re: If you had a chance to get back with an ex, would you?

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Ok, so there is one final twist to the story. She told me that over the years she has looked at my FB. I guess it was her way of keeping tabs. Not going to lie, I have also looked at hers every now and then. One fine woman...and still is.

So...she has a son who looks to be nine or so. We haven't discussed that yet, as that's a face to face conversation. However, there are some similarities.

No, she never married. Told me she didn't want to go through that again. However, she did say she has someone she wanted me to meet...

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Are you writing a novel of true romance military lifes.com? If not, wtf are you doing on TD and not meeting your son?

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Are you writing a novel of true romance military lifes.com? If not, wtf are you doing on TD and not meeting your son?

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Well, for one thing she hasn't ever mentioned him. Given how strong-willed and all that she is, well that could mean one of two things - he isn't mine, or he is and she wanted to give it a go by herself. Either way, she hasn't come forward with that information. That's not an email conversation and sometimes not a phone one, either. However, she lives a bit away so just coming will be an act in itself. Maybe she will come by herself first or maybe not. So, either she is seriously considering giving it another go, or maybe she figures its just time.

I made it 3 pages and you're drooling over this girl. You are simply looking for justification/reasons to get back with her. Just go stick your dick in her and see if it's as good now as it was 10 years ago. If the answer is yes, date her.. if it's not, move on. Problem(s) solved.

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Do his pics look he could be your son?

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There are some similarities, but that could be just me. My two kids look much more like me (and my son none at all) than my ex-wife

Also, she wasn't keeping tabs on you. She was simply showing your son, his father and probably telling him stories about how he'd meet him one day. So... time to step up!

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That son of hers is 10,

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He could be 8 or 9. I'm not the best judge of ages. He does look a little older than my 7 yr old son.

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Also, she wasn't keeping tabs on you. She was simply showing your son, his father and probably telling him stories about how he'd meet him one day. So... time to step up!

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We shall see, sir. Although I doubt that was it.

So stop responding to the OT, call this woman up and arrange a meeting. Figure out a way to see her face to face before it's too late. Good luck!

Not sure of that intent of yours, Hart. But we have been talking a bit...and anything that will happen will be after the new year.

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Me: I always wonder that if in a decade or so that fate will intervene.

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Spaceman Spiff: Kind of stretching it out, eh?

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Meh, our motto was always "if it is meant to be then it will be". We have always remained friends thru all of it which is why I gave him everything in the divorce. He is a good man and I knew he would give it all to our son anyway.

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airfernando: Show him your other thread. He might change his mind.

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He has seen it, knows what is going on and has been supportive of me because he knows I was a good wife to him.

Only time will tell what happens between us but we will always be good friends who love and support each other. Even if we never got back together, I would be happy for him to find a woman who will love him the way he deserves to be loved. He is a good man and deserves happiness and a woman who will love him and spoil him as I did.

My philosophy on spoiling a man is that too many men put their dreams off until they retire. But sadly many never live long enough to retire or their health is too bad to pursue dreams once they do retire. So I am in full support of men being able to live their dreams and pursue their hobbies while they are young enough to truly enjoy it.