Heading to Phoenix / Scottsdale, restaurant recommendations?

So far, this is what I have gathered. Which restaurant am I missing? Which should I exclude (from list below)?

Scottsdale

• Bandera (same place as the one I visited in Chicago / appears to be a small chain, similar to Houston’s or J Alexanders)
• Pig & Pickle
• The Blind Pig
• Citizen’s Public House
• Roaring Fork (have a location that I have visited in Austin near Arboretum, may be a chain?)
• Hopdoddy Burger Bar (have a location that I have visited in Austin and Dallas – may be a chain?)
• Delfaco’s Italian Grocery
• Oregano’s

Phoenix

• Steak 44
• The Capital Grille (quality chain, have eaten at location in Naples, FL and Houston)
• Hillstone (appears similar to Houston, J Alexanders or Bandera)
• Wright’s at the Biltmore (Chocolate Soufflé)
• The Arrogant Butcher

We're staying at the Arizona Biltmore and will be celebrating our wedding anniversary in August. So one night, I would like to go to a "nicer, upscale" restaurant for this occasion. My wife is more of a meat and potatoes lady, as she will shy away from restaurants that serve seafood that aren't located in Louisiana.