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re: People who choose to not have kids
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:03 pm to tgrbaitn08
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:03 pm to tgrbaitn08
quote:Sometimes sure.
I can and I do
There are absolutely times you will miss something due to your kid. Unless you are the a-hole husband from nurses post
This post was edited on 12/20/17 at 4:04 pm
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:04 pm to Deactived
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apologize please
sorry, not sorry
I love being able to use my kids as excuses...because no one will ever question you when you bring kids into the equation.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:05 pm to lsupride87
I have no problem with people who don't want to have kids
But it's strange to me when people get married and don't want kids. Why get married in the first place? You're just gonna get sick of that person after 20-30 years anyway.
But it's strange to me when people get married and don't want kids. Why get married in the first place? You're just gonna get sick of that person after 20-30 years anyway.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:05 pm to Pettifogger
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I will say that working in law I've seen this scenario a few times. I'm in the same boat as far as SO career goes, but mine would gladly trade a partnership for being a stay at home mom at this point. Of course, I've seen that play out differently too (career driven professional women convinced they want to drop it all for family life and end up going to back to work within a couple of years).
You never know. Things could change of course but if I were betting money, I wouldn't bet it on her wanting children enough to ever do it. Based on what I know of her. And also her other reasons unrelated to work.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:06 pm to Deactived
quote:I make enough money my wife doesnt work......
dont you have a clan you should be presiding over right now?

Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:06 pm to RogerTheShrubber
I meant she couldn't enjoy herself with her husband texting her phone non stop with "how much longer are you going to be out" texts.
She loves her child and husband dearly...she just needed a little time to herself to enjoy chatting and drinking with an old friend.
She loves her child and husband dearly...she just needed a little time to herself to enjoy chatting and drinking with an old friend.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:07 pm to Deactived
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Im talking about young kids. None of my friends have teenagers
Even when they were younger we could get a babysitter or have friends/family watch them. Unless it's an infant it's not that hard. People use their kids as an excuse when they really don't want to go.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:08 pm to lsupride87
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There are absolutely times you will miss something due to your kid.
absolutely, it's called sacrifice...thats what I sacrificed for getting to spray my wife's guts.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:10 pm to lsunurse
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I meant she couldn't enjoy herself with her husband texting her phone non stop with "how much longer are you going to be out" texts.
That's a husband problem, not a kid problem. He sounds like a needy idiot
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:10 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
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Having kids while having enough money for regular baby sitters, vacations, help around the house, etc. doesn't seem bad at all.
My in laws had a nanny they even brought on vacation with them
That's my plan.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:11 pm to lsunurse
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I meant she couldn't enjoy herself with her husband texting her phone non stop with "how much longer are you going to be out" texts.
Be careful, he might murder her.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:11 pm to TH03
quote:Bruh, having an older niece is even better. You bring her, and she watches the kids in exchange for a free vacation and food. No direct payments neccessary
My in laws had a nanny they even brought on vacation with them
That's my plan.
This post was edited on 12/20/17 at 4:12 pm
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:12 pm to Pecker
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Pecker
I will say this. If you think there is a chance yall will decide on kids later on....consider getting some tests done now to see where you stand fertility wise. Many fertility doctors offer this kind of testing to couples that aren't ready to have kids yet...but just want to make sure they won't have trouble when they are ready.
You take for granted that you can just have kids when you want. I would have made different choices if I knew then what I know now.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:12 pm to Howyouluhdat
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Guess what? life at some point isn't about you anymore you fricking prick. Grow the frick up and be a man
my life isn't about me? interesting
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:13 pm to redneck
You selfish dick, making your life all about you! 
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:14 pm to TH03
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You selfish dick, making your life all about you
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:16 pm to redneck
Your life really isnt all about you, you got married......
I just dont get the no kids but married route
I just dont get the no kids but married route
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:17 pm to lsupride87
My life will always be about me. I will do things out of love for my wife or future children, but I'm the one making the decision to do so.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:17 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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No issue with them until they try to provide advise on kids or parenting. Then, frick em.
This is such a strange stance, one completely separate from how we think about other areas of life, or just reason in general. It's an appeal to authority.
I can understand the differences between a good parent and a bad parent. And if we agree that bad parents exist, then it stands to reason that having a child does not make one an expert on parenting. So what makes one a good parent, if not having a child?
Advice on parenting is either good or bad. The source is irrelevant. If I take my advice and make my mother offer it to you, will it then be good advice?
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:18 pm to TH03
quote:You are making that decision because you realize your life isnt all about you.......
My life will always be about me. I will do things out of love for my wife or future children, but I'm the one making the decision to do so.
potato/potatoh though
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