re: Any males on here have a positive experience with a divorce?

Crazy reading this stuff I’m not alone. High school sweetheart been married 22 yrs 2 kids in middle school (girls). She has never allowed me or grandparents to baby sit the kids ever. I was never allowed to build relationships with them because she is so controlling of them and has to be up there arse 24/7. She has a degree but has been out of workforce for 13 years She stayed at home. She changed I changed and it’s consistent fighting in front of kids. She insist we bring them in arguments because we’re a family. Been sleeping in spare bedroom for 6 months now. I told her I was done and leaving and she insist The least I can do is stay living like this (in her words roommates) for the next 2 years so she can go back to school and change careers. Then we can split when she gets her feet under her. What u think?