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re: 7 months pron free
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:19 am to Wildcat98USA
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:19 am to Wildcat98USA
Were you already in a relationship before quitting porn?
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:19 am to Wildcat98USA
i read this as 7 months free pron.
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:21 am to MorbidTheClown
I’m the age of smartphones and unlimited data plans it’s weird seeing folks type pron
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:23 am to Krane
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it’s weird seeing folks type pron
you new here?
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:23 am to jmarto1
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Terrible situation. Get yourself a burner phone and an escort
not really man. look its a medical issue with her. If she loves him like it sounds and he loves her like it sounds....very easy to communicate and get it resolved. As i mentioned that may not be sex more than once a week to start and maybe her kissing him while he masturbates but it is not some terrible situation like some of the young guys make it out to be.
cracks me up though....got single 20 somethings on here who act like having sex once a week is some terrible thing and act like its so little yet they are lucky to get laid once a week. Granted theirs is different women but the overall result is the same.
bottomline is if you love your wife and she feels 100% secure with you and its something like a medical issue...can easily be worked on.
now if its something like...you dont get it because you dont speak but 3 words to her all day while you play on TD then you go lay in bed and ask...then get mad when she says no like a child....well thats a totally different deal and the guy needs to work on himself and becoming an attractive partner.
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:28 am to Upperdecker
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There was a time when the internet was for good wholesome things
It still is; self control makes all the difference.
It does bring like interests together.
What amazed me is that nobody I knew gave two shits about audiophile stuff and video gear. That's what happens when growing up in hicksville.
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:33 am to lsu777
I get it. I was being facetious with the post
Posted on 1/10/24 at 12:49 pm to BayouBengal23
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extremely low sex drive
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only having sex once every 1-2 weeks lol
I know this is the OT but IMO every 1-2 weeks doesn’t sound like extremely low although for me the diff between a week and two is big.
For me, 1x/wk is okay, 2x/wk is ideal and 1x/2wks is really pushing being tolerable. I’d say Day 10 (since last) I start getting really bothered about it.
Posted on 1/10/24 at 1:06 pm to Havoc
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I know this is the OT but IMO every 1-2 weeks doesn’t sound like extremely low although for me the diff between a week and two is big.
For me, 1x/wk is okay, 2x/wk is ideal and 1x/2wks is really pushing being tolerable. I’d say Day 10 (since last) I start getting really bothered about it.
yea big difference between 1x per week and every other week.
for me 3-4x is perfect, 2x is a great though.
I consider them wanting less than 2x per week low for a female mid 30s to 50ish(menopause)
if i have to go more than 7 days though i start bitching a little
but it also depends. sounds like his wife is not into even touching him or foreplay in between. i think if they could get a schedule of 1x per week and then agree that some other day during the week she will help him in some form, that would help him be a lot happier.
but all this shite takes work and lots of communication. got to make sure you arent in a mosquito cycle where you do something and expect attention or intimacy in return. lots of work on himself to make sure he is attractive emotionally and that he is warming her up all day, not just tapping her on the shoulder asking for sex or waiting for her to initiate.
is he following the rule of 7 where they are going on date night every 7 days, a night or two alone staying outside the home every 7 weeks and taking a week long vacation every 7 months.
are they praying together and saying prayers for each other? is she getting one every time they have sex? do they need to use toys to spice it up?
lots of questions and even with the medicine im sure there are things he could do to help the situation but sounds like its a no go subject to bring up so sounds like they need counseling so they can get out that there is a disconnect there.
but unless they communicate its not gonna happen. seen this break up many of marriages after about year 10.
Posted on 1/10/24 at 1:31 pm to lsu777
quote:what in the monky frick
yea big difference between 1x per week and every other week. for me 3-4x is perfect, 2x is a great though. I consider them wanting less than 2x per week low for a female mid 30s to 50ish(menopause) if i have to go more than 7 days though i start bitching a little but it also depends. sounds like his wife is not into even touching him or foreplay in between. i think if they could get a schedule of 1x per week and then agree that some other day during the week she will help him in some form, that would help him be a lot happier. but all this shite takes work and lots of communication. got to make sure you arent in a mosquito cycle where you do something and expect attention or intimacy in return. lots of work on himself to make sure he is attractive emotionally and that he is warming her up all day, not just tapping her on the shoulder asking for sex or waiting for her to initiate. is he following the rule of 7 where they are going on date night every 7 days, a night or two alone staying outside the home every 7 weeks and taking a week long vacation every 7 months.
Posted on 1/10/24 at 2:19 pm to jmarto1
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I'm curious to ask those who went through this what were the negative effects when you were deep in it and what changes you saw when you got to the other side?
Wouldn’t say I was ever ‘deep in it’ but in my single days would jerk it to pron pretty regularly. Caught myself not going on dates or simply not as excited for the real thing.
The last straw for me was when a hot chick I had been after surprisingly threw it on me one night and I couldn’t really get it up since having a couple beers but mostly because I had jerked it twice earlier that day. That was the last time we talked.
Stopped then in there and never had that problem again. Also noticed I naturally seemed to be getting a lot of random attention from females after not spanking it for a while. Something in the endorphins or hormones I guess. Can’t explain it but there was a very noticeable difference in communications with the opposite sex.
This post was edited on 1/10/24 at 3:03 pm
Posted on 1/10/24 at 2:48 pm to White Bear
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what in the monky frick
well good luck lasting in a marriage and not have her resent you and just give you duty sex.
its ok though, a healthy and fulfilling marriage isnt for everyone and if you arent willing to work at it...dont expect it to work well.
in all seriousness if your first reaction to that was what in the monkey frick....you are the exact guy im talking about that needs to start doing some self evaluation
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:37 am to BabyTac
Interesting. Women do know when the competition is ramped up but I've never heard what you described. I've never had an issue but the 8 months after Ida were particularly rough for me. I found myself wanting to watch porn more as an escape. Found it interesting I was going to that the way people go to drinking or smoking
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:41 am to FLBooGoTigs1
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10 years pron free here. I have invested my time now helping these poor unfortunate young ladies on Only fans. Makes my soul feel like life is so precious and worth living now.
Improvise
Adapt
Come
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:47 am to lsu777
quote:duty sex the juice just ain’t worth the squeeze anymore, baw. It’s more of a tough man competition that I am going to win.
well good luck lasting in a marriage and not have her resent you and just give you duty sex. its ok though, a healthy and fulfilling marriage isnt for everyone and if you arent willing to work at it...dont expect it to work well. in all seriousness if your first reaction to that was what in the monkey frick....you are the exact guy im talking about that needs to start doing some self evaluation
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