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re: Age difference in relationships - How much is too much.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:36 pm to eScott
Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:36 pm to eScott
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SO I could date a 16 year old?
If you're 18, then yeah. I don't see any problem with an 18 year old dating a 16 year old.
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My gf is 17 years younger than me. There is a difference in the way we view some things, but it doesn't cause problems.
So, she's 1?
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Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:38 pm to mikelbr
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Nice try you ole dawg
i get more subtle with my posts each time this thread comes up
Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:44 pm to Stexas
I'm 34 and currently dating a girl that is about to turn 20. We really like each other and are going to see how things go. IDGAF what people think. In the end, nobody goes home with you. It's just you and her, so if you can find love and have a happy life, do it.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:46 pm to CAD703X
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you bunch of old perverts
I'm going to be a dirty old man until I'm a dead old man!
Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:46 pm to Stexas
1/2 the age of your oldest hemorrhoid + 7.
I don't make the rules, I just follow them.
I don't make the rules, I just follow them.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:50 pm to Stexas
My grandparents were 15 years apart and seemed happy enough. Not that big of a deal.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 12:51 pm to jvilletiger25
How did yall meet?
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:06 pm to lsunurse
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How did yall meet?
We have been going to the same church for a year. She chased me down in the parking lot after service one day and asked for my number. I'm neighbors with the music minister's family, which she is related to. They told her she should ask me out. I talk crap on TD, but I'm really a good geniune guy.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:11 pm to Stexas
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15 yrs in difference
If he's 35-40, it's creepy and she's likely got big issues.
If he's 40-50, not so much.
If he's 55, not weird.
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I'm 34 and currently dating a girl that is about to turn 20.
Good for you, but the girl likely has issues that will come out at some point.
This post was edited on 6/8/15 at 1:18 pm
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:13 pm to jvilletiger25
Gotcha. Well good luck 
Only concern is just that where she is maturity wise and where you are maturity wise. And factor in her friends. That is a huge thing. All her friends will be going out frequently once they turn 21. They are gonna want her to join them and be a typical young person in their 20s. Dating someone that young...you run the risk of them quickly resenting you of taking their youth away. Not saying it can't work, just pointing out obstacles you two may face and that you would need to seriously consider.
Only concern is just that where she is maturity wise and where you are maturity wise. And factor in her friends. That is a huge thing. All her friends will be going out frequently once they turn 21. They are gonna want her to join them and be a typical young person in their 20s. Dating someone that young...you run the risk of them quickly resenting you of taking their youth away. Not saying it can't work, just pointing out obstacles you two may face and that you would need to seriously consider.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:28 pm to lsunurse
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Dating someone that young...you run the risk of them quickly resenting you of taking their youth away. Not saying it can't work, just pointing out obstacles you two may face and that you would need to seriously consider.
If she was that type of person, I wouldn't be interested anyways. I don't want a party girl. Sure, I like to go out and have fun every now and then. And I'd have no problem with her wanting to go out with her friends from time to time. I dang sure would want a guys night out too.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:32 pm to jvilletiger25
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If she was that type of person, I wouldn't be interested anyways
Point is...she is only 19 so you have no idea. Wait until she turns 21 and can actually have that option to go out....and her friends her own age are all going out.
Just saying....you change sooooo much as a person between 19-25.
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And I'd have no problem with her wanting to go out with her friends from time to time.
Remember when you were 20....did you go out with your friends "time to time" or every weekend? Don't try to take that experience from her if that is what she wants. And her dating an older guy at that age....could make her think she really wants to be more settled...then later on she realizes she missed out on a time in her life when she could have been more carefree. Those are the women that go crazy in their 40s, newly divorced and trying to regain what they didn't get to experience in their 20s.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:34 pm to lsunurse
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Only concern is just that where she is maturity wise
oh the myth of female "maturity" - how cute
some of the most vapid, immature women i know are all over 30+ and use facebook daily for ego validation.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:49 pm to lsunurse
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Wait until she turns 21 and can actually have that option to go out....and her friends her own age are all going out.
I went to bars a lot between 18-20
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you change sooooo much as a person between 19-25
I didn't change much if at all.
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Don't try to take that experience from her if that is what she wants. And her dating an older guy at that age....could make her think she really wants to be more settled...then later on she realizes she missed out on a time in her life when she could have been more carefree.
I'm not trying to take anything away from anyone. Like I said, she pursued me. So a woman needs to go out and act like a whore for a few years or she will feel like she missed out on something?
Posted on 6/8/15 at 1:57 pm to jvilletiger25
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I didn't change much if at all.
If that is true...you must still be very immature and that's why you get along so well with someone that young.
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So a woman needs to go out and act like a whore for a few years or she will feel like she missed out on something?
Going out with friends every weekend doesn't mean you are acting like a whore. I was in a committed relationship at that age with someone my age and I didn't "act like a whore". I just wasn't worried about getting married and having kids at 21-22. I was finishing up in school and thinking about all the vacations, fun things I could do/buy once I started making more money.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 2:04 pm to lsunurse
Thoughts on a guy who is 28 and woman who is 21?
I'm hesitant to act.
I'm hesitant to act.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 2:05 pm to DeathValley85
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I'm hesitant to act.
nah, you're good, go for it
Posted on 6/8/15 at 2:06 pm to DeathValley85
I'd say as long as you aren't ready to settle down and marry ...have fun. Proceed with a lil caution...but have fun.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 2:07 pm to Wtodd
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Who cares as long as she's legal.
Posted on 6/8/15 at 2:07 pm to 777Tiger
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nah, you're good, go for it
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