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Are guys who post these ‘the one that got away’ stories secretly gay?

Because it sounds gay.

I turned down a three way with two hotties because I was in a serious relationship at the time.

Shitty thing was, the girl I was dating broke up with me 2 months later.

High school sweetheart. Moved off to college.

Long distance relationship, I had it in my head that I wanted new pussy.

Chased whores snd lost a good girl. I got some strange and she dated another guy for 6 months.

Got back together with her my sophomore year, everything felt right. Our families were happy, started going to church again, felt like the world was right.

A month later found out she was pregnant. Didn't know for sure if it was mine or his.

I loved her, real love. He had moved on and was really a dick to her. Wanted an abortion then a closed door adoption. Wanted nothing to do with her or the baby.

I was 19 and scared but honestly I hoped it was mine. I knew how much it was going to hurt my plans but I loved her more than anything and I wanted to start a family with her and I really didn't want her around that guy.

DNA test came back, the little girl wasn't mine.

We were all crushed but I kept a strong face and told her that god have gifted her and everything would be ok.

He decided he wanted to be involved and there was something about the shame of everyone thinking in that small town that I had been cucked, I couldn't handle it.

I explained it to the girl and we held each other and cried for about and hour.

A part of me died that day. I didn't know it but I was never going to be the same.

I blocked her, burned photos and I disassociated from the world with a road trip to nowhere, I just started driving west on I-10 and threw my phone out of the window somewhere around Beaumont. Drove to cali then north then east. Finally went back to school after the summer was over.

Didn't speak to her again for 10+ years. Just hurt too much. Then one day she added me on social media. She had tried to make it work with the guy and had another baby, he walked out on her and she started a business. She's smoking hot now and successful.

She asked if we could speak and we talked on the phone for 4 hours that night.

I love my children more than life itself and I regret nothing. So I told her we couldn't speak again and haven't since.

But if I'm being honest - there's a connection with that girl that I still have to this day that I was never able to replicate with anyone, not even my wife of 9 years. I love my wife, she's a great person and I cherish her for the mother and wife she is but I know the truth in the bottom of my heart.

I think about her every day. I know that she was the one for me, I had her and I ruined it.

Still god has blessed me with happiness and success but I'll always know in the back of my mind that I let her go and it was my fault that I lost her. Maybe in another life....

Chick from Europe. her visa ran out and I let her go. i was young and not ready to settle down but i should have because she was gone forever after that.

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Now I’m old, resent being a selfish turd, and have accepted that I will probably die alone.

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Never give up man.

I'm the one that got away. Thankfully.

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Can I get them socials?

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Honest to god I would post them but I'm the only guy she ever dated before she got married to that dude for a few years so everyone on here could find my identity in like 2 seconds.

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Solo Cam

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Bruh, that's a story

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Nobody wants to bang you so it's fine.

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Lol no shite. I thought about blacking out her face and sending it but I've seen the ot use a random post about a dog on the side of the road get him back to his owner in like a day.

You sick motherfrickers would find the photo online, connect the dots then I'd have to delete this account so I don't get a divorce lol.

There's a whole lot of backstory I won't get into, but the biggest lesson I learned was to not use store brand duct tape.