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re: How many chances would you give your spouse if they cheated?
Posted on 5/11/19 at 2:27 pm to Tunasntigers92
Posted on 5/11/19 at 2:27 pm to Tunasntigers92
Guess those vows mean nothing to people. Why get married at all if you don’t mean it.
Posted on 5/11/19 at 2:33 pm to Tunasntigers92
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Let’s say you found out your SO slept with the opposite sex, you confronted them and they told you it was a mistake, and he/she was still madly in love with you?
My girlfriends sister’s husband has cheated on her twice, she is the breadwinner and she is giving him a third chance. I personally would break it off after one incident, once a cheater always a cheater. Do people make a mistake just once
It depends on how many times she can tolerate me fricking her sisters and best friends.
Posted on 5/11/19 at 2:41 pm to Tunasntigers92
Another man...0 chances.
Another woman, unlimited chances.
Another woman, unlimited chances.
This post was edited on 5/11/19 at 2:42 pm
Posted on 5/12/19 at 11:31 am to madamsquirrel
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Just for arguments sake you can be non-monagamous and not be a cheater. Cheating involves lying.
True. If two consenting adults decide to open up their marriage, then so be it. The issue comes when that’s not a discussion between the two or one is clearly manipulating the other (these are the saddest instances I’ve seen).
It’s not for me. And I would walk away from someone who cheated. But I’m also up front from day one that it’s a deal breaker.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 12:39 pm to Rouge
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Can my partner and I cheated together?
Can I has a hamburger?
Posted on 5/12/19 at 2:46 pm to Tunasntigers92
Some couples can hack having cheated, some can’t. 9 times out of 10 it’s the guy who’s fricking around. Women tend to handle being cheated on better than men.
Not sure why you’d come to the OT for advice, where every guy drives a $250K truck and would kill his fitness supermodel wife if she looked at another guy.
Not sure why you’d come to the OT for advice, where every guy drives a $250K truck and would kill his fitness supermodel wife if she looked at another guy.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 2:55 pm to OleWar
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OleWar
Was that meant to make me rethink my life choices? I was the person who signed 5 marriage certificates, as the officient. My home life is no different, I just didn’t throw a “Look at me and buy me gifts” party
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:03 pm to Tunasntigers92
One strike and you're O U T
A cheater doesn't cheat just once.
A cheater doesn't cheat just once.
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once a cheater always a cheater.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:05 pm to Supermoto Tiger
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One strike and you're O U T
A cheater doesn't cheat just once.
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once a cheater always a cheater.
Not true
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:07 pm to liz18lsu
I cheated on a girlfriend once in college. I guess that makes me a cheater for life 
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:09 pm to Supermoto Tiger
I'm a reformed cheater. I'll not do it again.
I'll just say this, there's worse things someone can do to me than make a one time mistake. I'll never say it's a definite deal breaker.
I imagine most people here would be shocked to find out how many of their spouses have done it
I'll just say this, there's worse things someone can do to me than make a one time mistake. I'll never say it's a definite deal breaker.
I imagine most people here would be shocked to find out how many of their spouses have done it
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:13 pm to RogerTheShrubber
Black and white with no shades of grey reminds me of a child’s capacity for thought.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:15 pm to liz18lsu
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Black and white with no shades of grey reminds me of a child’s capacity for thought.
It is. It's a very basic way of looking at extremely complex things.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:17 pm to RogerTheShrubber
I used to wonder how people could have stepkids. Wasn’t that a constant reminder your partner fricked someone else? I grew up.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:19 pm to liz18lsu
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I used to wonder how people could have stepkids. Wasn’t that a constant reminder your partner fricked someone else? I grew up.
Honestly how many people today are virgins when they get married? I'm sure there are some but surely it's less than 5%
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:20 pm to fallguy_1978
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I guess that makes me a cheater for life
It’s plain to see. You can’t change me. Cuz Imma be a cheata for life.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:21 pm to shutterspeed
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It’s plain to see. You can’t change me. Cuz Imma be a cheata for life.
I'm not though. I felt so guilty about it that I broke up with her.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 3:21 pm to liz18lsu
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Wasn’t that a constant reminder your partner fricked someone else? I grew up.
Yep, before they met me, that's none of my business. I've never even asked about how many partners someone has had.
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