Started By
Message

re: Update pg. 7: How to handle a girl that worships her father

Posted on 7/16/17 at 10:14 am to
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 10:14 am to
He is himself measured and found wanting.
Dad, dresses better, has more stuff, has trophies from two sports, one manly, college era, the other country club, recent.
Dong is 8".
In all ways superior.
Just needs to find a studio, let her have his apt.
Posted by lsu2006
BR
Member since Feb 2004
40081 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 10:22 am to
Wow OP is a huge pussy
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
41868 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 10:37 am to
Would be helpful to know if dad is

A. Controlling alpha with the household on lock.

B. Our just money source and hen pecked beaten man.

Posted by nelaZZ
Member since Mar 2017
471 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 10:51 am to
B.
For HTT10, I've provided as much personal info as I am comfortable, considering I have friends on here and I'm not blowing my td id.
If you can't gather an accurate depiction from the questions I've answered, your reading comprehension is shite.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
41868 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 10:57 am to
B is not good baw

How do you tell her dad is a pussy?

Does Mom really run household? Wow he goes middle manage is life away?

We need GoldenNugget here asap


This post was edited on 7/16/17 at 10:59 am
Posted by Benne Wafer
Member since Jan 2015
455 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:25 am to
quote:

Pointing your finger and saying "I want that" is not effectively communicating. Which is what she is essentially doing by saying their relationship is what she wants.

That is effectively communicating. She is telling you EXACTLY what she wants. She is not interested in melding two different viewpoints, she isn't interested in compromising, she told you point blank what she wants and expects.

So either you stay with her and

1) You continue to try and compromise and she resents that you aren't giving her exactly what she wants even though she told you.
or
2) You do what she wants to make her happy and you are the resentful one because you aren't getting what you want.

Either situation doesn't have a good outcome and lord help you if you bring children into the mix as they will magnify any sort of conflict by a billion that can destroy even the most solid of relationships.

So the question is- she told you want she wants, do you want the same? If not, get out.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
32921 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:41 am to
quote:

I'm sure the counselor realized how brilliant you were and decided to end all sessions with you, or he realized that you were an insufferable boob disregarding any sound advice he was trying to convey.
Shut up and go paint the kitchen you pussy.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42837 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:44 am to
quote:


That is effectively communicating. She is telling you EXACTLY what she wants. She is not interested in melding two different viewpoints, she isn't interested in compromising, she told you point blank what she wants and expects.


Glad to see someone gets it.

Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:50 am to
quote:

Glad to see someone gets it.


Good God your wife must have you whipped like Indiana Jones
Posted by Hold That Tiger 10
Member since Oct 2013
24634 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:51 am to
Of course he is saying B. He comes out looking like a little bitch if he says A.

Hes already on record in this thread saying the dad is a good dude and family man.

We dont know the context of what she's saying. He may want to hang out with his friends, blow his money, do his own thing more than be with her which could be causing her to say she wants him to be more like her dad in those ways.
Posted by Supermoto Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2010
10465 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:53 am to
quote:

What bluff am I calling? He's a nice man, I have much respect for him. I just can't take being compared to him everytime I do something differently than him.. Down to cooking my own damn steak

frick that shite. Run from that bitch as fast as you can. You think it's bad now, wait till you marry that mofo. And you think it's bad then, add 10 yrs to it and you will be suicidal.
GET OUT!
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42837 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:55 am to
quote:


Good God your wife must have you whipped like Indiana Jones


No wife.

And exactly how is understanding what she is saying being whipped?

Literally either shite or get off the pot.

The GF laid down her terms.
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:56 am to
quote:


No wife.


You shouldn't even be a part of this thread then
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42837 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 11:58 am to
quote:

You shouldn't even be a part of this thread then


I guess the OP shouldnt be either since it's his GF we are talking about...

What kind of logic are you following here?
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 12:01 pm to
Obviously if they have been together for 2 years then marriage is on the horizon. I don't think you can give advice on this unless you've been down that road (marriage).
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42837 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 12:03 pm to
quote:

Obviously if they have been together for 2 years then marriage is on the horizon. I don't think you can give advice on this unless you've been down that road (marriage).


Does a 5 year relationship (w/ engagement) count?

LOL dude again where's the logic coming from?
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
32921 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 12:06 pm to
quote:

B. Our just money source and hen pecked beaten man.
If he truly is like this, then you're fricked. He puts the pussy on a pedestal with his wife and daughter. A spoiled rotten bitch is just as bad as a daddy hater. You'll never live up to her expectations unless you devote your whole life to pleasing her at your expense.

You can either live your life to please "your little princess" and be a miserable hen pecked shell of a man, or kick her to the curb.
This post was edited on 7/16/17 at 12:11 pm
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 12:10 pm to
quote:

LOL dude again where's the logic coming from?


From your posts suggesting OP should just succomb to his wife's daddy attachment and give up all sense of individuality
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42837 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 12:12 pm to
quote:

From your posts suggesting OP should just succomb to his wife's daddy attachment and give up all sense of individuality


No....

I am suggesting to the OP to realize his GF laid down her terms and its up to him if he wants to meet them or not.

OP said it himself she is dying on that hill.

I think OP out kicked his coverage and doesn't want to leave.

OP still has choice and free will lol.
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/16/17 at 12:16 pm to
Ok I can feel you on that. It didn't come across that way at first.
Jump to page
Page First 13 14 15 16 17 ... 19
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 15 of 19Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram