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re: Question about bringing in a second woman...
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:40 pm to Darth_Vader
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:40 pm to Darth_Vader
I believe you. I could also tell you about the many happy couples I know who claim it brought them closer. Anecdotal evidence is anecdotal.
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:41 pm to Mattwells90
quote:
No thanks. Already know.
The next step is applying that knowledge.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:42 pm to UpToPar
Has a coke addict ever harmed you personally?
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 11:42 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:43 pm to northshorebamaman
So you're changing your position to sex actually does mean something then?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:43 pm to Mattwells90
Well, there's the issue with taxes and prison. 
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:43 pm to Mattwells90
quote:
So you're changing your position to sex actually does mean something then?
Are you drunk? Serious question.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:44 pm to northshorebamaman
Answer the question. You can't change the fact that either
1-sex is meaningful and it's disrespectful to share a meaningful relationship when you're committed and married. (That's what cheating is)
Or
2-sex is meaningless and you're being unfair in forcing permission from your wife.
1-sex is meaningful and it's disrespectful to share a meaningful relationship when you're committed and married. (That's what cheating is)
Or
2-sex is meaningless and you're being unfair in forcing permission from your wife.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 11:46 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:45 pm to Mattwells90
This is what I said. I've answered your question.
quote:
This would be my point as well. I do feel close to my wife after sex, I don't feel close with the random. That's what people mean when they say they can separate sex from love. They don't mean they have meaningless sex with their spouse. I can have a conversation with my wife and we can share a deep connection. I can also have a conversation with someone at work and we're just having a conversation.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:46 pm to northshorebamaman
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I believe you. I could also tell you about the many happy couples I know who claim it brought them closer. Anecdotal evidence is anecdotal.
Exactly, that's why I put in the disclaimer that all I was posting was what I've been told first hand by couples who had done these things. I'm sure there are others who has the opposite reaction.
I would like to know the percentages of how many marriages are helped vs how many are hurt by this sort of behavior.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:46 pm to northshorebamaman
So it means something but only sometimes. Ok.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:46 pm to Mattwells90
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Message Posted by Mattwells90 Has a coke addict ever harmed you personally?
Well, I guess there is no way to know for sure, but I've been robbed before. Whether it was to fuel a drug addiction or not, idk.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:47 pm to Darth_Vader
@darth
It'd be hard to know because getting honest answers from a large enough sample size would be difficult.
It'd be hard to know because getting honest answers from a large enough sample size would be difficult.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:47 pm to Darth_Vader
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I would like to know the percentages of how many marriages are helped vs how many are hurt by this sort of behavior.
Probably impossible to tell. Most aren't going to identify themselves as swingers.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:48 pm to Mattwells90
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So it means something but only sometimes. Ok.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:48 pm to northshorebamaman
So you admit you have no proof that your position is beneficial to relationships?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:50 pm to northshorebamaman
The fact that you're making the point that literally the same deeply meaningful act means something sometimes and not other times is enough for me to say, I'm out of this convo. There is seriously nothing more to say.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:50 pm to white perch
Watch friends
Same thing happened to Ross
His wife left him for the other woman
Same thing happened to Ross
His wife left him for the other woman
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:50 pm to Mattwells90
Do you love your mother?
Do you have sex with your mother?
Sex and love are not mutually exclusive.
Do you have sex with your mother?
Sex and love are not mutually exclusive.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:50 pm to Mattwells90
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So you admit you have no proof that your position is beneficial to relationships?
I'm not the one that made that point. I just said it was beneficial to mine and others that I know.
In other words, as much proof as you've provided to the contrary(Bible not withstanding).
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 11:51 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:51 pm to CoCo311
@coco
A basic psychology class would tell you that there are different kinds of love.
A basic psychology class would tell you that there are different kinds of love.
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