re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...

How old are you?

Cherish your alone time.

Once you find someone you'll be tired of putting up with their crap at one point or another

Here is a video of me giving you some quick advice

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Just got done with a wedding and it was all off the cuff so I didn't have much time to gather my thoughts but this is the general gist of it

I can follow up more tomorrow

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So basically according to you all you think I'm a hopeless cause right?

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I don't think so. Again...learning experience.

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I think it's just all my dating failures that have piled up that make me feel like giving up.

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See I felt that way once back when I was single and online dating. I was real close to just giving up on dating for a few months all together cause I was just frustrated and tired of getting excited over guys and then feeling that huge letdown when it didn't work out. Then I met a guy online that asked me out. His profile sparked my curiosity and we had some similar interests. Also...he invited me to go with him to his church and I had been looking for a new church at the time. So I figured even if the date bombed...at least I could check the church out.


I ended up marrying him.

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Here is a video of me giving you some quick advice

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"My mom is honestly my best friend,"

Her pussy dried up so hard...

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Here is a video of me giving you some quick advice 

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Watched first minute solid info

Has anyone in here told you to switch to guys yet? Cause it sounds like you'd like that better.

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See I felt that way once back when I was single and online dating. I was real close to just giving up on dating for a few months all together cause I was just frustrated and tired of getting excited over guys and then feeling that huge letdown when it didn't work out. Then I met a guy online that asked me out. His profile sparked my curiosity and we had some similar interests. Also...he invited me to go with him to his church and I had been looking for a new church at the time. So I figured even if the date bombed...at least I could check the church out.

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with all due respect, you're a woman.; when a woman chooses not to date, it's because they haven't found anyone they deem worthy enough. when a man can't find a date, it's because he can't find anyone lol. the end result is the same, but the two does two totally different things on the psyche. At the end of the day, in the back of your mind you know the guy at work who is drooling over you would go on a date if you had to stoop know that someone values you. a man who is single for his whole life like this guy is, is thinking that no one on earth values him at all. it's two totally different things.

with that said, great job and best of luck with your marriage

"You know, you all really aren't helping, I was hoping for some sympathy.

I feel like Charlie Brown when he's about to kick the football and Lucy pulls it away from him. It was right there for me, I though I really had a connection with this woman, and boom it gets pulled from me right at the last second."


Better that you didn't go out with her. You don't exude confidence and it comes through to every woman you meet. She would have not gone on a second date. You try to fricking hard to be the perfect guy thinking that is the key to your issues. You have to learn how to make women chase you and that comes from a skill set you don't currently have in your repertoire. You need to go with the shotgun approach and show casual interest in multiple women. Women are competitive against each other. You have to make them think they are in a competition to be the one that you fall for. You have to figure out how to play the game. It is basic psychology. You can't bury your teeth into a woman just because they are willing to converse with you....that freaks them out that you are weak and obsessive. This is likely your problem. You need to learn the cat and mouse aspect of getting laid. Ignore her at times. Be non-chalant and indifferent at times. The tell her how much you were thinking of her at a certain time and hope to see her real soon and set a date. She is now in an unrealized (to her) competition not only with other women but with your friends. She will work to win the battle and will bring out her biggest gun to win. That is the pussy.

Quit looking for some woman to fall in love with you on the first date. Get their (remember, multiple women) interest only and then play the game. It can takes a few weeks to get laid but you will if you play it right. It can be exhausting but right now I just want you to get laid. Do this for 2 months and report back. It will not be easy because you aren't built this way but it must be done to save you.

You are a god