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re: If you could, would you check the credit of a potential partner

Posted on 7/23/18 at 10:54 am to
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 7/23/18 at 10:54 am to
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This reminds me of my dumb arse sister in law that filed bankruptcy but does accounting.

Go on ...
Posted by Duckhammer_77
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Member since Nov 2016
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Posted on 7/23/18 at 10:54 am to
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If the ex had $100k in student loan debt and you married her, you now owe $50k of her debt.

depends on the state - not true in Louisiana. Debt brought into the marriage stays with the individual parties after divorce. Debt accrued during marriage is split between parties. However, if you refi or consolidate the debt after you get married (loans, mortgage, credit cards, etc) - you're now paying 50% of those bad decisions for her.

been there, bought t-shirt.
This post was edited on 7/23/18 at 11:03 am
Posted by Duckhammer_77
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Posted on 7/23/18 at 11:02 am to
dated a couple of girls that had so many red flags in the first 6 months that I didn't need to check a credit score. Seriously, day-to-day you can get a picture of someone's decision making capacity that scales from "I just went in to get some lip gloss and they said if I spend over $100, I get 10% off my purchase." all the way up to "they said I could roll over the 36 months I still owe on my Rav 4 into the note on a new Tahoe".
This post was edited on 7/23/18 at 11:41 am
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
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Posted on 7/23/18 at 11:07 am to
That and medical records
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14794 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 11:39 am to
No. Potential partner? I’d just ask.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
21842 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 12:06 pm to
If you plan on marrying her, absolutely.

I highly suggest it actually.
Posted by Han_solo1988
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2018
317 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 12:12 pm to
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I would say it matters. I am a 30 year old gay guy and already know SEVERAL people that are divorced. If the ex had $100k in student loan debt and you married her, you now owe $50k of her debt


FIFY
Posted by Phat Phil
Krispy Kreme
Member since May 2010
7564 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 12:15 pm to
I would check how much debt she has with a credit report. If she is debt free or close to debt free, I don't care what credit 'score' she has because we are not planning to 'borrow' any money from the bank.

Credit score is not an indicator of financial health. I already have a house/mortgage, I will not borrow money and be a slave for anything else.
Posted by shinerfan
Duckworld(Earth-616)
Member since Sep 2009
28927 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 12:18 pm to
In a serious relationship you should know someone well enough to guess their credit score within 100 points. If they're enough of a disaster to be an issue you should pick up on that without seeing the report.
This post was edited on 7/23/18 at 12:26 pm
Posted by j bro12
LA
Member since Jan 2012
1550 posts
Posted on 7/23/18 at 12:35 pm to
Not a bad idea. A good friend of mine married a girl with 20k in credit card and student loan debt. He had no idea until a couple of months after the wedding.
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