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Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:08 am to inadaze
I don't have kids. But, I do spank my Gf's ARSE!!
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:14 am to inadaze
Yes.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:21 am to inadaze
Funny how words such as "hitting" , "beating" and "violence" get injected into the spanking discussion. Not even close.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:37 am to tigerdup07
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that's what IT'S SUPPOSED TO DO
Did you not read the rest of my post? I see this as a flawed method. A kid doesn't have to be in fear to be well-behaved.
I think there are better ways to resolve issues than resorting to physical violence on a child. That's low-level parenting. And there are much more healthy ways to expose a child to physicality.
I like the idea of making an EFFORT to be creative in modes of communication to form a stronger connection with the child.
Becoming a violent authoritarian means communication has failed. Improving communication is really the responsibility of the parent.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:38 am to yellowfin
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This will be a thread full of kids with no parenting experience giving parenting advice
That doesn't preclude someone from having a valid opinion on the subject.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:40 am to inadaze
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That doesn't preclude someone from having a valid opinion on the subject.
You can have an opinion on anything, that doesn't make it correct or informed
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:45 am to Peazey
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Yeah, that's definitely going too far. You should have left it up to your sister what kind of punishment she wanted to do unless she explicitly told you that you could spank the child. Very poor decision.
My parents had a rule that they told to every one of my friend's parents and all our family. If their kid was at our house they got the same discipline that we recieved, which included spanking. If you have a problem with it your child doesn't have to stay at our house. Had friends get whipped right there with me on occasions when we did something stupid.
My parents spanked me and I'll spank my kids. Fastest way for an animal (and just a reminder humans are animals) to associate wrong or danger is through physical pain.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:48 am to inadaze
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that's what IT'S SUPPOSED TO DO
Did you not read the rest of my post? I see this as a flawed method. A kid doesn't have to be in fear to be well-behaved.
I think there are better ways to resolve issues than resorting to physical violence on a child. That's low-level parenting. And there are much more healthy ways to expose a child to physicality.
I like the idea of making an EFFORT to be creative in modes of communication to form a stronger connection with the child.
Becoming a violent authoritarian means communication has failed. Improving communication is really the responsibility of the parent.
It's not the physical, but the lesson that there are consequences for actions that sometimes demand that which most all kids really don't want, spankings, but more than that is the fact that they let their parents down and disappointed them, which comes from explaining why they are getting it. There are no one size fits all approaches to discipline, but to cast spankings out is dumb, since sometimes it is exactly what a child needs to correct their behavior.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:48 am to yellowfin
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You can have an opinion on anything, that doesn't make it correct or informed
Obviously. Did that really need to be said?
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:52 am to inadaze
If my parents would not have spanked me as a kid and the nuns at school not paddled me I probably would have ended up in the pen 
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:52 am to inadaze
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Did that really need to be said?
looked like it after reading your last post
Posted on 1/24/14 at 7:58 am to inadaze
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That's low-level parenting.
You're insulting many people who had wonderful parents by saying their form of parenting was low level.
Other forms of parenting like punishment leave a child to weigh out if the action is worth the sacrifice of an xbox for a few days or whatnot. Plenty of times my buddies would want to do some stupid shite and ask me to get involved with the, "Man I'll only get punished for a few days who cares." attitude. Getting a spanking leaves you knowing exactly what the end result is and in the case of my house there wasn't things worth getting spanked over which caused me and my siblings to stay on the straight and narrow.
So I pose this question, is it low level parenting if the child is successful due to spankings?
Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:01 am to Mike da Tigah
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It's not the physical, but the lesson that there are consequences for actions that sometimes demand that which most all kids really don't want, spankings, but more than that is the fact that they let their parents down and disappointed them, which comes from explaining why they are getting it. There are no one size fits all approaches to discipline, but to cast spankings out is dumb, since sometimes it is exactly what a child needs to correct their behavior.
Is it okay for kids to hit their friends when communication fails?
Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:01 am to Scrowe
When I tell my kid he has to go to his room for an hour he asks if he can have a spanking instead.
I use a plastic spoon. Puts a good sting on him.
Different discipline for different kids..the important thing is that you discipline.
I use a plastic spoon. Puts a good sting on him.
Different discipline for different kids..the important thing is that you discipline.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:01 am to yellowfin
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looked like it after reading your last post
Okay. Go ahead and explain that.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:03 am to yellowfin
i love these threads
so many pseudo-experts
so many pseudo-experts
Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:04 am to inadaze
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I like the idea of making an EFFORT to be creative in modes of communication to form a stronger connection with the child.
Neat-o. I'm glad you like that idea. I practice that idea daily. I put forth said effort. It takes a wide variety of rewards and disciplinary acts to teach a child right from wrong. And what's good for one kid might not be good for another. You have to get creative as shite. But in the end it's your job as a parent to enforce your standards of good behavior, teach them to respect others, and know right from wrong. And also to learn accountability for their actions. You get thru to your kid and you've done your job. It's easy to say what you're going to do and not do before you have kids. I did the same. But you'll likely throw most of that shite out the window come game time.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:05 am to Rouge
I love finding new "creative modes of communication" with 3 year olds
Posted on 1/24/14 at 8:06 am to inadaze
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Is it okay for kids to hit their friends when communication fails?
No, they berate them with smart arse comments like their parents.
I got my share of spankings and I wasn't a fighter, although I did take up for myself when I had to. That is a very ignorant argument.
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