re: Raising another mans kids

Sounds like your arse needs to grow up before you commit. Just keep banging baw.

Let me guess. You are in your early 20s max.

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it's hard to find a woman without a kid unless you want one that's 20.

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every woman over 20 has a kid?

Where do you hang out creepster?

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Probably because they are decent people, not total narcissists.

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Just because someone marries a woman with children doesn't mean they're not a narcissist. For instance, my ex-wife has some douchebag now. We have two kids together, and I've already had to call child services on him. He doesn't give a damn about my kids, but my ex is way out of his league. She's pretty selfish too, so it's probably not going to end well. And my kids will unfortunately be along for the ride.

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sounds like you could get full custody

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If I could afford the court fees and lawyer, I'd try.

Why do you assume that if a man marries or dates a woman who has a child they would be settling?

You are under zero obligation to date a person with a child if you choose not to, but that doesn't apply to everyone else.

Life happens to us all.

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Come on baw, you really gonna try and compare raising a couple kids that aren't yours to owning a dog?

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It shows compassion.

I recently went to a Petsmart. The cashier was talking about how nice all her customers were. She said her last job was as a waitress and everyone was either rude or detached.

I told her to look around and see the type of people in the store. The customers were caring people who were compassionate and cared about things other than themselves.

The healthcare field is also populated with caring people. They take care of kids that are not their own....

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Why do you assume that if a man marries or dates a woman who has a child they would be settling?

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When I was a single man I would never have dated a divorced woman or woman with a kid. Do you not think that women who have been through a divorce and especially women who already have kids bring extra baggage? There isn't a finite amount of women out there.

Pretty telling to me that most of the people that have married someone with a kid the real Dad has abandoned the family. This would raise even more alarms in my mind because why would the woman make such an awful choice to marry and reproduce with someone that would abandon their family?

Like I said, there are many fish in the sea so why deal with that?

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lol dude having gone through a divorce is not necessarily a red flag.

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You're correct there are cases where a spouse cheats and other similar circumstances. However, there is still going to be major baggage that comes along with this woman.

You shouldnt. Single women now proudly parade their kids around like trophies when those women should be shamed. Their kids had to grow up in a broken family because the mother wanted to be a whore.