re: Holidays: why do I not really care?

Or he could quit being so self absorbed- thinking about all the shite he’d Like to do for himself- like he apparently did last Thanksgiving (and every other day of the year). He could try to think of others and help make their holidays good. But it’s easier to bitch and make it all about him.

Last year I ran fever on thanksgiving so wife had to go tour the fricking countryside without me. My dad dropped off food and I watched football and ate good food alone. It was glorious.

I love seeing my family but the hustle of it all is stressful and exhausting.