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re: Are any of you baws married or in a relationship where you don’t love you SO
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:06 am to Will Cover
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:06 am to Will Cover
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If you’re looking for happiness through someone else, you are going to be disappointed.
True story. Not looking to get that from her. IDK if the commitment part is scaring me or what. I lived in to my late 20s without even financing a car, i never really had a lot of bills and could just quit work and go wander for a few months. Kind of feeling suffocated with car notes, home loans, etc. It's all set up to trap you.
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Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:37 am to Loup
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Kind of feeling suffocated with car notes, home loans, etc. It's all set up to trap you.
Those are choices that you made and agreed to.
You can’t hold that against her if the two of you didn’t properly communicate prior to and during marriage. If you do, you are going to start to feel anger and resentment towards her and that isn’t fair to her and the relationship.
Posted on 3/10/20 at 12:07 pm to Will Cover
Agreed. If you were part of that decision then you can’t hold it against her. My best advise is to be open and honest about how you feel financially trapped by it and see if she would be onboard with eating rice and beans and second job etc to bust your asses to get out of debt. That would free you up and eliminate that strain on your relationship.
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