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Those with older kids…how are you preparing them for the future financially?
Posted on 11/4/26 at 2:10 pm
Posted on 11/4/26 at 2:10 pm
Looking for some wisdom/perspective here. Decade plus horizon for kids and college. How are you preparing your kids for that? Are you influencing them towards a certain field or degree? How much 529 are you supporting? Any at all? Unemployment amongst young people raising some alarms for my kids a few decades down the line.
This post was edited on 11/4/26 at 2:11 pm
Posted on 11/4/26 at 2:33 pm to AkronTiger
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How much 529 are you supporting?
Our goal was to have enough for 4 years college costs at any state school, minus out of state. It is up to them where they go, if they have to pay OOS or want to attend a private college, then their options are scholarships or student loans. We the parents are providing 4 years paid to a state level school. That comes out to about $25,000-$35,000 year. The cheaper they make their school through scholarships, the more they keep of their 529.
Our first one into college had scholarships covering tuition and OOS, so just housing and food is being deducted. We will see how the next kid does :)
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Are you influencing them towards a certain field or degree
We tried, but the one in college now that graduated top 10% in Texas and 1400+ SAT is heck bent going into a profession that does not pay well. It at least has low unemployment.
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Unemployment amongst young people raising some alarms for my kids a few decades down the line.
This one is important, do not send your kids to college, just to send them. 529s can be converted to roth-IRA, they may benefit them more than college. If they want a degree in a field with high unemployment or on the AI chopping block, have that conversation about reality with them.
Posted on 11/4/26 at 2:40 pm to AkronTiger
I am mainly doing 2 things to help give them a boost financially.
1. 529 - Contributing $250/month per kid since birth. Should be enough to mostly cover a 4 year public university degree. If they get a scholarship, any money left in the 529 is still theirs to help with other expenses after graduating.
2. Roth IRA - When my older kid started working part-time during high school, I stopped funding his 529 and started funding a Roth IRA. Now he has a good start on retirement savings and it got him interested in saving/investing.
1. 529 - Contributing $250/month per kid since birth. Should be enough to mostly cover a 4 year public university degree. If they get a scholarship, any money left in the 529 is still theirs to help with other expenses after graduating.
2. Roth IRA - When my older kid started working part-time during high school, I stopped funding his 529 and started funding a Roth IRA. Now he has a good start on retirement savings and it got him interested in saving/investing.
Posted on 11/4/26 at 2:51 pm to AkronTiger
Mainly going aggressive on 529's and K12 529's. They should be set for a free ride through college and graduate/med/law school should they choose. Any leftover would be given to their kids with help funding their Roth. Pretty sure there is a limit for what can go to the Roth. Trying to create a legacy where generations won't have to worry about funding higher education.
Also started a brokerage custodial account for them and have been putting a certain amount a month into each account. This money is meant to teach them either financial discipline or a lesson in accountability. They will get the money when they turn into an adult and will be given the choice to blow it or do something smart with it. My hope is they see the growth by small investments and compounding. If they blow it they will see that all that patience and frugality went for nothing, and hopefully it teaches them a lesson.
I will start other accounts in my name but listed as a line item, such as for my daughter's wedding, a down payment on their house. etc.
Also started a brokerage custodial account for them and have been putting a certain amount a month into each account. This money is meant to teach them either financial discipline or a lesson in accountability. They will get the money when they turn into an adult and will be given the choice to blow it or do something smart with it. My hope is they see the growth by small investments and compounding. If they blow it they will see that all that patience and frugality went for nothing, and hopefully it teaches them a lesson.
I will start other accounts in my name but listed as a line item, such as for my daughter's wedding, a down payment on their house. etc.
Posted on 11/4/26 at 3:00 pm to AkronTiger
It's tempting to primarily focus on degrees that can be readily monetized. But keep in mind every kid is different. Some are late bloomers. Although some may have struggled in grade school through high school, college may still have value as a different learning environment. It can be a confidence booster for kids that struggled, a reality check for some, but can still be a valuable path for all to experience regardless of outcome.
I planned to cover college expenses for all my kids. A 529 was great at first, but it was supplemented with gains from other stocks and index funds.
But in terms of preparing them financially, the goal was to get them through the college years without debt. Mission accomplished.
I also wanted them to understand debt was not bad and the goal was to have investments with a higher rate of return than any interest rate on debt. Rate aside, I wanted them to have enough investments so that their annual gains in the market exceeded their annual interest paid in debt.
One step toward financial discipline was to tell them I would match their down payment on their first car, dollar for dollar, with the remaining balance and monthly note to be paid by them. Their car buying Bible would be Consumer Reports so that their focus would be on reliable vehicles. They were each able to handle their car notes independent of me, with all paying off the vehicles in no more than 3 years.
Now I'm encouraging them to use independent insurance brokers to shop around for auto insurance every year.
Once employed, I HIGHLY recommended health savings plans. Mission accomplished.
I planned to cover college expenses for all my kids. A 529 was great at first, but it was supplemented with gains from other stocks and index funds.
But in terms of preparing them financially, the goal was to get them through the college years without debt. Mission accomplished.
I also wanted them to understand debt was not bad and the goal was to have investments with a higher rate of return than any interest rate on debt. Rate aside, I wanted them to have enough investments so that their annual gains in the market exceeded their annual interest paid in debt.
One step toward financial discipline was to tell them I would match their down payment on their first car, dollar for dollar, with the remaining balance and monthly note to be paid by them. Their car buying Bible would be Consumer Reports so that their focus would be on reliable vehicles. They were each able to handle their car notes independent of me, with all paying off the vehicles in no more than 3 years.
Now I'm encouraging them to use independent insurance brokers to shop around for auto insurance every year.
Once employed, I HIGHLY recommended health savings plans. Mission accomplished.
Posted on 11/4/26 at 3:26 pm to AkronTiger
Pretty hard to direct them to specific careers. Just a few years ago everyone would have said computer science and avoid the liberal arts. Now computer science grads cannot find jobs or are getting laid off, and many are reassessing liberal arts majors because they teach you how to think and be adaptable.
I made sure they studied hard and got good grades, went to good colleges and did not have any debt following graduation. It's also important to have a social network who will help if they get laid off and need a job, seek investors, etc...
However, when most pessimistic I figure I will need to work as long as possible in case one or more of them are jobless or underemployed for an extended time and I need to support them. Right now, in fact, my adult daughter was laid off and she is working for me while she tries to find a new job in her preferred field.
I made sure they studied hard and got good grades, went to good colleges and did not have any debt following graduation. It's also important to have a social network who will help if they get laid off and need a job, seek investors, etc...
However, when most pessimistic I figure I will need to work as long as possible in case one or more of them are jobless or underemployed for an extended time and I need to support them. Right now, in fact, my adult daughter was laid off and she is working for me while she tries to find a new job in her preferred field.
Posted on 11/4/26 at 3:33 pm to AkronTiger
we teach them how to earn money and then they learn how to spend it and let them decide what is worth it and what isn't.
Posted on 11/4/26 at 5:14 pm to vistajay
This is all good stuff. Thank you all.
Posted on 11/5/26 at 3:27 am to vistajay
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Pretty hard to direct them to specific careers. Just a few years ago everyone would have said computer science and avoid the liberal arts. Now computer science grads cannot find jobs or are getting laid off, and many are reassessing liberal arts majors because they teach you how to think and be adaptable.
I made sure they studied hard and got good grades, went to good colleges and did not have any debt following graduation. It's also important to have a social network who will help if they get laid off and need a job, seek investors, etc...
Thanks for sharing this.
Posted on 11/5/26 at 6:02 am to vistajay
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It's also important to have a social network who will help if they get laid off and need a job, seek investors, etc...
Wisdom to go by. Its not about being the smartest in the room. Its about knowing the people smarter than you or someone specialized in a certain field, and being able to relate with them.
Years ago there was a top dog in our field who was very young compared to his peers and had much less field experience. He was a savvy guy though. He was like a CEO. He knew general knowledge on how everything worked but he heavily relied on knowledgeable people under him. His asset was bringing everyone together, getting resources for them, morale boosting, sticking up for them when mistakes were made, etc. He was a leader. Everyone respected him even though people on his level were more knowledgeable with nitty gritty tasks/operations.
Posted on 11/5/26 at 6:31 am to AkronTiger
Have been through this with 3 kids. First, make sure college is right for him/her. Many kids now are going straight into a trade and skipping college and the financial burden it can cause.
In college, the more specific with a major a student can get the better. Accounting, engineering, education, etc all guarantee a job. The generic degrees make it tougher to find a decent job.
In college, the more specific with a major a student can get the better. Accounting, engineering, education, etc all guarantee a job. The generic degrees make it tougher to find a decent job.
Posted on 11/5/26 at 8:56 am to JackandWater
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In college, the more specific with a major a student can get the better. Accounting, engineering, education, etc all guarantee a job. The generic degrees make it tougher to find a decent job.
Ya this seems to be an important conversation to have. Making sure they’re informed on the risks and benefits of going to college and choosing a specific degree path based on their goals in life.
Money Guys article on college degrees

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