re: When a woman "Dumps" you, most of the time you've already checked out mentally.

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At first, nearly every relationship will feel like potential marriage material because you overwhelmingly admire their positive qualities and ignore the negatives.

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The grass is always greener,
When it’s the other side,
But you’ll find that its hue will fade,
After the new has died,
Then you’ll start seeing verdant shades,
O’er every picket fence,
And you’ll begin to wonder,
If the grass you’re on makes sense,

When it’s viewed from the distance,
It always looks so green,
Inviting, lush, alluring,
And flaws remain unseen,
And so you climb the fence, and feel,
Your toes among the blades,
For new beginnings reinforce,
The choice that you have made,

But when you stand there long enough,
The imperfections show,
You’ll realize how much work it takes,
To make the green grass grow,
And soon the heady rush gives way,
To tedium and chore,
Storms show the mud and then the weeds,
Just seem to pop up more,

Upkeep becomes another job,
And all the joy has fled,
But if you don’t invest your time,
The grass will soon be dead,
It’s then that you’ll be tempted,
To just find another yard,
Where someone else has done the work,
And thus it won’t seem hard,

But grass is grass and green is green,
It’s just your point of view,
That changes once the fence is hopped,
What grows, depends on you.

Do you feel better now? You know, after she dumped you and all.

Expert on being a woman here! I can say that from a womans point of view based on my experience- My biggest problem IS all the little unspoken lies and secrets! You know the little secrets stashes of the hotbabe.com!!! Honestly if you spent time with the one you love instead of living in fantasy world you just might learn... sooo much easier to just think about instead of literally investing true energy!!

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A woman almost never jumps ship unless she has a lifeboat waiting

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Yeah, can't disagree with that either.