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Forbes: Why Getting Comfortable With Discomfort Is Crucial To Success

Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:33 am
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:33 am
i'm posting this article in response to anyone defending the "comfort" angle of hiring SE as OC. comfort is often your enemy and inhibits your growth. comfort is a crutch that we rely on to avoid taking risks, which means we never take a chance at development. the author does a good job of offering a checklist that i think applies very well to Ed Orgeron as head coach at LSU

quote:

Throughout our careers we must continually assess whether we are letting our fear of failure or losing face keep us from taking the actions, and engaging in the conversations, that will move us forward and make the impact we want. Again and again, we have to decide:


quote:

Do I keep doing what’s always been done, or challenge old assumptions ad try new approaches to problems?

Do I proactively seek new challenges or just manage those I already have?

Do I risk being exposed and vulnerable, or act to protect my pride and patch of power?

Do I ask for what I really want, or just for what I think others want to give me?

Do I 'toot my horn' to ensure others know what I'm capable of, or just hope my efforts will be noticed?

Do I speak my mind or bite my lip, lest I ruffle feathers or subject myself to criticism?


Coach O is clearly trying to do what he's always done and he's avoiding trying new approaches to problems

Coach O is clearly trying to just manage the challenges he faces

Coach O is clearly protecting his pride and patch of power

Coach O is clearly telling us what he thinks we want him to give us (last year was particularly comical)

Coach O is clearly "tooting his own horn" because "We comin'" and "I'm da head coach"

And I'll give O credit. He's making statements and decisions that are ruffling feathers, just not the feathers of his loyal propagandists, facebook moms, and the "one of us" crowd

quote:

Too often we let our mistakes and setbacks define us. Yet, as Dr Martin Seligman, the founder of Positive Psychology once said, “It’s not our failures that determine our future success, but how we explain them to ourselves.”


Orgeron clearly knew what his mistakes at Ole Miss were and lied to the fanbase by promising he understood those mistakes. however, as this quote brilliantly and succinctly states, it's not the mistakes that define us. O understands the mistakes. O understands why they're bad. however, when faced with the same issues again he's falling back into the same pattern b/c he's not being honest with himself about his limitations and preferences. he's lying to himself that his problems aren't what they are, so he's reverting back to the behaviors of his past failures

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In our ever more cautious and competitive world, there is little security in playing safe. Being willing to give up the familiarity of the known and embrace the discomfort that comes from being outside your comfort zone is increasingly crucial to your success in work and life.


another example is the Canada disaster. OK so O completely fricked up his first OC hire and it led to disaster behind the scenes. does O be honest about the assessment of what the problems are, or does he lie to himself about it and revert back to his comfort zone? O did go outside of his comfort zone and it didn't work out. that doesn't mean the issue was being aggressive and seeking change. it just means that there was an issue in executing the plan. the plan was fine.

this is for another discussion, but you're either process-oriented or results-oriented. it's clear that O is results-oriented completely. that means that we have a fundamental deficiency in our core, because O does not have an overall philosophy that the team is molded after. O is making moves to try to secure results in the short-term with no real consistency or rhyme/reason. again, just look at the Canada hire/fire/replacement trifecta. if O had a plan, he's abandoned it for short-term comfort and safety. that means we never had a real plan in the first place
Posted by Lazy But Talented
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:37 am to
awesome sig pic
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:39 am to
SPEEDY started the "AARP Raid Offense" stuff. i just stole it
Posted by The Mick
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:03 am to
Lots of effort went into this. Commendations to you.
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:08 am to
You know what's telling to me?

In relation to the Canada hire. OK. So, apparently, dude is a pain to work with.

Well, that shite can't be some giant secret in college football.

Between that and now, tells you that for O, his ability to attract coaches seems ENTIRELY predicated on them already being in his circle. Or, he'll have to take damaged goods.

Just ANOTHER reason you don't hire someone with NO CREDIBILITY as you HC.

I guarantee you that if any of the HCs that were in the playoffs have a coordinator opening, they'll have coaches from around the nation LOBBYING for the job.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422393 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:10 am to
quote:

In relation to the Canada hire. OK. So, apparently, dude is a pain to work with.

Well, that shite can't be some giant secret in college football.

the CheeriOs don't really comprehend that if Canada was as big of a failure/disaster as they are claiming (to protect O), then it shows a complete failure of the interview/vetting/hiring process last year. they too lack process-oriented thinking and are jst trying to get out as many immediate defenses of O regardless of logic, history, or placement in the bigger picture

Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:12 am to
quote:

the CheeriOs don't really comprehend that if Canada was as big of a failure/disaster as they are claiming (to protect O), then it shows a complete failure of the interview/vetting/hiring process last year. they too lack process-oriented thinking and are jst trying to get out as many immediate defenses of O regardless of logic, history, or placement in the bigger picture



Which goes back to what people like me said last fall.

Being a HC in college ball is about a LOT more than what fricking happens between Sept-Jan on the field. That's why a lot of VERY good coaches fail as HCs.

The dude has NEVER......EVER.........shown he can be THE guy and run a program. In fact, he's showing something. It wasn't fricking good and now, we're seeing it again.
Posted by logjamming
Member since Feb 2014
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:12 am to
I guess you missed the memo:




We comin’.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:30 am to
quote:

So, apparently, dude is a pain to work with.


You know who else is a huge pain to work with? The angry little man from West Virginia.

And, you know who else? The angry guy who coaches the Patriots.
This post was edited on 1/10/18 at 7:31 am
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:36 am to
quote:

You know who else is a huge pain to work with? The angry little man from West Virginia.



I wasn't passing judgement.

I'm pointing out that if you're hiring a guy, you're supposed to fricking evaluate such things and, it probably wasn't a secret. If you didn't think you could deal with it, then it's YOUR failure if you hire him.

My arrow was at O as just another example of why you don't hire a guy who hasn't proven he can be IN CHARGE.

Being in charge means being able to assess hires that are both competent AND compatible with you.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422393 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 8:17 am to
quote:

I'm pointing out that if you're hiring a guy, you're supposed to fricking evaluate such things and, it probably wasn't a secret. If you didn't think you could deal with it, then it's YOUR failure if you hire him.

that's why it's funny to ask the CherriOs if they'll admit Orgeron was a huge failure last year when he hired Canada (which is usually very nice to ask after they dump on Canada in order to promote O). you don't get it both ways

i agree Canada seems to have been a really bad fit

however

1. hiring him was therefore terrible
2. giving him that contract was inexcusable

remember, it's not just that O hired a terrible fit that threw our team into chaos to the point where he was already hiring a new OC in a year (Which completely defeats the purpose of his CEO strategy). it's that he made Canada the HIGHEST PAID OFFENSIVE COORDINATOR IN THE NATION
Posted by Choupique19
The cheap seats
Member since Sep 2005
61813 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 8:46 am to
quote:

Being a HC in college ball is about a LOT more than what fricking happens between Sept-Jan on the field. That's why a lot of VERY good coaches fail as HCs.

The dude has NEVER......EVER.........shown he can be THE guy and run a program. In fact, he's showing something. It wasn't fricking good and now, we're seeing it again.



100% correct.

This is why "interim coach" wins don't mean much on the large scale. O is a great interim coach, but that doesn't translate into being the permanent guy.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 9:08 am to
O is so far outside the norms that it could be framed he is a trendsetter.

I will say that he is making these changes in the face of what he knows will be incredible backlash.
Posted by N.O. via West-Cal
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2004
7178 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 9:11 am to
"if O had a plan, he's abandoned it for short-term comfort and safety. that means we never had a real plan in the first place."

Very hard to argue with this. What O is doing might work out but it is not calculated to do so. Heck, buying lottery tickets instead of investing in your 401(k) might work out out as a retirement "plan," but it's not likely.
Posted by themunch
Earth. maybe
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 9:15 am to
“Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.” African Proverb
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422393 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 9:23 am to
quote:

Heck, buying lottery tickets instead of investing in your 401(k) might work out out as a retirement "plan," but it's not likely.

Very good example for results-oriented vs. process-oriented thinking
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
6994 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 9:40 am to
quote:

Do I keep doing what’s always been done, or challenge old assumptions ad try new approaches to problems? Do I proactively seek new challenges or just manage those I already have? Do I risk being exposed and vulnerable, or act to protect my pride and patch of power? Do I ask for what I really want, or just for what I think others want to give me? Do I 'toot my horn' to ensure others know what I'm capable of, or just hope my efforts will be noticed? Do I speak my mind or bite my lip, lest I ruffle feathers or subject myself to criticism?


In EVERY walk of life, the answers to these questions is what separates doers from followers.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422393 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 11:48 am to
quote:

In EVERY walk of life, the answers to these questions is what separates doers from followers.

i agree the article is not about coaching but i tried to apply it to coaching
Posted by Tiger1988
Houston
Member since May 2016
24328 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 12:04 pm to
Thanks for posting this!

The mentally challenged or those paid to post the hundres of pro O/ LSU doesn’t suck are really a detriment to LSU. They are the worse.

Here is a dated article about Alabama and the economics of college football. They are now nearly 50000 students with average act scores close to 30 for entering freshman. Mark Emmert understood this. I’m convinced Fieldon Alexander hasn’t a freaking clue.
Bama football and economics
We need to attract better students and particularly more from out of state to raise revenue for the school if we are going to ever become somewhat immune to budget cuts from lack of state support due to the decline in revenue from the industry.
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