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re: Older folks that never had kids

Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:35 pm to
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
35909 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:35 pm to
I’m about to turn 45, make really good money, love my life, have a great niece and nephew, never had a burning desire and get annoyed after being around kids for about 6 hours. I’m good and not worried.
Posted by PaperPaintball92
Fly Navy
Member since Aug 2010
5329 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:36 pm to
I fear my future children will have to grow up around all the kids who have bullshite parents.
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
49830 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:37 pm to
Are selfish bastards and you should be made to suffer like the rest of us.
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
35909 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:38 pm to
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I now realize our existence is to breed and pass down better humans or build something great


A lot of people missed that memo
Posted by Howyouluhdat
On Fleek St
Member since Jan 2015
8939 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:40 pm to
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I applaud the adults who don’t want kids, didn’t have kids.



Why?
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
2056 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:40 pm to
Everyone is different.

I support your decision as long as you don't mess with my life or shove your lifestyle down my throat.

Be a good neighbor

Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
35909 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:42 pm to
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I feel bad for adults who have no kids and/or have no spouse. It's just my opinion but I think their lives are missing integral pieces. I've generally found them to be overall sad and it becomes apparent around the late 30s early 40s.


Spare us baw, we’re good and it’s by choice.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
89083 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:43 pm to
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Vacations, extra money, and free time can only go so far.
Said nobody ever
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
89083 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:44 pm to
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I feel bad for adults who have no kids and/or have no spouse. It's just my opinion but I think their lives are missing integral pieces. I've generally found them to be overall sad and it becomes apparent around the late 30s early 40s. Friend and family gatherings and everyone attends with the kids and there's the one guy or girl solo.
Jesus Christ
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
35909 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:49 pm to
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I can’t imagine how hollow and boring life would be after 50 without kids. I’d be rich as frick, but wouldn’t have much to look forward to.


Spoken like someone who is saddled with kids he can’t give back. This life is amazing baw.

Nieces and nephews give you all the good without the annoying parts.
This post was edited on 4/30/23 at 5:51 pm
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68659 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 5:55 pm to
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I’m 37 and no kids/family. Hasn’t been an issue up to this point. I enjoy life day by day.


Interesting way to say I’m a lonely guy and women have found something continuously wrong with me.
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
41102 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 6:06 pm to
My wife and I wanted kids, but after multiple miscarriages, she didn't want the trauma of going through another, and we're getting to the age where it's not going to happen. I get self-conscious that my wife and I are the only ones without kids in our social circle. It's also made me really hate some in the abortion crowd. It's one thing to be pro-choice. It's another to brag about terminating your unborn child when there are people who can't have kids who would give anything to have them.
Posted by Gus007
TN
Member since Jul 2018
14218 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 6:06 pm to
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Do you get to an age and wonder what you’re supposed to do next?



That is not limited to folks who never had kids.

When my second child went off to college, I remember thinking, what do I do for the rest of my life.
I handled it well. I just did more rabbit hunting and watched more sports.
Now that I am past 80, its more difficult to stay interested in Sports and rabbit hunting is more physically challenging.
As long as you are mentally capable there will always be entertainment.


I have a sister, 87 whose husband was sterile. She has never complained about the situation. She does keep a dog as a pet. The dog is 14 and she expects it to die soon, but never complains. She says she probably won't get another pet once "Pansy" dies.
She watches a lot of sports on TV.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53146 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 6:09 pm to
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When my second child went off to college, I remember thinking, what do I do for the rest of my life.

We are about 2 years away from being empty nesters. My wife and I have a healthy marriage and genuinely enjoy each other's company. I'm sure we'll be fine with no kids to take care of.
Posted by bakersman
Shreveport
Member since Apr 2011
5995 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 6:37 pm to
One guy that works for me is in his late 50’s and never had children because of medical issues with his wife. He is a devoted catholic and never misses a mass. They have dogs. Visits his momma as much as possible. And does things with his brother and nephews. He has no regrets
Posted by Klingler7
Houston
Member since Nov 2009
12546 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 6:59 pm to
I am still single in my mid50’s. No kids. I have one sister but very few relatives left. If my sister dies before me, I will leave an inheritance to St. Jude Hospital in Tennessee.

I wish life wasn’t so lonely for me but I let myself gain 70 pounds since HS and that has affected my attractiveness. I have reached out to single ladies my age but the ladies are superficial and only want me for my investments.

I told my therapist that it would be nice to attract a 30 something attractive female that is a professional and not a gold digger.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53146 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 7:03 pm to
Why don't you try to lose some weight Klinger? I say that as someone who's certainly not built like Adonis, but I can drop weight when I get motivated.
Posted by CPTDCKHD
Member since Sep 2019
1487 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 7:07 pm to
Adopt
Posted by EF Hutton
Member since Jan 2018
2366 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 7:09 pm to
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Friend and family gatherings and everyone attends with the kids and there's the one guy or girl solo.


They often do not attend .
Posted by TomJoadGhost
Alabama
Member since Nov 2022
1003 posts
Posted on 4/30/23 at 7:11 pm to
54 and never had kids. Don’t really ever think about it. I’m pretty close to my brother’s kids. That’s close enough.
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