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re: Successful (or not) Long Distance Relationships
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:18 pm to goldennugget
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:18 pm to goldennugget
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Women don't go on overseas excursions for the museums.
Man, that's some world class paranoia.
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:19 pm to mattz1122
considering golden nugget has limited relationship history one needs to wonder why he considers himself to be an expert on relationships?
the saddest thing, though, is that he offers advice on topics such as this one misleading thousands of men into eventual depression
the saddest thing, though, is that he offers advice on topics such as this one misleading thousands of men into eventual depression
This post was edited on 5/6/17 at 3:22 pm
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:19 pm to BRgetthenet
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And, 4Hundo+
So I do have a shot!
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:22 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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You are such a pathetic, sorry excuse for a man. Grow the frick up with your stupid bullshite you spew on here. No one should have leverage over the other in a relationship, it's not supposed to be about control. Have you even seen a vagina in real life?
If you don't have leverage, the other one will. Someone always has leverage. There is no equilibrium. And guess what. The more invested party always has the least leverage.
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Which is some of the most pathetic psychobabble ever produced.
Example of two men who are bitter that they are stuck in dead bedroom marriages/relationships with ugly post wall women and take it out on the men like me who don't play by the same rules/game as society brainwashes us to play.
Sorry for trying to give advice to help men with sexual strategy and avoid making mistakes that will lead them to dead end relationships/marriages.
Every woman I have bedded in the past year has been 22 or younger. If that makes me a "pathetic, sorry excuse for a man" than that is what I want to be. Again your anger is rooted in jealousy toward men like myself, not in anger toward my actions or ideals. Men like myself who have sexual success without playing by the rules society tries to set on us. Society says I should instead focus my attention on one girl and one girl only, one girl who is my age and therefore past her peak fertility and past her prime years, shower her with endless praise and validation and gifts and resources and financial support, worship the ground she walks on. No thanks. I don't want to play by those rules.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:24 pm to goldennugget
As an aside, are you a Miscer?
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:25 pm to STLDawg
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Do you have evidence for this, or are you parroting?
If a woman really loved you and wanted to be with you, why would she go on an overseas trip without you?
It's common sense.
If she goes overseas on a trip without you, or even to a domestic place like Las Vegas or Miami, she is going without you for a reason. Whores of a feather, slut it up together. If she is going on these trips with her single(or cheating) friends she will live vicariously through them on these trips and go hit up the clubs and bars and such with the same mission in mind.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:25 pm to STLDawg
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As an aside, are you a Miscer?
No
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:26 pm to goldennugget
Not a single person is jealous of your pathetic arse. There is much more to life then just fricking random chicks, which I seriously doubt you ever do.
You think you're so edgy and cool but I'm willing to bet every guy you share this "advice" with thinks you're a complete douche.
You think you're so edgy and cool but I'm willing to bet every guy you share this "advice" with thinks you're a complete douche.
This post was edited on 5/6/17 at 3:28 pm
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:28 pm to rocket31
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considering golden nugget has limited relationship history one needs to wonder why he considers himself to be an expert on relationships?
"Limited relationship history"
That's because I voluntarily don't do relationships. I do plates. I have too many other goals I want to accomplish first before I ever commit or become exclusive to a single woman.
I had 3 plates in Seattle, all 3 were girlfriend material, but I didn't commit to any of them because I knew I was going to leave Seattle eventually. So when they eventually hit me with the "are you my boyfriend" or "are we exclusive" talk I would have to say no.
Just because one has "limited relationship history" doesn't mean he isn't successful with women. I could easily go onto OKCupid and make some fatty my girlfriend and therefore have "relationship experience".
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:30 pm to DCtiger1
You speak the truth. One night with Mrs. STLDawg>all the nights with the randos I hooked up with in college/post-college.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:30 pm to goldennugget
quote:I am not textbook attractive and want to get into online dating
goldennugget
Advice appreciated
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:30 pm to goldennugget
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Every woman I have bedded in the past year has been 22 or younger. If that makes me a "pathetic, sorry excuse for a man" than that is what I want to be. Again your anger is rooted in jealousy toward men like myself, not in anger toward my actions or ideals. Men like myself who have sexual success without playing by the rules society tries to set on us. Society says I should instead focus my attention on one girl and one girl only, one girl who is my age and therefore past her peak fertility and past her prime years, shower her with endless praise and validation and gifts and resources and financial support, worship the ground she walks on. No thanks. I don't want to play by those rules.
How old are you?
Your parents did a terrible job of raising you. You need a good arse beating
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:30 pm to Rouge
Be funny. Or rich. Or just treat women like they aren't shite, and it'll confuse them into liking you.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:33 pm to DCtiger1
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Not a single person is jealous of your pathetic arse. There is much more to life then just fricking random chicks, which I seriously doubt you ever do.
You think you're so edgy and cool but I'm willing to bet every guy you share this "advice" with thinks you're a complete douche.
Why are you so mad at what I do? Why do you care? Why are you expending all this energy attacking some random on a message board on a Saturday Afternoon?
It's because your anger is rooted in jealousy, as well as self regret that you didn't take the same approach I did when you had the chance.
I agree there is more to life than fricking random chicks - I have only had a handful of hook ups/one night stands and you are right - they aren't as satisfying as one would think they are. I am more about quality over quantity, which is why I find good plates to see regularly, but without the commitment. You can say I am an a-hole for using these girls for sex, but they are the ones who continue to come back. I am not making them stick around. If they want commitment they can just leave, but they don't, even when I tell them I am not their boyfriend.
I haven't even bothered with women since moving away from Seattle. I've been here almost 8 weeks now and I've only had one hook up, one of the first nights I was here when I was still in a hotel. I have other priorities right now.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:33 pm to PaperPaintball92
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Long distance dating sucks. I'll never do it again.
I feel the same way. Met a girl online (not even a dating website) and we just really seemed to hit it off and be partners in crime online. Decided to eventually meet her in person, and it was the only time I've had love at first sight. It escalated very quickly, and dated for a little over a year. The distance got to us eventually and she broke it off. It ripped me apart. Won't be doing it again.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:34 pm to Evil Little Thing
quote:nugget has skins on the wall. What is all of this, and what do you have for credibility?
Be funny. Or rich. Or just treat women like they aren't shite, and it'll confuse them into liking you.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:35 pm to Rouge
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I am not textbook attractive and want to get into online dating
The "I am not textbook attractive" line only works if you have literally done all you can with yourself.
I bet you are more attractive than you realize. Most men can be somewhat good looking if they simply lift, get down to low body fat %, eat right, and dress well.
Honestly the best way to have success with women is to not give a frick. Whether it be in person or online dating. The more it looks like you care, the bigger of a pussy she will think you are because you are trying to be too calculating to win her over. Being too calculating almost always errs on the side of being too nice to the point where its creepy.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:36 pm to STLDawg
unsuccessful.
did it twice.
painful.
lonely.
mistrust abounds.
Don't do it.
did it twice.
painful.
lonely.
mistrust abounds.
Don't do it.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:39 pm to goldennugget
I eat because I'm unhappy
I'm unhappy because I eat
It is a vicious cycle
I'm unhappy because I eat
It is a vicious cycle
Posted on 5/6/17 at 3:39 pm to Rouge
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nugget has skins on the wall. What is all of this, and what do you have for credibility?
I was married to someone who wasn't textbook attractive. He kinda blew me off at first, which wasn't normal for me, and it cemented my affection. Because I was dumb and 21.
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