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re: Is it weird that my ex still sends my parents Christmas cards?
Posted on 1/2/19 at 12:57 pm to TigerStripes06
Posted on 1/2/19 at 12:57 pm to TigerStripes06
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I don’t think it’s weird. I’m still friends with one of my ex’s parents. They’re great people and have always treated me really well.
Count me in this group. I see my ex-in-laws fairly often due to activities for my eldest. During the holidays my ex-fil thanked me for being a great dad and apologized for me having to go through all this shite with his daughter.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 12:58 pm to Pesticide
quote:This is the correct answer.
It's called carrying a flag. She does it to maintain a connection with you even though a relationship does t exist.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 12:59 pm to Masterag
She's probably trying to figure out when you going to go ahead and come out of the closet to your parents.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:01 pm to Masterag
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My college sweetheart is now married with two kids and she still sends my parents greeting cards for Christmas and other occasions
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Is it weird that my ex still sends my parents
Yes, this is weird. Congrats on dodging crazy
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:05 pm to Masterag
my mother and my father's mother exchanged cards every year until my grandmother passed. They got divorced in 91, and she passed away in 2005.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:10 pm to Masterag
I could see my mother doing this for a particular ex-SO of mine--nevermind the fact I've been married for almost 18 years.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:11 pm to Masterag
She either wants to get with your brother
Or
She's a transgender who wants to get back with you
Or
She's a transgender who wants to get back with you
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:20 pm to Masterag
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My college sweetheart
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I'm just curious as to why she does it.
Only way to determine why is by examining pics of her.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:29 pm to Masterag
She got to know them and liked them.
I liked my college gf's mother.
Truly gracious.
I liked my college gf's mother.
Truly gracious.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:39 pm to Masterag
My mother and sister through my ex a wedding shower three years after we broke up
I didn’t talk to them for over a month
I didn’t talk to them for over a month
This post was edited on 1/2/19 at 1:39 pm
Posted on 1/2/19 at 1:59 pm to Masterag
My former wife and one of her ex's would not only exchange Christmas cards, but would get on the phone and sing Christmas duets together (Reason #732 I left her).
Posted on 1/2/19 at 2:58 pm to Pesticide
Now that I think about it, this is spot on.
My ex and her mom recently started liking my pics and what not and her sister hasn't stopped sending me snap chats of random things she's doing in every day life.
Oh, the ex has a BF now too. Lol
My ex and her mom recently started liking my pics and what not and her sister hasn't stopped sending me snap chats of random things she's doing in every day life.
Oh, the ex has a BF now too. Lol
Posted on 1/2/19 at 4:00 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
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She probably wishes she were with you.
Yeah, that’s what it seems like. There was still love there when we split up, but I had a lot of personal stuff that I was struggling with and over time it just seemed like more of a really good friendship and there was no spark. Sometimes I think I made a mistake in ending things, but I didn’t want to be selfish. frick, life is hard and you don’t learn till after you’ve made your mistakes.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 4:01 pm to Jorts R Us
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Calling it now: She banged your dad.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 4:01 pm to Masterag
Congrats on your Ex's successful sex change
Posted on 1/2/19 at 4:05 pm to Pesticide
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It's called carrying a flag. She does it to maintain a connection with you even though a relationship doesn't exist. It's the exact same when people create social media accounts in hopes of one day rekindling an old relationship with someone they've lost contact with. I work with 2 people who did this. Both had marriage problems, left their husbands to give the old flings a chance and both didn't last past 2 months. They were both women just a FYI. They deny that's why they had a social media account but that's exactly how they started contact. It's them carrying a little flag to say hey, I'm still here. No different than a Christmas card.
Yeah I think a little of this. Just being honest, her husband seems like a nice guy, but he’s got nothing on me in terms of looks and doing masculine shite outdoors. Not trying to yank my own chain, but it’s true.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 4:08 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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more normal to not, but I’ve always found it generally weird to be close to some people for a period of time then have zero contact like they’ve never existed.
Yeah it really sucks, man. I loved her family.
Posted on 1/2/19 at 4:14 pm to Pesticide
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It's called carrying a flag. She does it to maintain a connection with you even though a relationship doesn't exist.
This is spot on. She is not letting go and has not completely moved on. She is trying to hide it with “just being nice” which is just an excuse to continue some form of contact.
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