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re: How did you catch your SO/Spouse cheating on you?

Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:00 pm to
Posted by Chris Farley
Regulating
Member since Sep 2009
4188 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:00 pm to
Some whore in high school cheated on me when I was out of town, but I don't really count that.

My current gf and I are both from LA but live far from home. She'd always get texts to hang out from an ex around the holidays when he knew she was home. She always either politely declined or didn't respond but isn't aggressive enough to put a foot down and tell him she's not interested. One day he texted and I responded "sure, I'll call you". I call, he answers, I blindside him, game over. Haven't heard from his arse since.
Posted by JBeam
Guns,Germs & Steel
Member since Jan 2011
68377 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:02 pm to
quote:

LINK

Let me help with your paranoia,

74% of men and 68% of women would have an affair if it was assured they could not get caught.

57% of men and 54% of women admit to having been unfaithful in a relationship.

Can't really say I'm shocked by either statistics.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:03 pm to
"I'm too old to go on a bush banging binge."

"I would probably move to Montana or Alaska and live like I want to and buy whatever I wanted too and enjoy the single life."

Afraid that's where I am headed. I don't like it but I am slowly coming to grips that my time might be over. In the case of the bitch (aka "the defendant").... well all I can say is that a woman can have sex wherever and whenever she pleases. Men .... not quite so lucky.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:14 pm to
Yo, Paige! Damned good to see ya!
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
37945 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:23 pm to
I haven't caught her, yet, but when she stops being affectionate towards me, I begin to worry.
This post was edited on 6/15/14 at 6:24 pm
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 8:04 pm to
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She was fricked up. Chasing money and power, he was a VP and she was waaaaaay down the corporate ladder, thinking the boyfriend would leave his wife and kids. Oh, she came back around. She contacted me, she was flying into DFW.

Wanted to get together. Asked would I pick her up. Sure.

I never showed.

Have not seen nor do I care to see since '96. Her name within my family is, "she who shall go unmentioned."

Married to an awesome woman, now, for over 15 years.





This seems to imply that She Who Shall Go Unmentioned was your patht to your Awesome Woman. The question is if you really like where you are and who you are with, would you do it all again to get HERE
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
48805 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 11:05 pm to
quote:

This seems to imply that She Who Shall Go Unmentioned was your patht to your Awesome Woman. The question is if you really like where you are and who you are with, would you do it all again to get HERE.


Dude, I went through a whole lotta shite to get where I am. We all do. But, that being said, I'm in a really good place, with relative peace of mind, awesome kids, a killer job and a really nice looking, intelligent and creative spouse that kisses me and tells me she loves me and wants me every single day.

Would I do things over differently? Interesting, but thankfully I can't. I can't imagine going through that bs again.
Posted by PrideofTheSEC
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2012
5113 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 1:48 am to
I couldn't cheat on my s/o and bring it to the grave. That's possibly 60 years id have to keep it a secret and that's just not me. I would feel so bad i would have to tell her
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19105 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:56 am to
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Isn't that illegal?

Yep. And not admissable...
Posted by HeadedToTheWoods
Sportsman's Paradise
Member since Dec 2013
1198 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:16 am to
I answered my wife's cell. Then added it all up with the cell records. Separated as we speak. It's been brutal today the least.
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
48805 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:19 am to
quote:

Isn't that illegal?
quote:

Yep. And not admissable...
Do you really think I gave any care or thought as to what was admissible or not? We aren't talking a drug dealer or murder investigation. If your SO is off fricking around, it puts you at risk in so many ways. The goal is just to gain some clarity.
Posted by mglsu21
Prairieville
Member since Jun 2012
1277 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:37 am to
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Had my suspicions. Friend of mine was a PI. He bugged the phones for me. The whore went to Mexico City to meet up with some guy she worked with from Seattle on pretense of a *required* weekend business trip. Another friend of mine worked for American Airlines. He found her ticketing info.

While she was gone, I moved everything she owned out of the house, shoved it all in a storage locker I rented for one month. I changed all the locks on the house. My PI buddy got the guy's personal info. Married. Two kids. I made an audio copy of all the phone conversations between them and overnighted the CD to the guy's wife. Then I drove to Dallas and went to DFW Airport. When she came out of customs I was there. She was shocked. I dropped the key on the floor in front of her, handed her the address and locker number, told her all her shite was there and don't bother coming to the house. It was a pain to drive there and back, but the look on her face when she saw me and realized she'd been busted was priceless.

The next day she called and was screaming mad because the Seattle boyfriend's wife got the audio CD!

Boo frikity fricking hoo. frick all of the cheaters.


Bravo. One of the best things I've ever read.
Posted by mglsu21
Prairieville
Member since Jun 2012
1277 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:38 am to
quote:


Paige is no cheater brah


quote:

that's right. Never even cheated on a bf


Have you ever cheated on a GF?
Posted by haveagreatday
TN
Member since Jun 2008
538 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:54 am to
Obvious signs of cheaters and this comes from friends and brother experiences:
1) Loss of weight without asking if you would join her in achieving the goal
2) Wanting a boob job even though you could care less and you like the boobs as they are
3) Scheduling a 3 day trip "alone" to the beach "for me time" and to "reenergize"
4) always posting photos of hot cowboys on Facebook

Posted by bamarep
Member since Nov 2013
52099 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:56 am to
A friend tried to tell me once that my ex was cheating on me and I didn't want to believe him. One day I came home and her stupid arse had left her email up. Found where she'd been sending nudie pics to a couple of dudes.

Memo: don't go looking for something if you're not prepared to handle what you might find.

It all worked out though, in 12 days I'll be married to the absolute woman of my dreams. Not many guys can say that and truly mean it.
This post was edited on 6/16/14 at 10:57 am
Posted by lsufan27
The PJ
Member since Mar 2014
385 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 11:03 am to
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4) always posting photos of hot cowboys on Facebook


You lost me on that one
Posted by haveagreatday
TN
Member since Jun 2008
538 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 11:07 am to
my brother's soon to be ex was posting the half naked cowboy photos constantly to her page for some reason...btw she has SEC ties and a lot of people might know her on here
Posted by Alonzo
Member since Jun 2014
1024 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 11:08 am to
Sorry guys
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
32901 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 11:10 am to
quote:

btw she has SEC ties and a lot of people might know her on here
Posted by skygod123
NOLA
Member since Nov 2007
27882 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 11:15 am to
bf had gone to work. i had an appt so wasnt going to work until later. I pull open laptop to watch netflix (it wasnt like i was snooping up to this point. we had each other's passwords at this point) and he has an okcupid account opened on his laptop (we bet on the website. it was not the same account).

I went into snoop mode. We had been dating 8 months. best i could tell, the last 4 months of the relationships, he had been looking for casual encounters in a 5 mile radius of his house with anything willing on this website.

i called him as he was getting to work. I broke up with him and packed my stuff up that day and havent seen him since.
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