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re: Married/relationship men of the o/t...how often do you have sex
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:43 pm to NeonSunburst
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:43 pm to NeonSunburst
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I didn't think I would be sexless for at least another 15-20 years. Oh joy.
frick all that. Sex is way too important to me.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:44 pm to LSUintheNW
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Ouch....
I kid. We're probably pretty average for people at our point. Teens in the house make it harder. They're up later and telling them I was just parking the car in mom's garage doesn't fool them anymore.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:45 pm to Evil Little Thing
Too late for shows of friendship
I'm texting Net now and linking this thread....
I'm texting Net now and linking this thread....
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:46 pm to northshorebamaman
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Teens in the house make it harder. They're up later and telling them I was just parking the car in mom's garage doesn't fool them anymore.
I get it. I would institute a gtfo of the house night 2 times a month.
Don't care where you go but you got to get the hell up outta here
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:46 pm to Rouge
quote:
I'm texting Net now
He said he’s getting tired of the dick pics from you. Time to move on.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:47 pm to Evil Little Thing
quote:I love it when he plays HARD to get
I'm texting Net now
He said he’s getting tired of the dick pics from you. Time to move on.
Purrrrrr
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:48 pm to celltech1981
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Me and my s/o have been on and off for 1.5 years and we have sex 2 to 4 times a week. Blow jobs are non existent.
What's a blow job? Never even heard of it.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:49 pm to celltech1981
This is how it works:
Before kids 4 or more times a week except during the weekly "flo", that's bj week.
Kids in diaper days, maybe 2-3 times a week, pretty much only quickies. No time when kids are that young.
Older kids, back to 3-4 times a week and actually better than ever. especially after she got her tubes tied. Once y'all decide to stop having kids, get wifey fixed, she will love it and you will too.
Before kids 4 or more times a week except during the weekly "flo", that's bj week.
Kids in diaper days, maybe 2-3 times a week, pretty much only quickies. No time when kids are that young.
Older kids, back to 3-4 times a week and actually better than ever. especially after she got her tubes tied. Once y'all decide to stop having kids, get wifey fixed, she will love it and you will too.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:51 pm to celltech1981
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:52 pm to Evil Little Thing
Evil, I dont think he is . Funny that you asked that because my marriage before this relationship ended because all he wanted was Oral... and I swear he is gay.Even his mom thinks my ex is gay... Or at least bi. But not this guy.
Who knows how long I'll put up with it. I love him and other than the sex and communication...we get along great. Its just so weird, and a huge downer. Just had to tell my side of the story with all these guys in here bitching about "women" when there are men who hold out for whatever reason.
I'm about to bust a move out of work and get my weekend on....maybe today would be a good day to talk about the issues with him. again.
Have a great weekend!
Who knows how long I'll put up with it. I love him and other than the sex and communication...we get along great. Its just so weird, and a huge downer. Just had to tell my side of the story with all these guys in here bitching about "women" when there are men who hold out for whatever reason.
I'm about to bust a move out of work and get my weekend on....maybe today would be a good day to talk about the issues with him. again.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:52 pm to LSUintheNW
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I get it. I would institute a gtfo of the house night 2 times a month.
Lot of good hiking around here.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:52 pm to celltech1981
Been with my wife since 1999, as we started out in HS. Been married since 2004. I can always get it, as long as I don't say something stupid to piss her off, which I did the other day. When this happens, I just wait until the morning.
A couple of times during the week, and at least twice on Saturday.
BJs are regular, but doesn't happen every time we have sex.
3 kids, and both work full-time. She's a nurse, so I have that going for me
A couple of times during the week, and at least twice on Saturday.
BJs are regular, but doesn't happen every time we have sex.
3 kids, and both work full-time. She's a nurse, so I have that going for me
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:54 pm to sjmabry
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Been with my wife since 1999, as we started out in HS. Been married since 2004. I can always get it, as long as I don't say something stupid to piss her off, which I did the other day. When this happens, I just wait until the morning.
A couple of times during the week, and at least twice on Saturday.
BJs are regular, but doesn't happen every time we have sex.
3 kids, and both work full-time. She's a nurse, so I have that going for me
Wow. I could have wrote every line of that post, from the dates to the wife's occupation.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:54 pm to NeonSunburst
quote:I enjoy making my wife quiver. Your "friend" is a deadbeat.
For a while it was just me giving him the good old BJs whenever he wanted, no recipricating.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:55 pm to Taurus
I’m not stirring the pot with this link
We need to talk about sexual assault during marriage
Narrarator: he was
We need to talk about sexual assault during marriage
Narrarator: he was
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:55 pm to NeonSunburst
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I love him and other than the sex and communication...we get along great.
I'm sorry, but this made me laugh
In all seriousness, get his testosterone checked. Men can go to a sad place when their levels drop. He might not know how to handle these weird new feelings. Think of akin to a lesser version of menopause in women.
Get his t levels up, have some exercise together, and you might get some spark back that both of you would greatly benefit from.
Best in luck and love,
Dr. Rouge
This post was edited on 3/9/18 at 4:57 pm
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:56 pm to NeonSunburst
Good luck!! It’s hard to define what is and isn’t a dealbreaker in a relationship. Sex was not our primary problem, but it made the other issues that much worse. Having to plead with a partner to be into us is a total mood killer. After I divorced, I vowed to never again be with someone who wasn’t super into sex with me. It’s harder when it started off normally for you & then a switch flipped. Blah!
I hope you’re able to have some positive conversation
I hope you’re able to have some positive conversation
Posted on 3/9/18 at 4:57 pm to Jim Smith
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at all the young bucks that got married 2-3 years ago that think they are going to still be hitting it 3 times a week in the next few years.
I had a kid telling me that him and his fiance did it every night, no matter what, and that they'd keep doing that long after they're married. I asked him what would happen when she was having her period. He replied with, "She can still suck me off every night."
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