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re: Friend's friend committed suicide over China virus.
Posted on 4/13/20 at 10:53 pm to Celery
Posted on 4/13/20 at 10:53 pm to Celery
Not justifying, rationalizing, or saying it's OK... and not me, but someone I used to know
Sometimes you hit a certain age where you're still working, or trying to, and wake up to the fact that your most productive years are behind you. But you still have obligations and family to support. Then an income drought prolongs to the point where your savings evaporate, options dwindle and you realize that you're worth more dead than alive due to a life insurance policy.
I've heard many times that suicide is a selfish act, but is it really when it's undertaken not as an escape, but so that others may benefit from the insurance proceeds when you can't provide for your family directly. I never realized this but most life insurance policies will still pay out for suicide after the first few years of the policy life have passed.
Owl please don't read this as endorsement of this path, that's not my intent. My only point is to others here that you don't really know what you'll do until faced with a set of circumstances and it's foolish to say "never" until/unless you have. I knew a guy like that and he expounded on his insight of his decision to me as described above.
..I need a drink now
Sometimes you hit a certain age where you're still working, or trying to, and wake up to the fact that your most productive years are behind you. But you still have obligations and family to support. Then an income drought prolongs to the point where your savings evaporate, options dwindle and you realize that you're worth more dead than alive due to a life insurance policy.
I've heard many times that suicide is a selfish act, but is it really when it's undertaken not as an escape, but so that others may benefit from the insurance proceeds when you can't provide for your family directly. I never realized this but most life insurance policies will still pay out for suicide after the first few years of the policy life have passed.
Owl please don't read this as endorsement of this path, that's not my intent. My only point is to others here that you don't really know what you'll do until faced with a set of circumstances and it's foolish to say "never" until/unless you have. I knew a guy like that and he expounded on his insight of his decision to me as described above.
..I need a drink now
This post was edited on 4/13/20 at 10:53 pm
Posted on 4/13/20 at 10:54 pm to Presidio
quote:this is true
options dwindle and you realize that you're worth more dead than alive due to a life insurance policy.
Posted on 4/14/20 at 12:00 am to Presidio
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I've heard many times that suicide is a selfish act, but is it really when it's undertaken not as an escape, but so that others may benefit from the insurance proceeds when you can't provide for your family directly.
I've known several kids whose parent committed suicide.
You cannot leave enough money behind to cover for the feeling that somehow the kids were responsible. That if they had done XY or Z that mom or dad would still be alive. Worse than that is their feeling of not being loved by a parent, who chose death over them
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