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re: How to handle a grumpy wife?

Posted on 11/30/16 at 9:13 pm to
Posted by t00f
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Posted on 11/30/16 at 9:13 pm to
quote:

her what she needs every 3 or 4 days. If I go longer than that she will start to get grumpy. Thi


Forgot about this thread
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 11/30/16 at 9:15 pm to
better enjoy her while you can, shes leaving as soon as the kids are moved out
Posted by AUCE05
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Posted on 11/30/16 at 9:20 pm to
She sounds normal.
Posted by djmicrobe
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Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 11/30/16 at 10:49 pm to
1) Next time she gets crabby let her know how it makes you "feel". Try to say it in a kind way.
If she continues, then
2) ask the kids how it makes them feel when their mommy speaks to them like that. When she hears it from their mouths, it should "wake her up".

Most of the time a person acts like this they are aggravated about something completely unrelated to what they are crabby about.
Ask her "What is bothering her." If she blames it on something kinda lame, that is not the real problem. Ask her, "What else is bothering her." You may have to do this a few times.
When I start to get upset about little things, I ultimately realize the "big" thing I am most upset about. Once I resolve the large issue the little things no longer bother me.
Most people are like this.
Worst case is that her hormones are off, and the little things are the only things bothering her. You might need to take a vacation with the kids and ever her home.
Posted by Cold Drink
Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 12:13 am to
Bumping this thread for advice on handling a wife who is PISSED THE frick OFF.

Advice please.
Posted by wallowinit
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 3:23 am to
Don't Piss off your wife.
Posted by jorconalx
alexandria
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:00 am to
you can tell which people in this thread are married and which aren't
Posted by TigerinKorea
Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:46 am to
Whenever she gets in one of those moods, don't argue, or get defensive. Simply do something totally ridiculous to make her laugh. She should at least crack a smile. This subconsciously shows her how ridiculous she is acting. It's even more powerful, if your kids chime in. Most of the time, it works. If you can't snap her out of it, you and your kids are screwed, and it is serious.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 7:58 am
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