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re: Should I be ashamed?

Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:47 pm to
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:47 pm to
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She broke off plans. That's it. They've been casually dating for a few months. Breaking plans to go out with your friends isn't that big of a deal.


You've been out of the game for awhile if you really believe that. Not so much the breaking plans, but being distant leading up to hanging with this guy is a huge tell. Then immediately texting OP after the guy presumably left, and she felt regretful? Girls don't just do that over a relative visiting.
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:50 pm to
hope OP realizes this 4 am thing didn't happen in a vacuum. girl's been shopping for a while - may have even slept with the guy several times - she just saw a good jumping off point and took the shot. dude's got something she wants obviously. she'll probably be single again in 3 months

she may have a little guilt about how things went down but i doubt it
Posted by Moody_Kangaroo
Member since Jun 2014
88 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:54 pm to
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Although, we were never officially exclusive
then, she did nothing wrong
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15899 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:09 am to
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Pretty obvious that I was an option
this is the kind of attitude that had you driving by her place at 4am, dropping some "made for tv" cryptic quote while in public, and then walking off after she responded "what are you taking about". You even finished the day off with a confusing text. I can guarantee you this girl has no idea what's going on. There could have been a few people sleeping over that night and he was the Driver.

You keep up with this passive aggressive BS, you are going to find yourself in the situation again.

Confront her. If it's true, you'll be better for it next time
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 12:14 am
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:09 am to
Since I started college, I've been single longer than I've been in relationships.

Who said it was a relative? I didn't. Being distant doesn't mean anything right now to us readers. For all we know, the OP could be some needy guy who is up this girls arse. By some of his actions, that might not be far off.

Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
75148 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:15 am to
Did OP ever specify if he and the girl had screwed around?
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
25582 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:17 am to
He got an over the pants handy once when she was blackout
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:18 am to
He as in OP? I hope so. He said they've been dating four months.

He as in Stanford guy? No
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
75148 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:19 am to
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He as in OP? I hope so. He said they've been dating four months.

That's what I was thinking. If he hadn't gotten some arse then it sounds like he was a meal ticket.
Posted by Asgard Device
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Member since Apr 2011
11562 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:22 am to
To answer the OP: No, you shouldn't be ashamed. You're only human.

I think one of the first things to accept as a young buck is that you don't own the women that you're casually dating.

Nothing wrong with moving on and there's nothing wrong with pursuing her for a monogamous relationship. Just go with your gut and let the cards fall where they fall.

btw, It didn't sound like she was that crazy about the other guy. She may have been just exploring her options. Any average and above girl is going to constantly have multiple guys trying to get an angle on her. That's also something that most of us guys have a hard time relating to.

eta2: She isn't that into you, either, if you've been dating for that long and she hasn't pressed to be exclusive. (sorry)
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 12:30 am
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
18124 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:23 am to
quote:

For all we know, the OP could be some needy guy who is up this girls arse.


Could be, but if he's being anything close to honest then I don't see it. No way he makes it this long in a casual relationship if he's that needy.
Posted by John McClane
Member since Apr 2010
37166 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:39 am to
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If he was there at 4am, you should've told her to eat a bowl of dicks and proceed to frick each and every one of her friends. Quit being a little bitch and raise the backside of your pimp hand to make her flinch.
damn that's perfect right there
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8892 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:09 am to
And she's here now...
Posted by StripedSaint
Member since Jun 2011
2385 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:12 am to
no excuses for no pic
Posted by Iona Fan Man
Member since Jan 2006
27462 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:13 am to
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And she's here now...


3's company type scenario?
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 1:14 am
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84335 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:16 am to
She doesn't respect you. Kick the bitch to the curb.
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8892 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:17 am to
She needed her iPad back. She left it here earlier in the week.

No other words were exchanged.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84335 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:18 am to
Good. Now bang her friends.
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15899 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:19 am to
quote:

No other words were exchanged
good god....
Posted by Iona Fan Man
Member since Jan 2006
27462 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:19 am to
quote:

She needed her iPad back. She left it here earlier in the week.

No other words were exchanged.



then she isn't confused. she knows you caught her.
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