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re: Have any of you ever refused to "put down" a family pet that probably needed it?
Posted on 7/1/22 at 1:53 pm to finchmeister08
Posted on 7/1/22 at 1:53 pm to finchmeister08
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he doesn't let us pet him like he used to. it has to be the gentlest touch for him to accept it.
Does he still take pleasure in anything, or is he just existing at this point?
Posted on 7/1/22 at 1:58 pm to finchmeister08
My cat was just stuck in a tree for about 10 days. I have spent pretty much all of my non work time to try and lure her down. She was too far up for a ladder. She would not come down for anything.
I finally called a tree climber, and he climbed up there this morning. She was frightened by him, and ended up retreating to the end of the limb. I had to make the decision for him to cut the branch that she was on. I just didn't see any other way.
She fell about 50 feet, at least. She immediately popped up and booked it, and now she is nowhere to be found. Hopefully she'll show back up. Hopefully she isn't holed up somewhere dying. Apparently cats can fall 100 feet and have a 95% chance of surving.
Its been a delightful last 10 days to say the least.
I finally called a tree climber, and he climbed up there this morning. She was frightened by him, and ended up retreating to the end of the limb. I had to make the decision for him to cut the branch that she was on. I just didn't see any other way.
She fell about 50 feet, at least. She immediately popped up and booked it, and now she is nowhere to be found. Hopefully she'll show back up. Hopefully she isn't holed up somewhere dying. Apparently cats can fall 100 feet and have a 95% chance of surving.
Its been a delightful last 10 days to say the least.
This post was edited on 7/1/22 at 2:00 pm
Posted on 7/1/22 at 1:58 pm to shutterspeed
my wife took him outside on a leash. something he never does unless he sneaks by us through the door while we're not watching.
went straight for a tree/bush, but he always did that even when he was healthy.
the one big thing we've noticed from him though is the massive weight loss. he only weighs 7.5 lbs when he should weight around 15. plus, he hardly eats.
went straight for a tree/bush, but he always did that even when he was healthy.
the one big thing we've noticed from him though is the massive weight loss. he only weighs 7.5 lbs when he should weight around 15. plus, he hardly eats.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:01 pm to finchmeister08
I would never refuse to put down a pet if the vet says it's time and nothing else can be done.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:03 pm to finchmeister08
Yeah, that's tough. Might inquire about putting him on prednisone. Should give him a few high-quality days but will probably hasten the job on the kidneys--hopefully leading to a quick, relatively painless end.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:06 pm to finchmeister08
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well, now he has total/terminal kidney failure, and is at a point where the vet suggests putting him to sleep.
Hey sorry to hear. I created a post about this topic over 3 weeks ago.
My dog Billy had the same kidney failure condition. I had to put him to sleep, worst heartbreak I've dealt with in years. He was 14.
Best advice is move forward. The pain and agony that they have to go through is way too much.
Maybe you can listen to good advice here in my old post:
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Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:09 pm to Palomitz
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This post was edited on 1/6/23 at 10:13 pm
Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:17 pm to finchmeister08
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Have any of you ever refused to "put down" a family pet that probably needed it?
if its suffering and in pain put it down, dont be selfish and keep it suffering because YOU cant do whats needed.
we had an old dog that was blind and both back legs stiff and couldnt move from arthritis, but it wasnt in any pain, so we didnt see the need to put it down. it was happy and lived 8 more years before it finally died
the key to making such a decision is if it is in pain and suffering
This post was edited on 7/1/22 at 2:18 pm
Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:21 pm to Gabapentin
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frick, I got something in my eye......
Yep, sorry to hear. Imagine a 50 year old dude having to pick up the ashes of his beloved dog with tears in his face and almost breaking down. Vet assistants staring the hell out of him and thinking in an effort to comfort him.
That was me.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:47 pm to finchmeister08
Why would you let a cat live in pain if there's no option to get better?
Posted on 7/1/22 at 2:54 pm to finchmeister08
When the vet says put it down, do it. I personally put down my beloved dog of 13 years when it was time. Just like with human, there's no sense in making them suffer needlessly at the end of their life.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 3:15 pm to finchmeister08
It is cruel to refuse to "put down" a family pet that needs to be put down. Man up, and get it done.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 3:33 pm to finchmeister08
My dad went to put down my 12 year old lab while I was at college. He said he stood up right before they stuck the needle in and said f it and brought him home. He lived another two solid years.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 3:34 pm to finchmeister08
Post pics of wife then her that her brother would not want his cat to suffer
Posted on 7/1/22 at 3:36 pm to finchmeister08
We've been in that situation a few times. Each time we get to the end, nobody in the house wants to put the pet down and we end up spending lots of $$$ trying to keep them alive a little longer...even though they were still miserable.
Point is, my opinion is don't waste the $$$ if the pet is near the end.
Point is, my opinion is don't waste the $$$ if the pet is near the end.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 3:40 pm to HubbaBubba
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Sounds like this is about you, and you don't want to pay for $750 in surgery for a member of your family.
I can’t imagine being as selfish as you are. The sad part is you think you actually live animals.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 9:54 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
well, we did it. we had an appointment already scheduled. just wanted to run it by the OT. my wife is still in/out of worrying if we did the right thing or not.
man, it was ultimately her cat, but i had gotten fond of it over the years. especially after we got married and moved in together. but what we went through at the vet, i don't wish that on anybody. my wife held his head, sobbing, crying how sorry she was as the vet was plunging the syringe. i nearly lost it as i saw his body go limp. just an overall horrible experience.
man, it was ultimately her cat, but i had gotten fond of it over the years. especially after we got married and moved in together. but what we went through at the vet, i don't wish that on anybody. my wife held his head, sobbing, crying how sorry she was as the vet was plunging the syringe. i nearly lost it as i saw his body go limp. just an overall horrible experience.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 10:47 pm to finchmeister08
Yes. Had a dog I kept putting off putting down. Had heat failure and developed a nasty cough. I set December 1st to put her down.
Before I went to work she wanted to go in front yard and lay in grass. I had to leave. She then pooped so I got her up and walked her out the back door and left her out in the back.
I cleaned up the mess and spot cleaned her. She refused to come inside and laid down in her spot.
When I can't back later with some last meal hamburgers my other dogs were freaking out.
I got to the back yard and she was dead by the door. Still warm bubbles coming out her nose.
I regret not being with her to the end.
I'm glad for the 15 years I got with her.
Before I went to work she wanted to go in front yard and lay in grass. I had to leave. She then pooped so I got her up and walked her out the back door and left her out in the back.
I cleaned up the mess and spot cleaned her. She refused to come inside and laid down in her spot.
When I can't back later with some last meal hamburgers my other dogs were freaking out.
I got to the back yard and she was dead by the door. Still warm bubbles coming out her nose.
I regret not being with her to the end.
I'm glad for the 15 years I got with her.
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