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re: OT relationship hypothetical
Posted on 7/9/19 at 9:39 am to Paige
Posted on 7/9/19 at 9:39 am to Paige
quote:
Only go for coffee if your partner is ok with it
Otherwise it’s a betrayal
Only the partner can decide what is a betrayal.
I wouldn't want to risk it to find out.
Fact is OP still has a thing for this flame or he wouldn't be asking.
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Posted on 7/9/19 at 9:41 am to SG_Geaux
quote:
Fact is OP still has a thing for this flame or he wouldn't be asking.
True, tbh. Not gonna act on it, but true.
Posted on 7/9/19 at 9:43 am to Jim Rockford
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You have a funeral to go to. An old flame has texted that she will be there and would like to see you. You may go for coffee afterward.
Coffee, eh?
Posted on 7/9/19 at 9:51 am to Jim Rockford
If this was a situation your SO was facing, how m/what would you expect them to do?
Would you care if they went with an old flame to hang out without telling you?
Do onto others what you would like to be done to you.
Would you care if they went with an old flame to hang out without telling you?
Do onto others what you would like to be done to you.
Posted on 7/9/19 at 9:53 am to Jim Rockford
This has disaster written all over it.
You should do it and come back to the OT and let us know how it goes.
You should do it and come back to the OT and let us know how it goes.
Posted on 7/9/19 at 10:04 am to DVNO
She went to her HS reunion solo a few weeks ago, FWIW.
Posted on 7/9/19 at 10:07 am to Jim Rockford
fact is... if you do it and tell, you're fricked. if you ask and tell, with any indication that you might would do it, you're fricked. matter of fact, if you say anything about the text, you're more than likely fricked.
not today, not tomorrow, maybe not next week or even next month, but you can bet your sweet arse that shite will come back and haunt you.
best bet... Ill see you there, great to hear from you, but I'm sorry, i won't be able to do anything afterwards. my gf/wife wouldn't like that, and i certainly wouldn't like her doing that to me, so, maybe ill see ya there. peace.
not today, not tomorrow, maybe not next week or even next month, but you can bet your sweet arse that shite will come back and haunt you.
best bet... Ill see you there, great to hear from you, but I'm sorry, i won't be able to do anything afterwards. my gf/wife wouldn't like that, and i certainly wouldn't like her doing that to me, so, maybe ill see ya there. peace.
Posted on 7/10/19 at 3:05 pm to Jim Rockford
We hugged, visited, hugged some more and promised to stay in touch. Absolutely nothing untoward happened. Shame on you degenerates for thinking nefarious thoughts about an innocent friendship.
Dammit, she still makes me weak in the knees.
Dammit, she still makes me weak in the knees.
Posted on 7/10/19 at 3:34 pm to Jim Rockford
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You have a funeral to go to. An old flame has texted that she will be there and would like to see you. You may go for coffee afterward. Are you obligated to tell your spouse/SO?
Asking for a friend.
What would you want your spouse to do in this situation?
There’s your answer.
Posted on 7/10/19 at 5:05 pm to Jim Rockford
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Dammit, she still makes me weak in the knees.
How old a boy are ya and at what age did this relationship take place?
Posted on 7/10/19 at 5:12 pm to AUstar
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How old a boy are ya and at what age did this relationship take place?
Not a senior citizen but not wet behind the ears either. College.
Posted on 7/10/19 at 5:19 pm to Tigerbait357
Posted on 7/10/19 at 5:24 pm to Jim Rockford
Why does your college girlfriend have your phone number if you haven’t been in touch previously?
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