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re: People who choose to not have kids

Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:03 pm to
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
111402 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:03 pm to
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I can and I do
Sometimes sure.

There are absolutely times you will miss something due to your kid. Unless you are the a-hole husband from nurses post
This post was edited on 12/20/17 at 4:04 pm
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:04 pm to
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apologize please



sorry, not sorry


I love being able to use my kids as excuses...because no one will ever question you when you bring kids into the equation.
Posted by WicKed WayZ
Louisiana Forever
Member since Sep 2011
34164 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:05 pm to
I have no problem with people who don't want to have kids


But it's strange to me when people get married and don't want kids. Why get married in the first place? You're just gonna get sick of that person after 20-30 years anyway.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:05 pm to
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I will say that working in law I've seen this scenario a few times. I'm in the same boat as far as SO career goes, but mine would gladly trade a partnership for being a stay at home mom at this point. Of course, I've seen that play out differently too (career driven professional women convinced they want to drop it all for family life and end up going to back to work within a couple of years).


You never know. Things could change of course but if I were betting money, I wouldn't bet it on her wanting children enough to ever do it. Based on what I know of her. And also her other reasons unrelated to work.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
111402 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:06 pm to
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dont you have a clan you should be presiding over right now?

I make enough money my wife doesnt work......


Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:06 pm to
I meant she couldn't enjoy herself with her husband texting her phone non stop with "how much longer are you going to be out" texts.

She loves her child and husband dearly...she just needed a little time to herself to enjoy chatting and drinking with an old friend.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38338 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:07 pm to
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Im talking about young kids. None of my friends have teenagers

Even when they were younger we could get a babysitter or have friends/family watch them. Unless it's an infant it's not that hard. People use their kids as an excuse when they really don't want to go.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:08 pm to
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There are absolutely times you will miss something due to your kid.



absolutely, it's called sacrifice...thats what I sacrificed for getting to spray my wife's guts.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299293 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:10 pm to
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I meant she couldn't enjoy herself with her husband texting her phone non stop with "how much longer are you going to be out" texts.


That's a husband problem, not a kid problem. He sounds like a needy idiot
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:10 pm to
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Having kids while having enough money for regular baby sitters, vacations, help around the house, etc. doesn't seem bad at all.


My in laws had a nanny they even brought on vacation with them

That's my plan.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:11 pm to
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I meant she couldn't enjoy herself with her husband texting her phone non stop with "how much longer are you going to be out" texts.


Be careful, he might murder her.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
111402 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:11 pm to
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My in laws had a nanny they even brought on vacation with them

That's my plan.
Bruh, having an older niece is even better. You bring her, and she watches the kids in exchange for a free vacation and food. No direct payments neccessary
This post was edited on 12/20/17 at 4:12 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:12 pm to
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Pecker



I will say this. If you think there is a chance yall will decide on kids later on....consider getting some tests done now to see where you stand fertility wise. Many fertility doctors offer this kind of testing to couples that aren't ready to have kids yet...but just want to make sure they won't have trouble when they are ready.


You take for granted that you can just have kids when you want. I would have made different choices if I knew then what I know now.
Posted by redneck
Los Suenos, Costa Rica
Member since Dec 2003
54181 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:12 pm to
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Guess what? life at some point isn't about you anymore you fricking prick. Grow the frick up and be a man


my life isn't about me? interesting
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:13 pm to
You selfish dick, making your life all about you!
Posted by redneck
Los Suenos, Costa Rica
Member since Dec 2003
54181 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:14 pm to
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You selfish dick, making your life all about you


no shite, I guess I need to be a man and pop some kids out
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
111402 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:16 pm to
Your life really isnt all about you, you got married......


I just dont get the no kids but married route
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:17 pm to
My life will always be about me. I will do things out of love for my wife or future children, but I'm the one making the decision to do so.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:17 pm to
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No issue with them until they try to provide advise on kids or parenting. Then, frick em.



This is such a strange stance, one completely separate from how we think about other areas of life, or just reason in general. It's an appeal to authority.

I can understand the differences between a good parent and a bad parent. And if we agree that bad parents exist, then it stands to reason that having a child does not make one an expert on parenting. So what makes one a good parent, if not having a child?

Advice on parenting is either good or bad. The source is irrelevant. If I take my advice and make my mother offer it to you, will it then be good advice?
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
111402 posts
Posted on 12/20/17 at 4:18 pm to
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My life will always be about me. I will do things out of love for my wife or future children, but I'm the one making the decision to do so.

You are making that decision because you realize your life isnt all about you.......


potato/potatoh though
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