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re: Should I be ashamed?
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:47 pm to Deactived
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:47 pm to Deactived
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She broke off plans. That's it. They've been casually dating for a few months. Breaking plans to go out with your friends isn't that big of a deal.
You've been out of the game for awhile if you really believe that. Not so much the breaking plans, but being distant leading up to hanging with this guy is a huge tell. Then immediately texting OP after the guy presumably left, and she felt regretful? Girls don't just do that over a relative visiting.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:50 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
hope OP realizes this 4 am thing didn't happen in a vacuum. girl's been shopping for a while - may have even slept with the guy several times - she just saw a good jumping off point and took the shot. dude's got something she wants obviously. she'll probably be single again in 3 months
she may have a little guilt about how things went down but i doubt it
she may have a little guilt about how things went down but i doubt it
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:54 pm to UncleLester
quote:then, she did nothing wrong
Although, we were never officially exclusive
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:09 am to UncleLester
quote:this is the kind of attitude that had you driving by her place at 4am, dropping some "made for tv" cryptic quote while in public, and then walking off after she responded "what are you taking about". You even finished the day off with a confusing text. I can guarantee you this girl has no idea what's going on. There could have been a few people sleeping over that night and he was the Driver.
Pretty obvious that I was an option
You keep up with this passive aggressive BS, you are going to find yourself in the situation again.
Confront her. If it's true, you'll be better for it next time
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 12:14 am
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:09 am to TheDrunkenTigah
Since I started college, I've been single longer than I've been in relationships.
Who said it was a relative? I didn't. Being distant doesn't mean anything right now to us readers. For all we know, the OP could be some needy guy who is up this girls arse. By some of his actions, that might not be far off.
Who said it was a relative? I didn't. Being distant doesn't mean anything right now to us readers. For all we know, the OP could be some needy guy who is up this girls arse. By some of his actions, that might not be far off.
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:15 am to Deactived
Did OP ever specify if he and the girl had screwed around?
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:17 am to Henry Jones Jr
He got an over the pants handy once when she was blackout
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:18 am to Henry Jones Jr
He as in OP? I hope so. He said they've been dating four months.
He as in Stanford guy? No
He as in Stanford guy? No
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:19 am to Deactived
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He as in OP? I hope so. He said they've been dating four months.
That's what I was thinking. If he hadn't gotten some arse then it sounds like he was a meal ticket.
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:22 am to UncleLester
To answer the OP: No, you shouldn't be ashamed. You're only human.
I think one of the first things to accept as a young buck is that you don't own the women that you're casually dating.
Nothing wrong with moving on and there's nothing wrong with pursuing her for a monogamous relationship. Just go with your gut and let the cards fall where they fall.
btw, It didn't sound like she was that crazy about the other guy. She may have been just exploring her options. Any average and above girl is going to constantly have multiple guys trying to get an angle on her. That's also something that most of us guys have a hard time relating to.
eta2: She isn't that into you, either, if you've been dating for that long and she hasn't pressed to be exclusive. (sorry)
I think one of the first things to accept as a young buck is that you don't own the women that you're casually dating.
Nothing wrong with moving on and there's nothing wrong with pursuing her for a monogamous relationship. Just go with your gut and let the cards fall where they fall.
btw, It didn't sound like she was that crazy about the other guy. She may have been just exploring her options. Any average and above girl is going to constantly have multiple guys trying to get an angle on her. That's also something that most of us guys have a hard time relating to.
eta2: She isn't that into you, either, if you've been dating for that long and she hasn't pressed to be exclusive. (sorry)
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 12:30 am
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:23 am to Deactived
quote:
For all we know, the OP could be some needy guy who is up this girls arse.
Could be, but if he's being anything close to honest then I don't see it. No way he makes it this long in a casual relationship if he's that needy.
Posted on 6/30/14 at 12:39 am to 4LSU2
quote:damn that's perfect right there
If he was there at 4am, you should've told her to eat a bowl of dicks and proceed to frick each and every one of her friends. Quit being a little bitch and raise the backside of your pimp hand to make her flinch.
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:13 am to UncleLester
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And she's here now...
3's company type scenario?
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 1:14 am
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:16 am to UncleLester
She doesn't respect you. Kick the bitch to the curb.
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:17 am to SabiDojo
She needed her iPad back. She left it here earlier in the week.
No other words were exchanged.
No other words were exchanged.
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:18 am to UncleLester
Good. Now bang her friends.
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:19 am to UncleLester
quote:good god....
No other words were exchanged
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:19 am to UncleLester
quote:
She needed her iPad back. She left it here earlier in the week.
No other words were exchanged.
then she isn't confused. she knows you caught her.
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