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re: Divorced guys, click here
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:25 am to northshorebamaman
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:25 am to northshorebamaman
Went through the same thing man. Ex was an alcoholic that never worked a day in her life. Made my life hell and the only reason I stuck around was for my to children (5&10 at the time). She started hanging out with some shady people and blamed me for everything wrong in her life. In retrospect she was tired of being a wife and something of a mother and wanted to act like a teenager. We divorced and she dropped the kids at her moms. Took almost a year for me to gain full custody of my kids. Her family is extremely well off and made things tough. I have since remarried to a fantastic woman who is everything the ex was not. The ex got to live the party life she desired for about two years. She overdosed two years after divorce and passed. Now, my kids have a wonderful mother and life is wonderful for all of us. The death was not as rough as expected on them. Be the good man that you will tell everyone you were to her and that will be enough to bring you everything you deserve.
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Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:27 am to ChuckUFarley
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Ex was an alcoholic that never worked a day in her life.
Yet you made the decision to marry her
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:29 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Yet you made the decision to marry her
I did. She was only 19 at the time so career wasn't something that she was expected to have. She got pregnant, so we got married. One of those situations
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:29 am to northshorebamaman
My first wife was crazy and an addict. The things her issues made me think about myself are hard for me to reconcile sometimes now that I'm through it. I was lucky and she pulled the plug. Thankfully by the time she tried coming back I had healed enough to see through the manipulation and moved on with my life. It sucks and it's hard but you need to get away for yourself and find happiness whatever that might be.
This post was edited on 8/26/22 at 11:32 am
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:32 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Yet you made the decision to marry her
You really must be a miserable person
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:33 am to northshorebamaman
Like Mad Dog Mattis said, be nice to everyone you meet but have a plan to kill them.
Not saying to kill your spouse just saying to stand your ground. Be nice to her as it could be used against you but in your mind and actions be prepared....because this shite will get ugly.
Bona fides: twice divorced
Not saying to kill your spouse just saying to stand your ground. Be nice to her as it could be used against you but in your mind and actions be prepared....because this shite will get ugly.
Bona fides: twice divorced
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:33 am to jchamil
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You really must be a miserable person
Were getting one side of a story and it's really easy to shite on another person when they aren't there to defend themselves. They shite on another person, yet don't relfelct on their own judge of character.
Take some responsibility for your actions
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:34 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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. They shite on another person, yet don't relfelct on their own judge of character.
Mingo
This shite is hilarous.
This post was edited on 8/26/22 at 11:35 am
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:35 am to RogerTheShrubber
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its a matter of opportunity.
You just didn't have any.
Mingo hasn't touched a woman, his time will come.
So everyone who has never cheated on a significant other just hasn't had the opportunity?
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:38 am to tunechi
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So everyone who has never cheated on a significant other just hasn't had the opportunity?
Everyone has their price, with love or money.
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:39 am to RogerTheShrubber
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Everyone has their price
And yours is a used needle and $6 bottle of vodka
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:41 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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And yours is a used needle and $6 bottle of vodka
I'm terrified of needles little guy. I'd like to be a junkie, but alas its not in the cards.
Maybe in my next life.
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:42 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Were getting one side of a story and it's really easy to shite on another person when they aren't there to defend themselves. They shite on another person, yet don't relfelct on their own judge of character.
Take some responsibility for your actions
I wasnt shitting on anyone. I would think that the overdose/death would show you what kind of person she was. Also, the fact that she dropped off her kids never to return. These are facts and its not name calling. I was responsible for marrying her and own that.
I dont stay on these boards all day. Is this your schtick or something? Its cool if it is, I prefer conversation over confrontation if possible, but to each his own.
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:43 am to ChuckUFarley
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. I was responsible for marrying her and own that.
You are one of few
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:43 am to ChuckUFarley
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Is this your schtick or something?
He's an early 20's kid. He has no experience with life.
Its no schtick. He's actually this neurotic.
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:44 am to Mingo Was His NameO
Mingo you're giving Oweo a run for his $$$
Come on man...
Come on man...
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:46 am to RogerTheShrubber
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He's an early 20's kid. He has no experience with life.
Its no schtick. He's actually this neurotic.
I see. Those kind of people stumble upon some good perspective sometimes too. I think life is the best teacher but I dont have an issue with different perspectives when well thought out. It takes all kinds
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:46 am to ChuckUFarley
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I wasnt shitting on anyone.
Sounds like you did the right thing, she didnt. Aint on you.
Life changes, people change, shite happens. We evolve and move on.
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:48 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Every ex wife in these threads is a bitch or crazy
I swear you're illiterate.
Posted on 8/26/22 at 11:48 am to Mingo Was His NameO
Bro chill
Go on tSECR if you want to flame people.
Go on tSECR if you want to flame people.
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