re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?

Posted by lsunurse

Member since Dec 2005

129146 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:44 pm to yellowfin

quote:
Benadryl makes my kids hyper

That must have been a rough night for yall when you figured this fun fact out for yourselves.

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Posted by G Vice

Lafayette, LA

Member since Dec 2006

13154 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:44 pm to yellowfin

Just like my wife. I'm a night owl. Somebody do the math , it's too depressing for me to know our frequency

Posted by Dam Guide

Member since Sep 2005

16556 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:44 pm to LNCHBOX

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Maybe your data is biased because you're dealing with people that have problems.

Or more likely that the OT is a bunch of bullshitters.

Posted by yellowfin

Coastal Bar

Member since May 2006

98767 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:46 pm to tigerchick555

quote:
Paw Paw

for sure

Posted by LNCHBOX

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Member since Jun 2009

88718 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:46 pm to Dam Guide

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Or more likely that the OT is a bunch of bullshitters.

There is nothing unreasonable about saying you get laid twice a week while married. There is no way that puts you in the top 1% as that guy claims.

Posted by tigerchick555

Gonzales

Member since Nov 2007

2044 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:46 pm to lsunurse

quote:
That must have been a rough night for yall when you figured this fun fact out for yourselves.

Posted by yurintroubl

Dallas, Tx.

Member since Apr 2008

30190 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:51 pm to Hawkeye95

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We also did lisa-millhouse role play a few times. I wasn't too into that but she was.

Props to you for giving this a go... more than once.

Along these lines - OP....

Maybe you should lighten the mood a little bit somehow. I'm a Cat 5 Gemini so I'm all over the place... but I know I tend to relax and joke/tease in the bedroom vs. being intense/serious all the time and it can be a welcomed departure (according to an independent survey

).

Switch your approach up a little?

Posted by yellowfin

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Member since May 2006

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Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:58 pm to lsunurse

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That must have been a rough night for yall when you figured this fun fact out for yourselves.

It did the same thing to me when I was a kids so it wasn't unexpected.

Posted by jeff5891

Member since Aug 2011

15911 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 4:59 pm to Spilled Milk

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but she gets defensive and says we do it more often than that...which we don't

Time to create a log to show her during that argument. guarenteed to work

Posted by ragacamps

Member since Jan 2011

2997 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 5:00 pm to Havoc

About once a week. We have a 3year old and since she's been born not as much. Used to get dirty 3 or 4 times a week

We may go a couple of weeks then have sex or 4 days in a row

Posted by yellowfin

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Member since May 2006

98767 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 5:04 pm to jeff5891

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Time to create a log to show her during that argument. guarenteed to work

be sure to add the days you took care of yourself to this log

especially the ones where you finished on her pillow before she got home from work.

Posted by Coach72

Lafayette

Member since Dec 2009

1682 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 5:26 pm to Spilled Milk

With my wife or yours?

Posted by BigPapiDoesItAgain

Amérique du Nord

Member since Nov 2009

3409 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 6:08 pm to LNCHBOX

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There is nothing unreasonable about saying you get laid twice a week while married. There is no way that puts you in the top 1% as that guy claims.

Twice a week is pretty close to the average of 1.6 x weekly (once every 4-5 days). Can't recall the whole study, but that fits into the fat part of the curve, I would imagine, or at least inside of 2 SD of the mean. Some of the other numbers I saw thrown out there are definitely on the far right-hand side of that curve.

Posted by MottLaneKid

Gonzales

Member since Apr 2012

4543 posts

Posted on 2/22/16 at 6:10 pm to Spilled Milk

I am single. I have been dating a woman in a long distance relationship for a year.

No sex. I masturbate about once every ten days.