re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people

He was with her at the time. She was in the background. Plus prior to that, he had been calling me, telling me to back off, etc. I believe originally one of her friends gave it to him. And no, I'm not insinuating that it was a "bad arse move" at all. All I'm saying is that if he hadn't called that day - if she had done it instead the way I stated earlier - then he never would've gotten told what I told him.

Not to mention the face that she considered them broken up at the time, so technically, although they had been in a longterm relationship, he wasn't her boyfriend.