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Posted on 6/17/23 at 1:28 am to TexasTiger08
Posted on 6/17/23 at 1:28 am to TexasTiger08
Marriage is freaking hard. Looking critically and objectively at your own flaws is so hard that most people can’t do it. Paradoxically, it is the only way to heal an unhappy marriage. BOTH partners have to be willing to do some painful introspection. It sounds like you are willing to, which is great news. Someone has to be the one to go first. If you can show, in good faith, your willingness to put in the work.. you might be surprised at how resentment starts to fall away.
(Ignore the c^nts on here saying she is cheating. They are reading your situation thru the dirty lenses of their own shitty experiences. )
(Ignore the c^nts on here saying she is cheating. They are reading your situation thru the dirty lenses of their own shitty experiences. )
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Posted on 6/17/23 at 1:32 am to tilthatday
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It sounds cold, but you might be better off starting over with someone else. A clean slate beats all that baggage.
The baggage always comes with you. That’s why second marriages have An 80% divorce rate. He has problems
to fix with himself. Until he does, no marriage will be a happy one
Posted on 6/17/23 at 3:55 am to TexasTiger08
It seems like we are missing some important details. What happened when you blacked out before the wedding? Reading your post and comments from a female perspective, it seems like one of two things.
You’re an alcoholic and severely downplaying the situation
She’s cheating or wants to move on to someone else
Based off the information you’ve provided, these are the only two reasons the women I know would try to divorce. No woman wants to be starting over freshly single mid thirties. The getting out before having kids is a big factor. I’m really sorry you’re hurting and I hope everything works out for the best
You’re an alcoholic and severely downplaying the situation
She’s cheating or wants to move on to someone else
Based off the information you’ve provided, these are the only two reasons the women I know would try to divorce. No woman wants to be starting over freshly single mid thirties. The getting out before having kids is a big factor. I’m really sorry you’re hurting and I hope everything works out for the best
Posted on 6/17/23 at 11:31 am to TexasTiger08
Going through one right now with 2 young kids, it could be worse baw.
You have to get to the root of the issues for her, as many have said women love to blame others when they know they are doing something wrong. For me personally, the best thing I ever did was NOT going to marriage counseling. My ex suggested it after she was done with the marriage and had already decided she wanted out. If one party wants out for whatever reason, counseling is a waste of time. Sadly, vows mean little to nothing these days to many people.
You have to get to the root of the issues for her, as many have said women love to blame others when they know they are doing something wrong. For me personally, the best thing I ever did was NOT going to marriage counseling. My ex suggested it after she was done with the marriage and had already decided she wanted out. If one party wants out for whatever reason, counseling is a waste of time. Sadly, vows mean little to nothing these days to many people.
Posted on 6/17/23 at 11:51 am to TexasTiger08
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We were trying as recently as a couple of weeks ago
Grats on the sex
Posted on 6/17/23 at 11:56 am to TexasTiger08
Define this drinking episode??
Posted on 6/17/23 at 12:07 pm to TexasTiger08
quote:same
I had a bad drinking episode
quote:same
Nobody in my immediate family has been through a divorce…all have long marriages.
Her family is the exact opposite.
quote:I was faithful.
We’ve been faithful to each other.
Everything happens for a reason. Some events in our lives come with a devastating blow. It's those same events, years later, that lead to amazing blessings.
The best advice I received:
Never speak negatively about her to your friends, your family, or when speaking directly to her.
If you do this, God will handle the rest. Do not frick this part up.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 1:51 am to Supermoto Tiger
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 1:56 am to TexasTiger08
A 2 AM sunday bump? Damn baw. Feel for you.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 1:58 am to TexasTiger08
Hope everything works out baw. If you ever come down to San Antonio first (and second) rounds on me!
Posted on 7/10/23 at 1:58 am to JohnnyKilroy
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 1:59 am to justaniceguy
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 2:01 am to TexasTiger08
Oh boy! :D
Posted on 7/10/23 at 2:35 am to TexasTiger08
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Wife maintains nothing physical happened,
That's a lie 99.9% of the time. You're doing the right thing. Move on.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 2:40 am to WhiteRussianDude
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(Ignore the c^nts on here saying she is cheating. They are reading your situation thru the dirty lenses of their own shitty experiences. )
Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:16 am to TexasTiger08
It’s called, life. This is one of the chapters that sucks. You’ll lose sleep, you’ll lose weight, you’ll lose family and friends. Finding out she cheated will give you closure. It hurts but you needed to know this, in order to move on. Start exercising your body and mind and start today. Do this everyday. You’re going to be on an emotional roller coaster and it’s a tough ride. Now, divorce her and move forward. Never look back because sooner or later, this will be a bump in the road that will not affect you . Hurting is normal and should happen right now. It doesn’t last forever. It’s part of the process. You’re going to smile again, you’re going to love again.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:17 am to WhiteRussianDude
Apparently she’s cheating frick nut. Now go lick your wife’s boyfriend’s cum out of her hole while begging forgiveness
Posted on 7/10/23 at 4:07 am to TexasTiger08
Love all the cucks in here taking her side. She’s not going to frick you by hammering this baw. And for all the “my wife of 40 years still gets my dick hard”…go frick yourselves. We all know you’re lying out your asses.
Some saggy titty bitch with a snatch you can throw a cat through still gets you hard???
And you haven’t had your dick sucked since Regan was President.
Some saggy titty bitch with a snatch you can throw a cat through still gets you hard???
And you haven’t had your dick sucked since Regan was President.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 4:29 am to ManWithNoNsme
Parenting and marriage threads on the OT are peak comedy.
When are you gonna drop the bombshell OP?
When are you gonna drop the bombshell OP?
Posted on 7/10/23 at 5:14 am to Havoc
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So you got really drunk around Easter and NYE and its a huge thing?
He also would get drunk Saturdays during CFB season.
There is always more to the story.
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