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re: Ex/Current GF question

Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:35 pm to
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9055 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

Why would you want your current GF there?


This. A funeral isn't exactly an occasion that you should feel compelled to bring a date to.
This post was edited on 5/25/16 at 2:36 pm
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:36 pm to
What the frick is wrong with you people? How can y'all act like this is normal behavior? How many exes relatives do you attend funerals for? Y'all must live at the fricking funeral home.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

Question is should I take present GF with me or go it alone. Really not into pissing either one of them off.


If your GF gets pissed off at you for going or doesn't understand why her going with you isn't a good idea, then you're dating the wrong woman.
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
4444 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:36 pm to
Awesome date.

Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:36 pm to
Go alone. The only time it's acceptable to bring a SO to a funeral (in my opinion) is if you're either married or have been dating for years. Weddings are one thing, funerals are a whole different ballgame.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114210 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:37 pm to
quote:

Really don't want her there but don't want her pissed thinking I'm hiding something because bitches be crazy





If she doesn't trust you, that's on her... unless you gave her a reason to not trust you. Either way, tell her if she is honestly that worried, she can go, but she has to stay her arse in the car.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
22003 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:38 pm to
Go alone
Posted by cjared036
Houston, tx
Member since Dec 2009
9569 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:38 pm to
it blows my mind why people seek out drama.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:39 pm to
Go alone. She isn't your wife.
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:40 pm to
quote:

What the frick is wrong with you people? How can y'all act like this is normal behavior? How many exes relatives do you attend funerals for?


Only my ex-girlfriends's uncles. We were very close. like balls on the chin close.

I thought it would bring us closer, as she also experienced their balls on her chin.

Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:40 pm to
quote:

Really don't want her there but don't want her pissed thinking I'm hiding something because bitches be crazy


If she is going to get pissed at you for going to a funeral, dump her now because you are in for a lifetime of headaches. Does she think you are going to bang your ex on the uncle's casket? Jesus.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114210 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:41 pm to
quote:

What the frick is wrong with you people? How can y'all act like this is normal behavior? How many exes relatives do you attend funerals for? Y'all must live at the fricking funeral home.



I am assuming he and the uncle had a really close friend/relative type relationship. If its someone he only saw at family events with the ex and he really liked the uncle then there is no need to go. Sending flowers is the best way to go. Its more personable, you avoid the awkward situation while showing empathy for the loss.
Posted by tigerfann83
Member since Jul 2015
603 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:43 pm to
Go alone
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

Does she think you are going to bang your ex on the uncle's casket?


She thinks he's gong to frick the dead uncle. Again.
Posted by DJ3K
Member since Dec 2011
6781 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

don't go.

send a card and flowers.


This!

Or take current GF with you. If you don't have feelings for your ex then it should not be a problem for your current GF to tag along.

Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
59907 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:44 pm to
didn't read whole thread.

of course you go alone in case you get some funeral sex
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19535 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:45 pm to
Haven't you learned.

Weddings and funerals are open game on old flames, play on the X's emotions and hit it for ole times sake
Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:47 pm to
quote:

Question is should I take present GF with me
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go pay your respects alone, in prayer
Posted by K E V 8 4
Member since Jul 2010
608 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:49 pm to
quote:

within days of passing
quote:

He and i were very close

So, you're talking about going to see him before he dies, right? Is that what you're asking? Everybody's already at the funeral. Go alone to see him before he dies, assuming he's conscious and aware.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 5/25/16 at 2:51 pm to
quote:

So, you're talking about going to see him before he dies, right? Is that what you're asking? Everybody's already at the funeral. Go alone to see him before he dies, assuming he's conscious and aware


I would just do this and avoid the funeral completely.
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