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re: Gf’s texts
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:03 am to SaintsTiger
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:03 am to SaintsTiger
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Yeah boundaries and “trust” are a thing. Especially important when she’s porking some other dude(s) and she doesn’t want you going through her phone.
Ehh we are getting second hand information from the POV of the OP. If she thought it was settled then OP hours later still isn’t over it and didn’t trust what she said I could see where she would be irritated by him displaying his distrust. Regardless of the situation.
Either way trust has been broken on both sides and most likely can never recover. Someone who wants to work on their relationship in a healthy grown up way isn’t asking a message board for advice. He came here because he wanted to be talked into breaking up with her.
This post was edited on 7/4/21 at 9:04 am
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Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:08 am to tonydtigr
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As it was explained in the other thread, the first shovel is used to dispatch the cheater and is thrown in the hole with her and filled in with the second shovel. Ask Rando about it. He came up with the method.
Its a Geoff Tate joke
Very underrated comedian.
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:11 am to ctb504
In all seriousness. your gf getting a “hey” text at 1:00 in the morning is no bueno in any scenario.
But ignore my opinion if that’s the time of day parents/friends with special needs children are supposed to reach out to discuss life.
But ignore my opinion if that’s the time of day parents/friends with special needs children are supposed to reach out to discuss life.
Posted on 7/4/21 at 9:58 am to FelicianaTigerfan
OP should just walk up to the dude and crack him in the jaw next time he sees him.
Posted on 7/4/21 at 4:39 pm to Hamma1122
Bump for OP update.
Posted on 7/4/21 at 4:40 pm to JudgeHolden
quote:was wondering the same, last we heard OP and her got into it then he was headed home to start drinking
Bump for OP update.
Posted on 7/4/21 at 4:44 pm to ctb504
How did Joey Freshwater and your future ex gf meet?
Posted on 7/4/21 at 4:45 pm to BFANLC
I probably shouldn’t have texted her so late, sorry
Posted on 7/4/21 at 4:46 pm to HoboDickCheese
quote:
Bump for OP update.
was wondering the same, last we heard OP and her got into it then he was headed home to start drinking
He sent a "Hey Stranger" text out to an old acquaintance after he was halfway in the bottle.
Posted on 7/4/21 at 6:10 pm to BuckyCheese
No idea if the gf is being shady or not, but this is the second time OP got upset and his solution was booze. OP is a child and needs to grow up before he starts dating again.
Posted on 7/4/21 at 6:23 pm to BayouCatFan
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but this is the second time OP got upset and his solution was booze
Red flags on both sides. And makes it more likely she is exploring options.
Posted on 7/5/21 at 2:28 pm to JudgeHolden
Bump how did this end OP?
Posted on 7/5/21 at 3:37 pm to cpp2208
With social media this days you know when someone is in a relationship, they want to be in.
The OP said it’s been a year.
There is no way this guy, who apparently became “friendly” with OP’s gf didn’t know she didn’t have a BF. Unless the girl doesn’t make her relationship present on social media. Which is a red flag.
-“Hey stranger” indicates they haven’t spoken in a minute. A couple months, but definitely not over a year, prior to OP. Which means she’s already spoken to this dude while in a relationship with the OP.
- no man texts a girl at 1am, who isn’t confident he can possibly pull some arse, or trying won’t come off as weird to the girl
- If they were friendly and messaged before about “special needs kids”, she would have his number saved.
Now all this could indicate the dude is a dog. He doesn’t care she has a man. OR they really haven’t spoken in a long time, he ran across someone who they mutually knew and he decided to drunkingly reach out.
Girl could be innocent, but my question is why was she so quick to delete the number and block? If it was nothing, why not show OP the messages to ease his concerns, message the guy back “I have a boyfriend and 1am is inappropriate” or ignore it?
Why did she have a melt down when he touched her phone? That is a huge red flag.
I was always taught that if you have to block something or delete stuff you’re hiding something. If you have stuff on your phone your partner can’t see, you’re hiding stuff.
It may be nothing but a drunk past fling, idiot friend shooting their shot at 1am, but why all the extra shite on her end? I see nothing but red flags, and there’s too many women out there to have to worry about anything while in a relationship.
I think the OP’s gf hasn’t told the complete truth. That’s just me.
The OP said it’s been a year.
There is no way this guy, who apparently became “friendly” with OP’s gf didn’t know she didn’t have a BF. Unless the girl doesn’t make her relationship present on social media. Which is a red flag.
-“Hey stranger” indicates they haven’t spoken in a minute. A couple months, but definitely not over a year, prior to OP. Which means she’s already spoken to this dude while in a relationship with the OP.
- no man texts a girl at 1am, who isn’t confident he can possibly pull some arse, or trying won’t come off as weird to the girl
- If they were friendly and messaged before about “special needs kids”, she would have his number saved.
Now all this could indicate the dude is a dog. He doesn’t care she has a man. OR they really haven’t spoken in a long time, he ran across someone who they mutually knew and he decided to drunkingly reach out.
Girl could be innocent, but my question is why was she so quick to delete the number and block? If it was nothing, why not show OP the messages to ease his concerns, message the guy back “I have a boyfriend and 1am is inappropriate” or ignore it?
Why did she have a melt down when he touched her phone? That is a huge red flag.
I was always taught that if you have to block something or delete stuff you’re hiding something. If you have stuff on your phone your partner can’t see, you’re hiding stuff.
It may be nothing but a drunk past fling, idiot friend shooting their shot at 1am, but why all the extra shite on her end? I see nothing but red flags, and there’s too many women out there to have to worry about anything while in a relationship.
I think the OP’s gf hasn’t told the complete truth. That’s just me.
Posted on 7/20/21 at 1:48 am to LSUcajun77
Bump to ask where the tracker on her car said she was
Posted on 7/20/21 at 1:49 am to NolaTiger52
quote:the community pool
Bump to ask where the tracker on her car said she was
Posted on 7/20/21 at 1:51 am to HoboDickCheese
quote:
the community pool
So many similarities between these two threads, it’s uncanny. What if it’s the same guy?
Posted on 7/20/21 at 5:17 am to ctb504
quote:
How does the OT approach in the morning?
Dump her before you catch VD from her.
And by no means do you marry her.
Posted on 8/7/21 at 8:42 am to Tempratt
Never got a resolution to this situation. OP sent this woman back to the streets I take it.
Posted on 8/7/21 at 9:09 am to monsterballads
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