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Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:02 am to ThatMakesSense
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:02 am to ThatMakesSense
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why have you held on thus far?
I posted the reason a couple of pages ago...
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He has strung her along because he knows she's a gift and he cannot do better but he also knows he will eventually destroy the relationship because he doesn't believe he deserves her. He thinks she can do better and one day she will realize this and leave him.
Bipolar is a terrible world to live in. That's why he's miserable. He's creating what his mind has convinced him will one day happen. He's convinced himself that he'll be happier alone than constantly paranoid in a relationship.
He's trapped in his mind and that must suck.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:02 am to mizzoukills
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Real question is: Why didn't he mention all these negatives from the get go?
maybe something to do with being bipolar? You seem to be the expert on this though.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to rintintin
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And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
welcome to marriage
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to rintintin
Thad a nice way of saying you manipulate people who openly share their feelings and really care. You are a narcissist as well I assume.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to rintintin
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I have problems
Yes.
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Mainly with commitment
Obviously.
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wheres their emotions on their sleeve and needs reassurance.
This is 98% of females.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to rintintin
Man, don't you dare feel guilty about this...you're living a lie right now and that is what you feel guilty about. Set her free if you know she's not the one it's the right thing to do.
And don't think stupid like if you pass on her you won't ever meet THE one, cuz you will...life doesn't work that way, it's all about TIMING. I did the exact thing for the exact reasons years ago...she is an atty now and happily married.
I did her a solid cuz I DID care about her...she just wasn't the one.
You are doing the right thing, she sounds like she deserves someone who will treat her like a princess. Let her go find him while you live your life.
And don't think stupid like if you pass on her you won't ever meet THE one, cuz you will...life doesn't work that way, it's all about TIMING. I did the exact thing for the exact reasons years ago...she is an atty now and happily married.
I did her a solid cuz I DID care about her...she just wasn't the one.
You are doing the right thing, she sounds like she deserves someone who will treat her like a princess. Let her go find him while you live your life.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:03 am to rintintin
Sounds like every woman to me.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:04 am to ThatMakesSense
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Because he can't do better.

Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:04 am to rintintin
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I admit I have problems. Mainly with commitment and emotions. I'm very introverted and tend to not express my emotions, which is just a recipe for disaster
So I hit the nail on the head with my suspicions that you are either bipolar or have extremely low confidence in yourself when it comes to relationships.
I knew I did when you refused to comment on my constructive analysis...
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to mizzoukills
I don't know about the bipolar part, but the rest is probably mostly true.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to 50_Tiger
well could I have her number?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to 19
Hahahah 19 you fricked up! Attorney? lol bet you wish you really had that one back!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:05 am to 19
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I did her a solid cuz I DID care about her...she just wasn't the one.

Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:06 am to rintintin
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I'm very introverted and tend to not express my emotions, which is just a recipe for disaster with a person like her who wheres their emotions on their sleeve and needs reassurance.
You should probably just turn gay if you can't handle someone who is emotional and needs reassurance
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:06 am to Steadyhands
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Now that actually sound miserable...why have you held on thus far?
Good question, I guess because I didn't want to hurt her.
And people get into routines. After a while you just go along with it. I know many people do the same thing, most just won't admit it.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:06 am to 50_Tiger
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Hahahah 19 you fricked up! Attorney? lol bet you wish you really had that one back!
he has a smokin hot wife.

Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:07 am to rintintin
Dude if you think every marriage is a lifelong Hallmark holiday movie just give up... the 'perfect' relationship is a myth... but it sounds like the biggest problem with you two is communication.. you are either relaying your emotions incorrectly or not at all...
don't marry a woman, don't be gay, just be your miserable introverted self the rest of your life cause the fairytale shite ain't happening
don't marry a woman, don't be gay, just be your miserable introverted self the rest of your life cause the fairytale shite ain't happening
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:07 am to rintintin
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The majority boil down to one thing, daddy issues.
blah blah blah
And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
Sounds like she already thinks y'all are married!
So now, post the pics, dammit!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:08 am to gamatt53
This thread is fascinating.
You have the late 20' early 30's crowd calling him an idiot.
You have the folks his age calling him gay.
Then you have the non believers not willing to acknowledge their frick up by trying to tell him its all good.
Fascinating indeed.
You have the late 20' early 30's crowd calling him an idiot.
You have the folks his age calling him gay.
Then you have the non believers not willing to acknowledge their frick up by trying to tell him its all good.
Fascinating indeed.
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