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re: First Vehicle for you kid?

Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:05 am to
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:05 am to
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Right. Because this is what I said


Here is what you said.

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And no, I'm not going to make a 16 year old pay for a vehicle. That's dumb.


Sounds to me like you think it’s “dumb” to make your kid help pay for their own car. Like I said, great parenting there.
Posted by PrivatePublic
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:05 am to
Whatever self driving car is available then. No accidents, cheaper insurance will make the additional expense worth it.
Posted by unbeWEAVEable
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:06 am to
Some kind of classic car. I hear that millennials love them.
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:07 am to
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This is your default mode when you’re losing an argument. You automatically start hurling insults.


Says the guy who called me a creep.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:07 am to
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Sounds to me like you think it’s “dumb” to make your kid help pay for their own car. Like I said, great parenting there.


Right.

Which doesn't mean I'm not going to teach my kids about budgeting and saving and being responsible.

Are you so dumb that you just can't fathom other ways to accomplish these things?
Posted by oldcharlie8
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:08 am to
doesn't matter what you get. they will wreck the damn thing.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:08 am to
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This is your default mode when you’re losing an argument. You automatically start hurling insults.



I'm pretty sure he started this thread just so he could call other parents "bad parents"

Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:09 am to
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Which doesn't mean I'm not going to teach my kids about budgeting and saving and being responsible.

Are you so dumb that you just can't fathom other ways to accomplish these things?


Are you so dumb you can’t fathom the best way to accomplish these things is with a part time job, their own checking account, and responsibility for at least some of the cost of their bills?
Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:09 am to
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Sounds to me like you think it’s “dumb” to make your kid help pay for their own car. Like I said, great parenting there.


After Darth Jr totalled the Tahoe, who bought the p/u truck?
Posted by tgrbaitn08
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:10 am to
And let everyone know how poor he is by telling everyone how rich he is.

Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:10 am to
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Are you so dumb you can’t fathom the best way to accomplish these things is with a part time job, their own checking account, and responsibility for at least some of the cost of their bills?


Is it?

And where did I say that they wouldn't get a part time job? Or a checking account? Or responsibility to pay for their own things?

Please link this. I'll wait.

Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:11 am to
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m pretty sure he started this thread just so he could call other parents "bad parents


No I started to discuss cars. I’m calling you a bad parent because you think it’s “dumb” to make a teen help pay their own bills. Shitty parents coddling their kids like you are why so many kids are infantile now and can’t function as adults.
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:13 am to
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After Darth Jr totalled the Tahoe, who bought the p/u truck?


A minor can’t buy a vehicle on their own. The parent has to buy it and the teen takes a portion of their paycheck from their after school job to go toward the payment and insurance.

But you already knew that. Or at least I hope you did.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:13 am to
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I’m calling you a bad parent because you think it’s “dumb” to make a teen help pay their own bills. Shitty parents coddling their kids like you are why so many kids are infantile now and can’t function as adults.


I said its dumb to make kids pay for their car. That's it.

You took that as me not teaching my kids any responsibility or how to function in the real world.

My parents didn't make me pay for my first vehicle. Guess what? I still had a part time job! And still had to pay for my own things! And I still learned how to budget properly and function in the real world.

It's truly amazing how that happened.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:14 am to
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Shitty parents coddling their kids like you are why so many kids are infantile now and can’t function as adults.


Because a good parent bought their kid their first car?
Posted by JDPndahizzy
JDP
Member since Nov 2013
6841 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:17 am to
I bought older model trucks (about 10 years old from the year I purchased) and put replacement bumpers on the front. My 2 boys did ok but my daughter beat the shite out of hers. All were around 4k at the time of purchase. Carried liability only. They had to pay their own fuel and keep clean, wash, etc...
Posted by dsides
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:19 am to
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My kids don’t have time for an after school job. They barely have time to work a little part time job during the summer.


How come? If they know how to manage time they should also have time to work in addition to school and other activities.
Posted by geauxtigers456
Member since Jul 2015
2067 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:19 am to
The vast majority are too bad with money to help children once they turn 18+. People don't know how to save. They'll spin it to some responsibility thing, when it's the opposite. Nothing like those life lessons you learn broke down on the side of the road, oh wait.
Posted by Mr Breeze
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Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:20 am to
Anything old, large and slow.

Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
57892 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 8:21 am to
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My parents didn't make me pay for my first vehicle. Guess what? I still had a part time job! And still had to pay for my own things! And I still learned how to budget properly and function in the real world.

the “you have to pay for everything yourself to learn responsibility” people just say that to cope with jealousy tbh
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