re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...

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They didn't shut down my advances at all even though their fat boyfriends were there

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well, and this is just me, but that was doomed from the start for 2 reasons.
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1. women never go to weddings alone even ugly ones will find someone to go with so you knew from jump they were taken

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2. even if they were by any chance alone, they never would have given it up because a woman will never look like a hoe in front of her friends. hoe behavior is always solitary


so the first thing i would have done is pick one out and isolated her from everyone else so that she let the hoe in her out you could have gotten the number, and went back in and no one be the wiser

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How long do you keep casting before you pick up the anchor?

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Law of averages

If you are even in the Top 33% of men if you approach enough you will eventually find success

If you are in the Top 25% or Top 20% or Top 10% your chances are even better

All men should strive to be in the Top 10% of men. These days it's not hard. Lift, eat right, stay in shape, be confident, work hard and be disciplined. Just do those things and by default you will be close.

Remember: The Top 20% of men get 80% of the women. 80% of the women fight for that Top 20% of men. Find a way to be in the Top 20%.

Hell by simply approaching women you can get there. Most men are afraid to approach. By approaching women it shows confidence and outcome independence, two qualities attractive to women. Even though I get turned down far more than not, almost every woman I approach is receptive to me approaching and seems to be glad I did. Just have to find a way to open with her. I usually compliment something she is wearing or try to find common ground based on where we are (I.e. If I approach a girl at a grocery store I comment on something she is looking at)

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If you are in the Top 25% or Top 20% or Top 10% your chances are even better All men should strive to be in the Top 10% of men. These days it's not hard. Lift, eat right, stay in shape, be confident, work hard and be disciplined. Just do those things and by default you will be close. Remember: The Top 20% of men get 80% of the women. 80% of the women fight for that Top 20% of men. Find a way to be in the Top 20%. Hell by simply approaching women you can get there. Most men are afraid to approach. By approaching women it shows confidence and outcome independence, two qualities attractive to women. Even though I get turned down far more than not, almost every woman I approach is receptive to me approaching and seems to be glad I did. Just have to find a way to open with her. I usually compliment something she is wearing or try to find common ground based on where we are (I.e. If I approach a girl at a grocery store I comment on something she is looking at)

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Literally copying and pasting shite from /r redpill.

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Literally copying and pasting shite from /r redpill.

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Well first off I am an endorsed contributor there and second, so what? These concepts are basic level TRP shite but OP needs basic level shite right now. He is so far deep into the failing blue pilled shite approach to women he needs to do a complete 180 reversal. Might as well start with the fundamentals.

To be honest there is really nothing that complex to TRP. Once you have the fundamentals down it's pretty easy to navigate from there

He's saying something similar. Both of you are getting at the root of the issue, which is making yourself desirable and not taking things personally. You just come across as a guy who would stick his dick in anything and I'm skeptical about the quality of women you're dealing with.

This is awesome

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When you as a guy hold females to a higher standard than they hold you, you get the cream of the crop

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I know you are trolling me but this is very accurate

It's why casting your net wide is a big deal. Allows you to filter out women who don't meet your standards easier.

Take this example:

Let's say you find a woman and spend hours talking to her, getting to know her, focusing on her and her only. You finally meet up after a week of talking online and getting to know her. You show up to the date and turns out she is a (insert deal breaker here). For this example I use a deal breaker for me which is a single mom. She's a single mom. It's a lot harder to walk away since you have already invested so much time into her and you didn't talk to any other girls so you have no other potential options in the bullpen.

Now let's do it different. Say you meet this woman and set up a meet with her after very minimal conversation. Just enough chatting to set up logistics. Then you talk to 11 other women and set up a couple meet ups with 2 others. You go out and learn that the first woman is a single mom. A lot easier to walk away because you barely even talked to her which means you didn't invest much at all in her, plus you have arranged meet ups with 2 other women.

Again. Finding women is like applying for a job. The more resumes you send out not only will you have a higher chance of getting hired, but you will have a higher chance of getting multiple offers so you can weed out the offers that end up being crappy and pick the best one. If you only send out 1 resume and if they even offer you, if the offer sucks you have to either take it or start back at square 1.

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