burning in hell right now for some of the atrocities he committed against his wife and kids.
I have put her in my home for a little while until she can cope with my dad's passing better.
Talking with my siblings about her we started adding things up that didn't make since to us in our childhood. Apparently my mother burned down our house and my dads thriving restaurant a couple years later. The reason why she did this we can surmise is because she wasn't happy with living inthe house and the restaurant was too much work for her. My father after aall this timee always shielded us from the craziness without us knowing. He babied the woman so bad that she still doesn't know how to do things like pump gas , pay bills and organize a household.

TLDR my late father was a saint and my crazy mother is a demon.