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re: What is the OT's take on the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater?"
Posted on 6/6/18 at 10:47 am to Spaceman Spiff
Posted on 6/6/18 at 10:47 am to Spaceman Spiff
I don't know that they would cheat again, but I wouldn't stick around to find out.
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Posted on 6/6/18 at 11:16 am to Spaceman Spiff
fact
Posted on 6/6/18 at 11:17 am to Spaceman Spiff
Just roll with it and ask for the video.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 11:28 am to Spaceman Spiff
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What is the OT's take on the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater?" by Spaceman Spiff
Agree to an extent. There are also many views on what constitutes "cheating" in a relationship. Today's mass influx in "dating" apps, and "messaging apps", which are no more than extensions of Ashley Madison or Adult Friend Finder, increase the availability a hundred fold for even the most average person seeking to cheat.
Some people will make the argument that humans aren't "meant to me monogamous", and we are more inclined to seek out multiple sex partners on instinct. I don't know enough science to comment on that either way.
There are good people out there that make mistakes. In the end, the reason why the mistake was made is likely the determining factor if it will happen again.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 11:38 am to RogerTheShrubber
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The temptation is always there, so the odds aren't very good.
Always there. With society the way it is now, I'd be surprised if the number of spouses that cheat are higher than 50%. The REPORTED numbers are around 20-30%, imagine the ones who don't say it.
Also, there is more than one type of cheating involved - emotional affairs are much, much higher than what is thought.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 11:40 am to CoachDon
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There are good people out there that make mistakes.
Is it really a mistake? Once you start talking behind your SO's back, it can't be claimed a "mistake." Affairs are well-thought out decisions way ahead of than they actual affair itself...
Posted on 6/6/18 at 12:53 pm to Spaceman Spiff
I have a story I learned a long time ago. I was at a friends grandads farm. I heard a gun shot, we ran outside, and the old man shot the dog. Beautiful shepherd. My friend asked why he shot the dog. He had a lot of chickens, and said once a dog gets the taste of fresh of blood, he will kill chickens Again. There is no breaking that habit.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 12:55 pm to Spaceman Spiff
I took my girlfriend back after she apologized. We're doing well.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 12:56 pm to Soy Boi
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I took my girlfriend back after she apologized
could never do that
Posted on 6/6/18 at 1:13 pm to nolatrain504
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I have a story I learned a long time ago. I was at a friends grandads farm. I heard a gun shot, we ran outside, and the old man shot the dog. Beautiful shepherd. My friend asked why he shot the dog. He had a lot of chickens, and said once a dog gets the taste of fresh of blood, he will kill chickens Again. There is no breaking that habit.
Great analogy. I've heard where its a thrill so to speak and that they bore with traditional relationships.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 1:17 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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What is the OT's take on the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater?"
Well, ya know what they say....
Posted on 6/6/18 at 1:18 pm to Spaceman Spiff
it's more of a guideline than an actual rule
Posted on 6/6/18 at 1:18 pm to Soy Boi
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I took my girlfriend back after she apologized. We're doing well.
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Soy Boi
10/10 alter idea
Posted on 6/6/18 at 1:30 pm to Soy Boi
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took my girlfriend back after she apologized. We're doing well.
She apologized for the time you caught her
But not the 100 times
Posted on 6/6/18 at 2:10 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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If a couple has a long term affair, will it work? Or would she cheat again? Discuss..
She doesn't want to be with you. She enjoys the company and the thrill of side dick, but y'all aren't gonna be together. Lower you expectations or spare yourself and move on.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 2:12 pm to MobileJosh
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As far as sayings go, it’s one of them.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 2:19 pm to Spaceman Spiff
If SHE cheats on you, you have two options. Find a new one or you get a free pass to do it once too. I couldn’t stay with a girl knowing there was another dudes cock in there after mine initially.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 2:40 pm to OKTGR580
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This post was edited on 8/3/18 at 11:36 am
Posted on 6/6/18 at 2:40 pm to Spaceman Spiff
true.
Posted on 6/6/18 at 3:41 pm to Spaceman Spiff
I was married for 24 yrs. Cheated on an off... Really tried not to...seemed harder the older I was. I excel in most area's, but....that's always been tough, just love women.
I'm just a low life..... I accept it
I'm just a low life..... I accept it
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