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re: Do you ever talk to your exes?

Posted on 1/12/14 at 11:27 am to
Posted by QuietTiger
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2003
26256 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 11:27 am to
Yeah, 3, but mostly via e-mail. Wasn't married to any.
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64707 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 11:29 am to
The only ex I talk to is my ex wife. And we only talk about things regarding our son. We don't talk about anything else.
This post was edited on 1/12/14 at 11:30 am
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 11:37 am to
I have 2 kids with my ex, I speak to her but lately I have been thinking of the last 10 years and all of the lies that she's told over that time and the damage they have caused. Not to mention that people accept what she says as truth. She actually believes the bullshite. I really can't stand the sight of her. It would be easy to be angry at her bullshite but she is just being who she is.
Posted by Bourre
Da Parish
Member since Nov 2012
20753 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 11:40 am to
Being civil with an ex because of kids is not the same as hanging in the friend zone with an ex just because you wanna be a beta male
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
36743 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:09 pm to
How do you guys feel when the person you're with now still talks to their ex(es) occasionally?
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:11 pm to
Not a problem if they're not hiding it
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
36743 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:12 pm to
Define hiding, please.
Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:14 pm to
Um, not telling you they're talking to them?

What's the real question here? Your new gf is talking to an ex?
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
36743 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:16 pm to
She talks to all of them. Which I don't really have a problem with cause they were before me. But one in particular bothers me cause I actually know the person. Maybe I'm just insecure about it.
Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:19 pm to
Well if there's something about it that makes you uncomfortable then talk to her

She may be willing to stop talking to him to ease your fears
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
36743 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:22 pm to
I've tried, but she thinks I'm crazy for not realizing I'm the one that "won" her. And that people still remain friends after breaking up with each other. I think it's bull, but I let it slide every time.
Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:25 pm to
Then it sounds like you have no choice in the matter but to accept it or break up with her

Talking to an ex in itself is not something for you to be worried about it
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
36743 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:29 pm to
Thanks Paige, for a women's insight.
Posted by Florida225
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2008
2855 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:35 pm to
It's a trap dude
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
36743 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:45 pm to
What is?
Posted by chesty
Flap City C.C.
Member since Oct 2012
12731 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:51 pm to
All my exes live in texas, and I hate that state
Posted by ElroyJetSon
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2011
4018 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:53 pm to
You're smarter than your friends. I would never want to do that to myself.
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
11679 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:55 pm to
quote:

I've tried, but she thinks I'm crazy for not realizing I'm the one that "won" her. And that people still remain friends after breaking up with each other. I think it's bull, but I let it slide every time.


Does she initiate the conversations or is she just being nice and having a cordial conversation?
Posted by ballscaster
Member since Jun 2013
26861 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:58 pm to
Some yes, some no. One's actually become a good friend, which surprises me since she was the shittiest craziest girlfriend I ever had.
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
36743 posts
Posted on 1/12/14 at 1:59 pm to
I don't really know to be honest. I don't ask to avoid an argument.
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