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re: How did you catch your SO/Spouse cheating on you?
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:17 pm to Monk
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:17 pm to Monk
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With that said, I'm not sure how or why the category would be focused more selectively on church-goers rather than folks with demonstrated morals and values.
Whose morals? Yours? Your so-called value system is no worse or better then mine. I have an open marriage. I have total faith in my spouse's ability to make good choices. Then again, I don't feel the need to keep my wife on a chain like most of the posters in this thread. And then they wonder why their SO's wander off.
Probably why we have made it to 20 plus years with very few potholes. Doesn't make what we do right for everyone, but the notion that the god-fearing members of our population are less likely to cheat is fairly laughable.
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Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:17 pm to Charlie Arglist
Never really caught, but had one girl I was dating break up with me and jumped into a relationship with another guy a month later.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:22 pm to Monk
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I just think it is an interesting notion to believe that girls that like to party are just as likely to cheat on you as girls that don't like to party. People like to categorize and every rare once-in-a-while those categories sometimes have some merit.
i think it just boils down to the character of the individual... not necessarily what they say they value. the two most moral men ive ever dated were atheist and agnostic. and ive had 2 church going men (the two liars i referenced in this thread) didnt have as good of character and werent as emotionally stable as the men who werent christian.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:25 pm to skygod123
I'm actually pretty surprised that I've never tapped some strange. But with that said, I'm pretty ugly so chances are I won't.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:27 pm to Broke
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I'm actually pretty surprised that I've never tapped some strange. But with that said, I'm pretty ugly so chances are I won't.
i know some ugly bastards who cheat often ( i used to bartend at an upscale hotel and watch married men woo women while they were away on business).
its not about how good looking you are. its about how good you are at spotting women who like affirmation in the form of tube steak
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:30 pm to skygod123
I just assume all women are whorish bitches until proven otherwise. It works.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:42 pm to asurob1
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Whose morals? Yours? Your so-called value system is no worse or better then mine. I have an open marriage. I have total faith in my spouse's ability to make good choices. Then again, I don't feel the need to keep my wife on a chain like most of the posters in this thread. And then they wonder why their SO's wander off.
Huh? Your open sensitivity on this issue tends to indicate that you have an issue with the way you must feel that others judge you for your lifestyle. In your case, you probably almost never have to worry about your spouse cheating on you so that is a win-win for you.
I personally have zero interest in trying to match or force my morals on anyone. But people read what they want to read and answer the post that they wish someone had made, which is why I didn't waste time belaboring what I thought was a clear point when I said:
"With that said, I'm not sure how or why the category would be focused more selectively on church-goers rather than folks with demonstrated morals and values."
In your case, demonstrated morals and values for you may indicate that she only blows and has sex with the guys that you first approve and is kind to children and animals. Whatever you feel is moral and shows a commitment to some form of value system that would give you cause to trust her.
In short, some people talk the talk and some people walk the walk and it usually works best, imho, when you are with someone long enough before marrying them to get a firm belief that this person walks the walk when it comes to deserving your trust.
Good on you and her for 20 years.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 3:52 pm to Iona Fan Man
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5 cheaters in 15 years, but only about 12% of the girls I have been with.
So you've been in 42 relationships in 15 years? Sounds like you have issues.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 4:29 pm to lsu1982
I would like to share some words of wisdom from another board some may find useful
quote QuadAces:
quote QuadAces:
quote:
"Cheating is like pissing. If you have enough pressure built up, it's going to happen. So don't drink a Big Gulp on a long car ride (trip to Jamaica with your BFF's, or Thailand with your bros, or class reunion without your spouse).
And once you break the seal and let loose, it'll take less and less pressure for you to do it again.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 4:34 pm to asurob1
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I don't feel the need to keep my wife on a chain like most of the posters in this thread
I dont want to keep her on a chain, I'd just prefer to keep other guys dicks out of here orifices. Too much to ask?
Posted on 6/16/14 at 4:37 pm to G Vice
Was with my ex for 14 years, dated for 7 and married for 7. 2 years after getting married I found on the computer, not snooping, where she had paid to get her Ex's phone number. That prompted snooping. I then found an email where she was telling him how she was still in love with him and thought about him every day. They broke up when she was 17.
Credit where credit is due, I saw his reply. He told her flat out he was very happy in his life, had an amazing wife and a beautiful child and wasn't interested. He wished her well and left it at that.
I confronted her with this info and she confessed to it, had no way to deny it. She also admitted that she had cheated on me twice with him when we were in college, well before we got married.
I was dumb and tried to work things out for a bit. Clearly there was no trust and I suspect her of cheating more after that but never could prove it. I know she lied about here whereabouts on several occasions, that's when I ended it.
The day I decided to leave, I went and got an apartment and planned to move in over the weekend. I went out that night and met a smoking hot cougar. Brought her back to my new apartment that had 0 furniture or anything in it and banged her brains out. She even laughed and said that was a hell of an introduction to my new neighbors.
After she left, I went back to my house because that's the only place I had to stay for the next 2 nights and laughed my arse off when I walked through the front door and she saw me. I simply farted and walked into the spare bedroom I had been sleeping in.
Couldn't be happier now, I have an amazing woman who has shown me what a true relationship is. I have every intention of putting a ring on her finger before the end of summer.
Credit where credit is due, I saw his reply. He told her flat out he was very happy in his life, had an amazing wife and a beautiful child and wasn't interested. He wished her well and left it at that.
I confronted her with this info and she confessed to it, had no way to deny it. She also admitted that she had cheated on me twice with him when we were in college, well before we got married.
I was dumb and tried to work things out for a bit. Clearly there was no trust and I suspect her of cheating more after that but never could prove it. I know she lied about here whereabouts on several occasions, that's when I ended it.
The day I decided to leave, I went and got an apartment and planned to move in over the weekend. I went out that night and met a smoking hot cougar. Brought her back to my new apartment that had 0 furniture or anything in it and banged her brains out. She even laughed and said that was a hell of an introduction to my new neighbors.
After she left, I went back to my house because that's the only place I had to stay for the next 2 nights and laughed my arse off when I walked through the front door and she saw me. I simply farted and walked into the spare bedroom I had been sleeping in.
Couldn't be happier now, I have an amazing woman who has shown me what a true relationship is. I have every intention of putting a ring on her finger before the end of summer.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 4:41 pm to Austin Cajun
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I was dumb and tried to work things out for a bit.
Wtf is wrong with you?
How could anyone work past that shite?
Posted on 6/16/14 at 4:44 pm to WW
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Wtf is wrong with you?
How could anyone work past that shite?
I knew it, just didn't want to admit it. Plus I was terrified of uprooting and starting over. Lesson learned, I'll never do that again.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 4:44 pm to Charlie Arglist
Was it a flip phone?
Posted on 6/16/14 at 4:59 pm to asurob1
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It humors me that people think if they pick their SO up at a church they will somehow be more loyal.
The divorce rate in the church is the same as in the world. Women initiate 70% of all divorces. Women in church are no more loyal than women in the world. Women are women. Period.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 5:49 pm to Monk
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"With that said, I'm not sure how or why the category would be focused more selectively on church-goers rather than folks with demonstrated morals and values."
my apologies.
I misread this line.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:00 pm to lsuhunt555
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I dont want to keep her on a chain, I'd just prefer to keep other guys dicks out of here orifices. Too much to ask?
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:55 pm to seeLSUrun
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seeLSUrun
Do you know the guy in your sig pic?
I think I did.
Last name starts with an F?
Posted on 9/30/15 at 12:49 am to KJason
Bump
Posted on 9/30/15 at 12:50 am to Ryan3232
You got something to tell us? Let it out son
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