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re: Need some advice from anyone who's been thru a divorce
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:58 pm to AU4real35
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:58 pm to AU4real35
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both parties want it to work
That's the problem nowadays. People don't want or dont even know that a marriage takes work. Loving someone doesn't just happen like magic. Love doesn't just poof into existence out of thin air. Loving someone is an act, a willful act that you have to choose to do. The reason so many people end up divorced now is they don't have a clue how to love anyone but themselves. They go into a marriage thinking love just "happens". And when it doesn't, they just say "frick it" and get divorce.
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Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:58 pm to RLDSC FAN
RL. I hate to recommend but u need to investigate her.
U may need leverage for ur son at a later date. She's not gonna be the same person. No telling how it could go.
U may need leverage for ur son at a later date. She's not gonna be the same person. No telling how it could go.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:58 pm to TDFreak
Great post, thank you 
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:58 pm to RLDSC FAN
Can we have some details? Do you work too much, overbearing, not affectionate enough or is it something with her?
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:59 pm to AUCE05
quote:
See if she is interested in a business decision for your child.
He makes $125K and she makes $40K.
I think we've already established that she's interested in a business decision.
I would recommend suicide but then you do have a child to consider.
Nah, I think I'd still lean suicide.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:59 pm to RLDSC FAN
Women are emotional creatures and once they decide it is over it is done. She has been thinking about it for a long time.
The first time you are with another woman after your divorce it will feel weird. Don't beat yourself up over that as it is normal.
The first time you are with another woman after your divorce it will feel weird. Don't beat yourself up over that as it is normal.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:00 pm to AU4real35
I can admit that I'm a stubborn SOB. I have my issues, so does she. We've been fighting a lot and she just said she's not happy anymore, she's lost her love for me.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:00 pm to PygmalionEffect
Mom would fit in 12 crab traps and no evidence.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:01 pm to shel311
Is life not what you make it?
Make it whatever you want. It's up to you.
Make it whatever you want. It's up to you.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:01 pm to RLDSC FAN
She found someone else man. The quicker you realize that the better it will be. And I'm not saying that to be a jerk. Women don't go somewhere without somewhere to go.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:01 pm to jeff5891
quote:this is the worse advice ever.
Stay together for the kids
So just make sure everyone is miserable right? Kids aren't stupid. And If you are miserable you surely won't be able to make the kids happy.
Go be happy and spread the happiness to the children.
Also OP, make you a new face book, down load a couple apps, ?????, Swim in new pussy
You are going to forget quick about that nearly 40 year old shite you've been having to hit.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:02 pm to RLDSC FAN
quote:
she's lost her love for me.
Remind her why she fell in love with you then.
Do what you used to do when she fell in love with you.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:04 pm to The Great McGinty
Thanks for sharing your story
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:04 pm to RLDSC FAN
quote:what do y'all fight about?
We've been fighting a lot
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:05 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
I'm telling u RL. Get to the bottom of it.
She could be civil right now to get u to settle, but when it's done, it could really change.
She could lie to ur kid and turn him against u. U need to have something to go on. U won't regret it
U have to have closure
She could be civil right now to get u to settle, but when it's done, it could really change.
She could lie to ur kid and turn him against u. U need to have something to go on. U won't regret it
U have to have closure
This post was edited on 5/23/17 at 10:07 pm
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:06 pm to SuperSaint
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Stay together for the kids
this is the worse advice ever.
Look, we know you don't understand family stability because of certain characteristics, so don't interject into what you don't know about.
Studies show time and time again that kids do better in stable families. They don't take into account family happiness, because happiness ebbs and flows in every family. Kids need stability because they can't create it for themselves yet.
If you can't put your children's wellbeing above your own happiness, keep your dick in your pants.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:07 pm to RLDSC FAN
quote:
I can admit that I'm a stubborn SOB. I have my issues, so does she. We've been fighting a lot and she just said she's not happy anymore, she's lost her love for me.
Seems like this marriage can be salvage if y'all really want to work it out. I have only been married 8 years also so I'm no guru on it by any chance. You seem kind of numb, are you ready to call it quits also or would you be willing to work it out?
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:07 pm to lsufan112001
quote:
lsufan112001
This man speaks the truth.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:09 pm to AU4real35
I'm definitely willing to try. This just happened, I'm really kind of numb right now. She's the one that said she's done.
Posted on 5/23/17 at 10:10 pm to lsufan112001
Pardon my ignorance, but what is RL?
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