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re: Divorced dudes in your 40s is the following true?

Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:41 am to
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:41 am to
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Someone mentioned it earlier, but you tend not to have anything in common with someone that young


meh, have much more in common with 20-year-olds than divorcees with kids in their 30s.

if you have baggage yourself, then i guess that may explain it

its not like women magically mature once they reach a certain age, they are always crazy
Posted by YeauxGurt
Daigoba
Member since Dec 2011
281 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:48 am to
How do yall meet these women? I'm 42 & got divorced over the summer... nothing. Dating apps aren't really working & Cadillac Cafe sucks.
Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
98732 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:49 am to
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I was 38 when i got divorced and i had a career and money. Was smashing many women from 25-35. It was crazy how easy it was to get laid. It was easier than when I went through my first divorce at 30. Money, a stable career and confidence and you'll have hos in every zip code.


I love my wife and kids and I'm glad I got married but if something happened I ended up divorced I can't think of one good reason to get married again.

ETA: Im 37
This post was edited on 12/5/17 at 9:50 am
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
24726 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:53 am to
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I'm only 27, but the amount of divorced/single parent females my age popping up is legitimately staggering.

Married and divorced before 30 always surprises me
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171949 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:56 am to
Marrying a 19 year old sounds miserable.

"Omg and then becky said she wasn't even going to the party and I was like OMG you bitch!"
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
37844 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:58 am to
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meh, have much more in common with 20-year-olds than divorcees with kids in their 30s.


Depends on the person. The divorcee with kids tends to fit a certain description in my experience. I don't identify with the early 20's as much because they are still in that phase of finding themselves in society. Mid and late 20's works for me as they are past that, more confident, and have an idea of what they want in life. Somebody who doesn't have that won't get why I enjoy my professional life the way I do.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32980 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:59 am to
Is this the thread where all the divorced baws gather to convince themselves that their trashy lives aren't a total disaster?
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
37844 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:03 am to
No, it's a sub-culture of men who are single but experiencing at a later point in life. It is an interesting thing to watch society move from the get a job, get married, have kids formula
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:04 am to
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yellowfin
do i have to get divorced to experience all of these wonders?
Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
98732 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:08 am to
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wonders?


Easy women?

1. Money
2. Power
3. Looks
4. Single

In that order
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138138 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:16 am to
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Easy women?
I don't deal in those sorts of affairs

Speaking of, how is our blonde, bolt-on friend doing these days?
Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
98732 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:19 am to
quote:

Speaking of, how is our blonde, bolt-on friend doing these days?


Gonna have to narrow it down a little more than that
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:24 am to
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I love my wife and kids and I'm glad I got married but if something happened I ended up divorced I can't think of one good reason to get married again

Same. I'm 42 but I'd never get married again if we got divorced.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62286 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:27 am to
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Same. I'm 42 but I'd never get married again if we got divorced.


Agreed. And yet you have baws in this thread who are on their third marriages. They don't sound too bright.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
66298 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:30 am to
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I'm only 27, but the amount of divorced/single parent females my age popping up is legitimately staggering.


I've been seeing it a bit later with some college friends. It's like around mid-30's, women decide they had the marriage experience, got their kids, and want to get out and live the Sex and the City lifestyle while they still have some looks/game. Especially women with corporate jobs in bigger cities. That is the one big risk to marrying the independent woman with ambition/cash.
This post was edited on 12/5/17 at 10:32 am
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:54 am to
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Agreed. And yet you have baws in this thread who are on their third marriages. They don't sound too bright.


I'm 47 on my second marriage, there wouldn't be a third regardless of circumstances.
Posted by HippieTiger
Boulder, CO
Member since Oct 2015
2150 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:58 am to
Mistake #1 - getting married in the first place

You baws gonna learn eventually
Posted by down time
space
Member since Oct 2013
1914 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 10:58 am to
Look at Dr. Thompkins - Morena Baccarin from Gotham (Brazilian) or Wonder Woman - Gal Godat (Israeli)




This post was edited on 12/5/17 at 10:59 am
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
20733 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 11:02 am to
True.

There is no better position for a man to be in the dating game than to be single with a good job in his 40’s.

Just don’t make the same mistake again- marriage is for suckers. Hopefully you’ve learned your lesson.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 11:11 am to
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getting married in the first place



i have recently extended this further to just avoid relationships altogether

before any relationship i have ever been involved with, i had so much more creativity and drive.

when in relationships, focus shifts to doing things to appease the girl, her family, her social circles, etc.

this was never my comfort zone, but i existed in it.

now that i am free from any desire of a relationship, i can sort of allow myself to be who i was before, but now with more wisdom and opportunity.

i encourage all men to find this feeling, its special

the sex drive is still there but its not hard to get laid in 2017 without commitment so feminists have taken care of that potential obstacle.
This post was edited on 12/5/17 at 11:14 am
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