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re: Are you good with going in a restaurant right before it’s scheduled to close?

Posted on 5/30/25 at 7:52 pm to
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 5/30/25 at 7:52 pm to
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You still a server bruh?


Imagine being almost 40 years old, still a staff engineer and acting like this.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/30/25 at 10:47 pm to
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Can you not address what I’ve asked?


I've adresed it several times. Yes, there are plenty
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/30/25 at 10:48 pm to
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and acting like this.


Acting like sometimes you have do to do things you don't want to at work? Go back to whining about all the fancy beaches you've been to.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 5/31/25 at 7:23 am to
I don’t see how it’s a tough concept to understand that if you do something intentionally that you know will inconvenience another person (and yes working late is an inconvenience), you are an a-hole. I’m not even looking at this from the perspective of the server, the server knows that they will have to work late at times. I’m looking at it from the perspective of a customer who is being inconsiderate of the way that their behavior affects other people. If you don’t understand that, then I guess you’re just an a-hole
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 5/31/25 at 7:42 am to
If the hours are until 10:00pm, then people can be seated until 10:00pm.

If they want to post that seating guests ends at 9:00pm, then do that.

It is not complicated, and the customers should not be expected to figure these things out.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/31/25 at 8:48 am to
Sorry you had to do your job. I'll pray for you
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20716 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 8:55 am to
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it just shows a lack of understanding of social norms and what should and should not be acceptable.

Why should should people going to restaurants have to understand these ambiguous social norms, causing grief to poor restaurant staff, when this could all be cleared up by the actual restaurants really easily?

Does every restaurant follow these same social norms? What if they are regulars at other restaurants that happily let them stay behind the poster closing time becuase they tip well? Why is this ambiguity burden placed on millions of customers when restaurants can easily just let guests know exactly what they want them to adhere to?
This post was edited on 5/31/25 at 8:58 am
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 5/31/25 at 9:05 am to
I don’t think it’s ambiguous, but I’m also not autistic

And I’ve never worked in the restaurant business, so it’s not like this is some sort of inside info. It’s just common sense.
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20716 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 9:29 am to
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It’s just common sense.

Again. Why the need for unwritten rules?
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82240 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 9:46 am to
Well

My meme won’t load. Fail.
This post was edited on 5/31/25 at 10:33 am
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 5/31/25 at 9:51 am to
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Why the need for unwritten rules?


Because we live in a society lol
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20716 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 10:04 am to
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Because we live in a society lol

A society that would cause less grief for all parties if restaurants just made it clear what they wanted and didn’t want lol
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 5/31/25 at 10:55 am to
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If the hours are until 10:00pm, then people can be seated until 10:00pm.

If they want to post that seating guests ends at 9:00pm, then do that.

It is not complicated, and the customers should not be expected to figure these things out.




Completely agree with this. That being said, the courtesy should be there that if you were in the employee's shoes you would want to get home as well. My personal cut off time is an hour before as I know they still have closing duties that are not completed
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20716 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 11:25 am to
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That being said, the courtesy should be there that if you were in the employee's shoes you would want to get home as well

Why are we making the public the ones that need to figure these details out? What if the customer believes that everyone stays an hour after closing time no matter what to do stuff finished?
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personal cut off time is an hour before as I know they still have closing duties that are not completed

I workd at a grocery store in college. Some got to leave right at closing and some had to stay and do closing duties.

Why are we making it the customers responsibility to know all these details behind the scenes?
This post was edited on 5/31/25 at 11:37 am
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36400 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 12:11 pm to
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Why are we making the public the ones that need to figure these details out? What if the customer believes that everyone stays an hour after closing time no matter what to do stuff finished?
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Something that is lost in American society is mindfulness. You do it just because you decided to think about someone else's needs and not your own.
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20716 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 12:15 pm to
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Something that is lost in American society is mindfulness. You do it just because you decided to think about someone else's needs and not your own.

That doesn’t answer my question at all.

Why is it on the customer to know the staffing details of the restaurant behind the scenes?
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/31/25 at 12:35 pm to
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You do it just because you decided to think about someone else's needs and not your own.


Why does their need to shut the kitchen down early outweigh a late diner's need to eat at a restaurant that is open?
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20716 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 3:26 pm to
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You do it just because you decided to think about someone else's needs and not your own.

The guests should have this mindset but the staff should not? What makes the staff so special?
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36400 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 3:38 pm to
This isn't some hard line that people are expected to follow. It's like that meme about return the cart. You dont have to do it but you can if you want to think about the other people around you. My restaurant seats and serves until the time on the door. That is the bottom line in all lf this.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67999 posts
Posted on 5/31/25 at 3:44 pm to
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Again. Why the need for unwritten rules?


I would tell you the rule for unwritten rules but really you should know it and I don’t want to write it down
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