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Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:02 am to
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why have you held on thus far?



I posted the reason a couple of pages ago...


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He has strung her along because he knows she's a gift and he cannot do better but he also knows he will eventually destroy the relationship because he doesn't believe he deserves her. He thinks she can do better and one day she will realize this and leave him.

Bipolar is a terrible world to live in. That's why he's miserable. He's creating what his mind has convinced him will one day happen. He's convinced himself that he'll be happier alone than constantly paranoid in a relationship.

He's trapped in his mind and that must suck.
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
7115 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:02 am to
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Real question is: Why didn't he mention all these negatives from the get go?


maybe something to do with being bipolar? You seem to be the expert on this though.
Posted by donRANDOMnumbers
Hub City
Member since Nov 2006
17343 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to
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And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.


welcome to marriage
Posted by LSUgolf04
Member since Aug 2009
349 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to
Thad a nice way of saying you manipulate people who openly share their feelings and really care. You are a narcissist as well I assume.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to
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I have problems


Yes.

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Mainly with commitment


Obviously.

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wheres their emotions on their sleeve and needs reassurance.


This is 98% of females.


Posted by 19
Flux Capacitor, Fluxing
Member since Nov 2007
35449 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to
Man, don't you dare feel guilty about this...you're living a lie right now and that is what you feel guilty about. Set her free if you know she's not the one it's the right thing to do.

And don't think stupid like if you pass on her you won't ever meet THE one, cuz you will...life doesn't work that way, it's all about TIMING. I did the exact thing for the exact reasons years ago...she is an atty now and happily married.

I did her a solid cuz I DID care about her...she just wasn't the one.

You are doing the right thing, she sounds like she deserves someone who will treat her like a princess. Let her go find him while you live your life.
Posted by sloopy
Member since Aug 2009
6902 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to
Sounds like every woman to me.
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
39261 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:04 am to
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Because he can't do better.

Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:04 am to
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I admit I have problems. Mainly with commitment and emotions. I'm very introverted and tend to not express my emotions, which is just a recipe for disaster



So I hit the nail on the head with my suspicions that you are either bipolar or have extremely low confidence in yourself when it comes to relationships.

I knew I did when you refused to comment on my constructive analysis...
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to
I don't know about the bipolar part, but the rest is probably mostly true.
Posted by Houma
Houma
Member since Jun 2016
269 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to
well could I have her number?
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42742 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to
Hahahah 19 you fricked up! Attorney? lol bet you wish you really had that one back!
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to
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I did her a solid cuz I DID care about her...she just wasn't the one.


Posted by gamatt53
Member since Nov 2010
4934 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:06 am to
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I'm very introverted and tend to not express my emotions, which is just a recipe for disaster with a person like her who wheres their emotions on their sleeve and needs reassurance.


You should probably just turn gay if you can't handle someone who is emotional and needs reassurance (read: 99% of women)
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16942 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:06 am to
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Now that actually sound miserable...why have you held on thus far?


Good question, I guess because I didn't want to hurt her.

And people get into routines. After a while you just go along with it. I know many people do the same thing, most just won't admit it.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:06 am to
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Hahahah 19 you fricked up! Attorney? lol bet you wish you really had that one back!


he has a smokin hot wife.

Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34834 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:07 am to
Dude if you think every marriage is a lifelong Hallmark holiday movie just give up... the 'perfect' relationship is a myth... but it sounds like the biggest problem with you two is communication.. you are either relaying your emotions incorrectly or not at all...

don't marry a woman, don't be gay, just be your miserable introverted self the rest of your life cause the fairytale shite ain't happening
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11584 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:07 am to
Upvote. Solid usage.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:07 am to
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The majority boil down to one thing, daddy issues.

blah blah blah

And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.


Sounds like she already thinks y'all are married!

So now, post the pics, dammit!
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42742 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:08 am to
This thread is fascinating.

You have the late 20' early 30's crowd calling him an idiot.

You have the folks his age calling him gay.

Then you have the non believers not willing to acknowledge their frick up by trying to tell him its all good.

Fascinating indeed.
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