re: Relative hid being positive for Covid-19, visits grandparents

This is when you need a family lawyer with some free time. Just run him through the ringer for fun.

That would depend but I think it’s time to kick the guys arse.


I had a younger cousin (by about 5 years, I was probably 28,, he was around 23 that was always a trouble maker, drugs and never held a job more than a week. He would constantly call his poor mom and ask for $20 late at night several times a week and that was a lot of money to her but she kept giving it to her until she started stopping answering the phone. He stole their Christmas presents one year Christmas Eve night.

He asked my grandparents for money one time and my paw paw said no way. Paw paw got sick and went in the nursing home and died a few week later. The younger cousin started suddenly going to my maw maws often but as far as we know, we didn’t ask her for money but he was about to.

So I drove over there (about an hour and a half) and his brother and I went to his dads house and called him outside and told him that if he asked asked maw maw for money one single time, even from her dime collection (she had one) we’d beat the brakes off of him together. He and his dad were both really trashy fricks and it kinda got ugly but we let his dad know we’d kick his arse too if he tried to stop us. It was also the dad of my cousin that was with me.

It was a fair warning and we had full intentions of doing it. He never asked her and she got sick suddenly 3-4 years later and unfortunately passed away. Sometimes you have to do trashy things like like if you have trashy family members.

I’m completely convinced that we did the right thing and that we kept his grubby hands off her $40k in the bank, a little at a time.

Why is a 22 year old staying with his grandparents for 3 days?