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re: Single women on social media

Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:25 am to
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:25 am to
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Really? When you get excited about a woman you don’t even want to say good morning, good night, how are you? Sounds like you aren’t that interested in her if you don’t want to say a single word to her for three days


This is what a woman wants projected onto the man's position. You require attention but, for whatever reason, don't want to be frank about it. Instead, language is used to try to make it seem like the man should desire to keep in close contact. Somehow, the man is defective for not meeting the woman's need for attention.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:25 am to
Nope. Certainly could be if I wanted to, though.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:25 am to
Well they most likely will be

People are tired of being alone/lonely, which is its own problem
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:26 am to
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Really? When you get excited about a woman you don’t even want to say good morning, good night, how are you?


I’m out. Good night Paige. Sweet dreams. I’ll TTYL in the GMT
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:26 am to
Soon to be engaged!

I’ve designed my engagement ring
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56697 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:28 am to
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People are tired of being alone/lonely, which is its own problem



I'm pretty comfortable by myself. That's not to say that I don't enjoy companionship (and sex, obviously), but I don't need it to feel whole. I ain't going to put up with bullshite or insanity just because I'm afraid of being alone.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:28 am to
No when two people like each other they desire each other’s company, whether in person or by text
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:29 am to
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Well they most likely will be

Wait do you you know me irl making a statement like that
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:30 am to
Yeah it’s sad how many people feel lonely because they don’t have a partner

I always took 6 months-a year in between my relationships to be with myself
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:32 am to
I'm about 3 months removed and I'm going on a dating tear because I enjoy meeting new people, especially attractive women. None have been interesting enough for me to make an effort, though. Probably a dickhead move on my part, but I don't care.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:33 am to
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I always took 6 months-a year in between my relationships to be with myself

First solid thing you’ve posted ITT
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30200 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:37 am to
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No when two people like each other they desire each other’s company, whether in person or by text


I have given you a man's perspective on the constant need to be in contact. Yet you choose to ignore that and continue to impress your own desires on what communication in a relationship should entail. Just saying "No" and re-asserting your ideas isn't listening, is it? If you can't exchange ideas freely and openly in this shitty thread, how good can you possibly be communicating in a relationship?

TL/DR version: I said what I said, open your fricking ears and learn.
This post was edited on 2/7/20 at 12:39 am
Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:38 am to
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When I want advice about women, I ask old men.

Although I'm reluctant to weigh in, here's some.

I get your points about all the dramatic social media stuff being poorly stated and overbaked-but it doesn't cross anyone's mind that women should be treated respectfully and well? And, that those social media posts had some clues in them?

You're interacting with one tonight, treating her with contempt and disrespect, and are coming off like the kind of guy a grandfather like me warns his granddaughters about.

I don't know anything about this lady other than what she's posted here tonight but I haven't read anything beyond her saying she believes women should be respected.

Y'all seem to disagree on that point. So why not be a man and discuss it civilly?
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
51907 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:40 am to
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Y'all seem to disagree on that point. So why not be a man and discuss it civilly?

Read the whole thread before you go all white knight my man
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56697 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:41 am to
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Y'all seem to disagree on that point.


Not at all.

If you were to ask any of my exes, they would tell you that I've treated them with nothing but kindness, consideration, and genuine affection. I have my own faults, but my treatment of other human beings is not among them.
This post was edited on 2/7/20 at 12:43 am
Posted by gobuxgo5
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 12:50 am to
This post was edited on 2/7/20 at 12:53 am
Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
6427 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:20 am to
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Read the whole thread before you go all white knight my man

Pretty much did. Not much civility there.
No white knight. I was pretty sympathetic with the original OP and the calling out of the social media crap. Too much drama and posturing there and too little action.

Don't date or marry jerks who don't know how to act right and lack character. Good advice for men and women. Pretty much looks like neither men nor women nowadays know how to act and have very little respect for themselves or others.
Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
6427 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:24 am to
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Not at all.

Good to know. I stand corrected on that point.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
51907 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:38 am to
This doesn’t jive at all with your previous post
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56697 posts
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:47 am to
I'm an idiot.
This post was edited on 2/7/20 at 2:08 am
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