re: Going on a date with a divorced chick (UPDATE page 37)

Assuming you’ve actually taken everyone’s responses seriously and realize its not a good idea to continue seeing her, but are still wrestling with the idea of calling her and ending it tonight- ask yourself 2 questions:

1) If you’re wanting to stay exclusive with this girl, have you confirmed whether she’s deactivated her bumble/other online dating accounts?

2) How are you going to react when it happens again? (Because it definitely will).

Even if this girl actually were legit wife material, there is a reason she’s divorced and you're not getting the whole story.

Additionally, it’s pretty obvious that she isn’t ready to be in a serious relationship with anyone right now. She’s looking for an emotional crutch (You) and is seeking attention from other men than the person she literally just committed to exclusively seek attention from...

Your past relationship misdeeds (whatever they may have been) and her failed marriage have no bearing on your current situation. She violated the terms of your arrangement and will do so again given the opportunity.

I hope you will heed your brain, rather than your heart or your pecker when you make that call this evening.