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re: Should I be ashamed?
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:40 pm to UncleLester
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:40 pm to UncleLester
1. You need to know exactly where every relationship stands all the time, even from first meeting someone. None of this vague "we will see what happens" bullshite. At first you won't need to ask her or have a conversation about it, but you should be able to feel out where the relationship stands. After it starts to get serious then you should talk about it. Then shite like this won't catch you off guard.
2. If she was getting distant and canceling dates, that's the end bro. She met some other dude, went on a few dates and probably fricked him that night. Then he bailed in the morning and she blew up your phone, knowing you would most likely come crawling back.
3. Always have girls in varying states of a relationship until one gets exclusive for both parties. Then this shite will never happen.
2. If she was getting distant and canceling dates, that's the end bro. She met some other dude, went on a few dates and probably fricked him that night. Then he bailed in the morning and she blew up your phone, knowing you would most likely come crawling back.
3. Always have girls in varying states of a relationship until one gets exclusive for both parties. Then this shite will never happen.
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Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:40 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
quote:I'm talking about the comment he made to her at the BBQ and the text he sent. Not you
How am I being cryptic?
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 10:42 pm
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:42 pm to Puck82
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So this chick invited the dude knowing you would be there? Or did the couple invite him? Either way it's shitty because if Stanford is a coworker of your ex and the couple you better believe the couple knew she was playing you or both of you.
This
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:43 pm to JudgeHolden
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Stanford
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C-Class
I would have expected better.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:44 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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Was he really bragging about his night with her?
Nope. He never mentioned her. I made that part up.
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Was it common knowledge amongst the group that yall were an item?
The hosts and some others knew that we were dating. A good bit of people there that I didn't know.
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We're the three of you ever in the group together?
Nope.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:46 pm to UncleLester
Oh well man. Try not to lose too much sleep over it. It's over an that's a good thing. Learning experience. Can't win em all.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:48 pm to UncleLester
I haven't read this whole thread, but unless they slept together, I wouldn't throw away a relationship with a girl that you really like and have invested a lot of time with. The least you can do is hear her out.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:49 pm to UncleLester
How did she react when you made the comment about him bragging? How were you able to leave the party without her noticing after something like that?
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:52 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
Great question. Of all the possible responses, her just shrugging and saying "Whatever" seems least likely.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:53 pm to crimsonsaint
Come on. 99% chance they did. Either way frick her. She broke off plans to hang out with another guy and he slept over. Lester made the right call to bail
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:53 pm to crimsonsaint
Ok, Uncle. Looks like you posted in February that you were FWB and that your relationship had been "vague" for a couple of months. So that's about seven months you've been getting the occasional tap without forcing the commitment issue.
Be honest, now. Was she just an option for you? Seems like maybe you were unwilling to risk the P you were getting by forcing the issue.
Be honest, now. Was she just an option for you? Seems like maybe you were unwilling to risk the P you were getting by forcing the issue.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:53 pm to Walking the Earth
Yeah, or OP was even more wrong about their relationship than he even realized.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:54 pm to crimsonsaint
quote:this.
I wouldn't throw away a relationship with a girl that you really like and have invested a lot of time with. The least you can do is hear her out.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:58 pm to jeff5891
That's how you end up looking weak and getting treated like a doormat man.
Lester needs to move on.
Lester needs to move on.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:59 pm to Puck82
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Come on. 99% chance they did.
Sure thing. And then she's going to go to a party that she knows that two dudes that she's fricking will both be there?
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:00 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
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How did she react when you made the comment about him bragging?
She said my first name followed by "what are you talking about?" I just looked in his direction for a moment and walked away.
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How were you able to leave the party without her noticing after something like that?
Just walked 20 paces to my car and drove off. It was on the beach by a lake. I had already said good byes to people there I knew. And I wasn't going to say anything at all to her until she made the comment about "lame weekends".
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:01 pm to oR33Do
quote:or be a man and talk to her straight up. If he keeps reacting the way he did with future problems, shite ain't gonna change. His self doubt will get the best of him
That's how you end up looking weak and getting treated like a doormat man.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 11:02 pm
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:01 pm to crimsonsaint
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n't read this whole thread, but unless they slept together, I wouldn't throw away a relationship with a girl that you really like and have invested a lot of time with. The least you can do is hear her out.
Dude she broke off plans with him to frick another guy. Hell fricking no don't hear that bitch out. She treated him like a fricking doormat. Let the stanford guy have her and good riddance. There is plenty of pussy in the world.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:03 pm to TheDrunkenTigah
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Would have been her very first response. He wasn't subtle.
This. If the guy was a cousin or gay friend she'd immediately came out with that response... Letting him walk off was a sure sign it was someone she hooked up with.
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:04 pm to crimsonsaint
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Sure thing. And then she's going to go to a party that she knows that two dudes that she's fricking will both be there?
Yeah. She boffed him Friday. This party has probably been in place for a while.
She made it pretty clear to OP that she wasn't that into him, based on everything I read.
Uncle, sorry, brah. But next time when you push exclusive and she's vague, either accept that she's going to be with other guys or dump her then.
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