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Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
14246 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 4:00 pm to
Progress is not perfection
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
14246 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 4:03 pm to
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Has he told us how much he drinks? All I’ve seen him say is that he “slowed down”.


The fact that he passed out before the wedding leads me to believe hes in the earlier stages of addiction.

Posted by TDFreak
Coast to Coast - L.A. to Chicago
Member since Dec 2009
8150 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 4:04 pm to
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UPDATE: long story short, wife of her coworker caught them together, and they’ve been hanging out a few times. Wife maintains nothing physical happened, but she lied about meeting up with him, multiple times. I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. 3 year marriage and 8 year relationship gone.
Who told you? Did your wife try to get ahead of the news, or did the other spouse reach out to you via facebook?
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
27852 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 8:43 pm to
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This post was edited on 7/12/23 at 9:49 am
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37769 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 8:49 pm to
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I need to be hush hush for now. It’s in my best interests.


You need to delete this thread and move on for your sake. Delete any social media posts that could harm your own stance in the divorce process.

Should this get ugly, you will one day look back and either regret or embrace what was or was not posted. This is coming from personal experience.

Lay low and get your ducks in a row. Find another avenue to vent your frustrations. Work on being the best for you. Your future depends upon it.
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
18895 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 8:51 pm to
So she is getting railed by someone else
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3863 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 9:30 pm to
So do we get pics or what man? Words are good but I wanna see this bitch
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
27852 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 10:01 pm to
Who knows
Posted by Chief Hinge
There and Here
Member since Sep 2018
3132 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 10:05 pm to
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Who knows


Who gives a frick?
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
54476 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 10:10 pm to
I’m praying for other people to pray for you.
Posted by Hold That Tiger 10
Member since Oct 2013
23510 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 11:33 pm to
I hope you don't feel one bit of guilt, or that you are to blame for this. She was clearly finding faults with you to relieve the guilt she had for cheating on you.

So you drink and watch college football on Saturdays. So fricking what? Were you missing work from being hung over? Were you spending so much on alcohol that you couldn't pay your bills? Were you neglecting your wife to sit at a bar and get drunk? If the answer to all of this is no, then I don't see where the problem is. She created the problem to put the blame on you, instead of herself. It seems like you even took major steps towards fixing those "problems." But it wasn't enough, because she was the problem all along.

Sure, the getting so drunk you missed a wedding is not great, and she probably had every right to get pissed. What were the circumstances though? Was there group of wedding people partying the night before, and you just partied a bit too hard? Or was the party over and you kept it going by yourself?

Regardless, you aren't the one to blame here.
Posted by UnoMe
Here
Member since Dec 2007
6299 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 11:39 pm to
What page is the pic of the wife in question on?
This post was edited on 7/11/23 at 11:40 pm
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
10026 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 11:49 pm to
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Sure, the getting so drunk you missed a wedding is not great, and she probably had every right to get pissed. What were the circumstances though? Was there group of wedding people partying the night before, and you just partied a bit too hard? Or was the party over and you kept it going by yourself?



I'm pretty sure someone missed a wedding/baby shower prior, or got so f'ed up someone's MIL had to be called for a ride.

horseshite. Because you don't know how to set offensive enough alarms on your phone is a signal you don't travel from the west coast/internationally a lot. (A lot of 0255 wake ups to catch the bus to Incheon, etc.)

Solve the problem. Dump the chick. Even if you're married, it's time to get out.

If you both actually knew each other well enough, you could have pre-planned controls on this operation. But you're stuck in an operating model where everyone just denies what is actually happening. Book a trip to Europe. Dump her while you're there, when she fricks up yet again.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
27852 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 11:53 pm to
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This post was edited on 7/12/23 at 9:50 am
Posted by donRANDOMnumbers
Hub City
Member since Nov 2006
17186 posts
Posted on 7/12/23 at 12:02 am to
i only hope there were no kids involved... if not, then frick that noise and GTF away.

if so, then be there for your kids first... poon will take care of itself later
Posted by LSUcajun77
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2008
22614 posts
Posted on 7/12/23 at 12:44 am to
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I’m a joke to many folks on here. Fact is, I’m a person.


I can assure you there are way bigger jokes on here than you.

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I’m beginning to think there’s lots of people (my soon to be ex included) that would rather me cease to exist so they can continue their newfound relationships.


What kind of shite is this? Pick your fricking head up my man. You don’t realize it right now, but your life is going to get so much better.
We have chemicals in our brains that work much like an addiction when dealing with the emotions of a loss, especially with relationships. We feel absolutely terrible when we lose someone or something, much like when you quit an addiction. It takes time, but you’re guaranteed to get over it and move forward. We fight the feeling because we’re so consumed with what we lost, how it changes our routine and daily life that we had become so content with.
In time you will move past it, you’ll start to enjoy your alone time, and will be able to learn more about yourself than you ever have. Then like clockwork you’ll meet a woman who’s better for you, loves you more, and because of this experience you’ll appreciate everything good in your life more than you ever have.
Trust me.
I don’t know you, but I want you to exist
Posted by Harry Morgan
Member since Sep 2019
9193 posts
Posted on 7/12/23 at 6:40 am to
Posted by financetiger38
Member since Nov 2022
3182 posts
Posted on 7/12/23 at 7:02 am to
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Get your bloodwork checked and see if TRT is right for you

There it is lmao. TRT has become the go to recommendation for any guy that’s having issues
Posted by PetroBabich
Donetsk Oblast
Member since Apr 2017
4920 posts
Posted on 7/12/23 at 8:13 am to
You best delete it all OP
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